Not wearing a bra. Is my mom correct?

Honestly some people do live nude. They have nudist colonies and neighborhoods. I’m not comfortable completely nude because I have some body issues. However as long as your husband were to warn the delivery people of his preferences then I see no issue. They can the decide from there if they want to come in or not.

As for underwear not being good for you I disagree. Purely because of germs. And I know for women we secrete stuff. But to each their own in what risks they choose to take.

Also there’s a big difference between having a penis out and not wearing a bra. Boobs are not used for sexual reproduction so they really shouldn’t be viewed as sexual object unless that’s your kink and you’re in the bedroom/whenever you have sex.

So you are saying all men use their private parts for procreation and that’s why it’s sexual? I beg to differ. What about gay men not using it for procreation, what about men who don’t even have sex at all, aren’t fertile or have erectile dysfunction or whatever other issues etc Also most certainly gay women don’t see men’s privates as any kind sexual thing so I guess it’s ok for men to walk naked around gay women. Hhm

See that’s the thing my husband isn’t a nudist he just likes to go around the house naked a lot because he is hot all the time. And it’s just me and him. He’d never dream of going around naked when anyone else is in
the house. Most people exercise decency when they are not in
a private setting. People wear pajamas and robes and underwear and masks on
their face and towels around their waste around their families or whoever they live with. But most people prefer to look decent when they are visited by whoever. Sure some people look like slobs at all times but let’s not use them as role models

So besides exercising one’s rights to be comfy most reasonable people also exercise common sense of looking decent around other people.

You never fail to make me laugh. Haha

My husband is the hairiest man I’ve ever met and he is always always hot. So reasons for him going naked a lot (well I exaggerated, it is not all the time) is just him being hot all the time. I am always cold so there is that mismatch, i am dressed like I am in Arctic most of the year haha

Thanks everyone. Hugs

I wear sports bras at home. My ladies just plain hurt if left just hanging around lol

Personally if someone was coming I’d have a proper bra on, but that’s just me and how I roll

To clarify a bit better, I wasn’t literally put on the street. She just said ‘don’t come back’ and I simply didn’t. I was safe and at college in another town, not too far. It’s just that she never called me again. I didn’t ask for more money, there was some in my account. I didn’t spend much, as college was paid that semester with food.

Just to let you know I don't regret the choices I've made. I'm bipolar and I'm very opinionated and I moved out of my parents house when I was 16 and we don't speak to each other and I'm fine with that. They called me broken and didn't love me for who I really was.

I can't live the way they wanted and I didn't agree with them about anything. There's a line between loving them or just wanting to control you. Thats something you'll have to find out. I hope your mom can accept that you have a different view than hers.

If it was required for men to wear a cape like superman well I'll be the outcast because I'm not going to wear it. Even if people look at me crazy I don't care because that's just who I am and I'm going to do what I want. I cant be controlled and don't need anyone telling me what's acceptable or not.

Im a Vegan thats also a feminist supporter and i fight for civil rights for everyone, equality for all!! Regardless of mental health, race, gender, or who people want to marry, I'm bipolar 1 and I'm a equal to everyone else in the world.

I hope you live your life the way you want and are happy. Bra or no bra.

My boobs are too big to go without a bra. I even sleep with one because I need the support. However, if they were smaller, I probably wouldn't wear one.

Exactly. That’s what I was saying. Women with small breasts just don’t know how it is when they insist how healthy and comfy it’s not to wear a bra. And no doctor would tell a woman with very large breasts that it’s awesome for her health/back/shoulder to walk around with no bra. Breast reduction surgery exist for a reason.

And my boobs are too small to keep a bra in place! Either the shoulder straps keep slipping down or the band keeps slipping up (whether its too loose OR too tight, doesnt matter!) or the underwire digs in. Or the material is hot. Or people can see your nipples anyway. So wth. Let me breathe!

Eta - lee van cleef would look funny in a bra anyway...

And that surgery I have had. I'll tell you, there used to be imprints on my shoulders and looking back, glad that I did because there were 30 cysts, benign, but gosh darn it all it was cystic mass. I prefer sports bras myself and maybe the comfort is residual but it feels not uncomfortable having something on. Which really stinks to see this thread take such a life of it's own. Mid 40s and no signs of those blasted chest wrinkles....you know the ones...*knock on wood*

After reading all of these posts I think if you want to wear a bra then wear a bra 24/7. I might just go wear a bra too just for chits and grins. That doesn't mean every woman should have to. My preference to wear a bra or not is my decision and not a federal or state law that requires anyone to wear one. I'm a man and if I want to wear makeup, dress, bra, and high heels that's my preference and if company doesn't like or want me to dress like a woman I dont give a damn. It's my home and who I invite to my house will see me in anything I choose to dress or not dress in. I'm I going to shame all men that doesnt wear makeup? It covers the imperfections and smooths the lines and some makeup I've seen is quite astonishing.

Back on track here. It's a social issue and nothing else. You wear Jean's and tshirts braless or dress like its 1950 and act like a stepford wife. Whatever you choose is your choice on how you want to live. It sadness me seeing yet again people telling other people "HOW THEY HAVE TO LIVE" Or get shamed because you're different.

If it's not your life it's not your choice. Worry about and make your choices and live how you want and stop shaming others for being different than you.

Peace.

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