Woah, really?

The superego handles the right or wrong of your concerns then. Its content is supplied by parental dos and don'ts, academic learning, religious conviction, federal, state and municipal laws, etc., etc., etc., and so on and so forth. The baser instinct is the Id. Its content is supplied by basic needs of eating, sleeping, defecation, urination, and getting one's genes into the gene pool etc., etc.,etc. The ego mediates between the two and in this case might go to the higher power for the correct answer. If the ego fails to act, then the id is positively apt to take control--it is the "animal instinct." Ever heard the phrase, "you animal"? That's where it likely came from.

I think my failed marriage, due to emotional abuse, CEN, and disagreement with a large amount of rules imposed by others has killed my superego. Id and ego have taken control. I don't want to fight them and I don't think I'm very in tune with what I should be. I'm disconnected from what I should do by what I want to do. Hmm. Maybe the meditation tonight will help with this mess of me?

9 hours ? And your not sure about her?

Why not wait and see if she’s serious about it? Are you going to be okay no matter if it’s a good or bad?

As long as you both are consenting adults nothing wrong if you guys wanna have some fun

I decided to take this as it comes. If it happens, then it happens. No issues either way.