[evildouble102]

I'll try and be short but there's a lot...
I was in the psych ward for two weeks. No one initiated a call period only called me back. My Dad and stepmom came to my house on their day off to check onmy cat and dog. Before I left I filled their dishes and left the ac on for them so they would be comfy and what not have plenty of food, water and stuff for the dog to use (she was a breeder dog and didnt know anything outside of a kennel when I got her; so she's paper trained). They picked up after the dog, fed them, my dad broke into my shed to mow the lawn so I wouldn't have to pay 35 bucks for the park to mow my lawn instead of coming up fo r few minutes to see me to get the key to the shed or make an extra. Well I left my computer on this site and maybe something else not sure. They read things about "my adventures" telling my sister suppposedly that I put an ad out for casual sex and that I got an answer. they went thru this account apparently. And I was told my stepmom was upset that I was questioning whether her love for me was trully unconditional or not. So I asked so she thinks I'm a *****? the reply I got from my dad was yup and I'mnot too far behind. He basically ended up hanging up on me. And in another call I made it was that I was two faced expecting things family does for eachother when I talk about them on basically what amounts as an online psycho newspaper is what I was told. All my providers said they were wrong in looking at this stuff. But they argued it was public domain and I had no right to say what I said.... so I havent seen my dad, stepmom or two little brothers in over 3 weeks. I don't know how to make amends with my stepmom bc how can I? She has issues anyway I think but I heard the way they talk about my twin and it makes me tearful but I'm sure they do it about me too.

[Rhapsody]

<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font>

I am so SORRY that you going thru this and I know what you are feeling for I have been there done that - I just know that family members can be so shallow at times.

In a case like this one I will have to say that YOU must give it TIME and allow for a lot of UNDERSTANDING, from both sides of the fence.
Work on getting your self better and in time you can work on fixing the broken relationship you have with your father and step-mother.

[evildouble102]

Thanks so much Rhapsody! It means a lot to me; ur opinion and advice). I know it's gonna take time it just sucks cause I can't stand people being upset with me and then I havent' seen them and they couldn't call once to see how I was, I mean they knew the numbers and stuff.... It just really hurts you know. and them implying that I'm a sleaze or whatever that makes me feel great too.

[bebop]

I agree that time is needed here but they had no right to go into your computer. I would be furious! (((hugs)))

[evildouble102]

They justified it as I left it on, and they were basically doing me a big favor. And how this is public domain and should't write anything like I did because "it's no one's biz". Hate it.

[nothemama8]

hoping your feeling better, maybe you should start a blog and have it password safe then they can't read what you write

[evildouble102]

How does that work?... Like I like writing in the forums can I still do that?
And then who can read my blog? It's an idea worth looking into I guess.

[TYMBERWOLV]

Evil

here is my best opinion on this matter. Even though the parents was doing you a favor they still didnt have the right to read what you havew written in the forums. Also what you write here is just your opinions or your feelings at the moment the thought was created . My mother in law read my wife's journals like 5 years after she moved out. The mother in law was furious but that how the wife felt about hewr at that time . Furthermore we have a right to our opinions and when the dust settles hopefully u can salvage the relationship with the step mom. The mother in lkaw reading the journal changed the life of my wife's lil sister also cos the MIL changed how she treated her.


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