maybe I am the one at fault

I am sorry I haven't been on in a while, but my life keeps sending me things that are more than I can handle.
I have always been a good person. I am always there for my friends. I am always there for my family. I will do anything for my bf. The issue I have is that they seem to forget that I am a person who needs to be respected. My friends are only there for the good times, and my bf tolerates my mood swings, but never trys to fix the problems that he causes. I am constantly stepped on. I figure it may be that due to being a very insecure person, I just try to hard to please and that maybe it's all my fault that I conditioned these people to treat me a certian way, so that now when I try to tell them that I don't like the way I am being treated they don't see a problem. Am I right? If so, how do I fix it without cutting all the people in my life and start over?

gpg

In my opinion, you need to have some serious talks with your bf and other friends. They may not see a problem, but you obviously do. You need to tell them... with "I statements". Set your boundaries.