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Oct 03, 2007, 08:58 AM
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It was 8AM I am dressed for work, the kids are getting themselves ready for school, and I am sitting on the deck talking with my step-daughter about a family get-together this weekend. Right in the middle of my conversation my husband walks up rubs his hands all over my chest, squeezes me and walks away???
Who was this act for? Was I supposed to get aroused by this? Did he just look up from the table see a pair of boobs and felt like touching them? Was I supposed to think-- oh how wonderful my husband loves my body, I am so appreciated! Or was that his way of saying-- lets drop everything I need a quickie before the kids are done brushing their teeth? Honestly I just felt like I was groped. I know my attitude is likely totally wrong and if I am going to find a way to have a happy marriage I need to change it. But damn! That act did not get my morning off to a good start.
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Oct 03, 2007, 09:43 AM
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YIKES!!! Now isn't that interesting????
I think I would be more upset that he did it right in front of one of the kids too. That was pretty disrespectful on a number of different levels. I don't blame you for being upset. Hope the rest of your day goes well! Hugsss sabby |
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Oct 03, 2007, 02:31 PM
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I hope your stepdaughter wasn't there watching, was on the phone or something???
I think I might have reached between his legs and given him a little squeeze. . . with a twist!
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Oct 03, 2007, 02:35 PM
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Sorry my post was a bit mis-leading. I was talking on the phone to my step daughter--he didn't do it in front of any one. I was just aggravated because he just grabs at me sometimes. A quick shoulder rub or hug would have been fine. Tweaking the the breasts annoyed me.
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Oct 03, 2007, 03:45 PM
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When my husband accidentally does something that is uncomfortable or I don't like I say, "Ouch" which gets him to stop right away. If your husband is at all sensitive to how you feel, that is what works for me. I don't like "surprise" sometimes.
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