Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #76  
Old Jun 22, 2021, 06:13 AM
mssweatypalms's Avatar
mssweatypalms mssweatypalms is offline
Member
 
Member Since: May 2021
Location: middle of nowhere
Posts: 242
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
I understand, but no one told me that younger users can't voice their opinions on the topic.
Yeah, no one said that. But, there are no rules that say people can't disagree with you either.
Thanks for this!
ArtleyWilkins, eskielover, RoxanneToto, Werewoman

advertisement
  #77  
Old Jun 22, 2021, 04:37 PM
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes Open Eyes is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 23,288
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
I understand, but no one told me that younger users can't voice their opinions on the topic.
Nothing wrong in sharing your opinion.

Yes in your piers at your age there often is an emphasis on looks. That slowly changes with time as what becomes more and more important is personality and actually enjoying the person you are in a relationship with.
  #78  
Old Jun 22, 2021, 05:18 PM
eskielover's Avatar
eskielover eskielover is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,080
Quote:
Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
Nothing wrong in sharing your opinion.

Yes in your piers at your age there often is an emphasis on looks. That slowly changes with time as what becomes more and more important is personality and actually enjoying the person you are in a relationship with.
There are some people who always want to stay the "playboy".....who will always stay in the "looks is most important "category no matter how old they get because true relationships are just not for them.
__________________


Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
Thanks for this!
mssweatypalms, Open Eyes, RoxanneToto, Werewoman
  #79  
Old Jun 22, 2021, 06:47 PM
Open Eyes's Avatar
Open Eyes Open Eyes is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Mar 2011
Location: Northeast USA
Posts: 23,288
Quote:
Originally Posted by eskielover View Post


There are some people who always want to stay the "playboy".....who will always stay in the "looks is most important "category no matter how old they get because true relationships are just not for them.
Yes! This is true!
Hugs from:
eskielover
Thanks for this!
Werewoman
  #80  
Old Jun 26, 2021, 03:21 PM
sarahsweets's Avatar
sarahsweets sarahsweets is offline
Threadtastic Postaholic
 
Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
Quote:
Originally Posted by leomama View Post
Ok hang on, I’m one of the “beautiful people” and I just told my ex boyfriend who’s also quite handsome tonight that I felt lonely. I hate to say this but there’s a certain kind of problem that comes with being a beautiful person, outer, not inner. And consequently it’s how I got into a relationship with someone who interiorly isn’t right for me: “looks”.
Now I know I could not compete with someone half my age in the looks department because there’s a certain beauty that comes with youth, so I would say it’s harder to be an older “beautiful “ person. I just read an article about salma Hayek and the pressure to stay thin even though the body changes as it ages…

I agree. I’m confident in saying that I think I’m attractive. I’m 46 I think I look good. I’m trying to embrace aging in a delicate way. It happens I can’t stop it but I might as well look good doing it LOL.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
"I carried a watermelon?"

President of the no F's given society.
Thanks for this!
leomama
  #81  
Old Jun 26, 2021, 03:25 PM
leomama's Avatar
leomama leomama is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Feb 2014
Location: USA
Posts: 4,703
Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post


I agree. I’m confident in saying that I think I’m attractive. I’m 46 I think I look good. I’m trying to embrace aging in a delicate way. It happens I can’t stop it but I might as well look good doing it LOL.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

I don’t think I’m attractive or not attractive, however I’m told I’m beautiful. For me it’s about owning being beautiful to other people and what that means. It means I try to take care of my appearance, I don’t always succeed.
  #82  
Old Jun 26, 2021, 03:35 PM
eskielover's Avatar
eskielover eskielover is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,080
Lol....out on my farm mowing my fields & chain sawing wood & clearing brush, my critters don't care what I look like as long as "food lady" gives them food & talks nice to them.

I am guessing my personality must be ok because every where I go I get into great conversations with people on such a wide variety of topics & I have my close friends who are better than family ever was.

Bottom line....not interested in having a relationship with anyone who becomes a permanent part of my personal space so I have a take me as I am or leave me if you don't like it kinda attitude with life. Working so far for me.
__________________


Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
Hugs from:
Werewoman
  #83  
Old Jun 26, 2021, 03:46 PM
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,472
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
When did I say average/below average guys can't get girls? They can, of course. But it's sooo much harder.


It is subjective, but 9 out of 10 women will say he's a great looking guy:

Do you think looks are more important than personality when it comes to relationships

The jaw line, body fat, facial hair, hair, clothing, height, body type, etc... He may not be a perfect match for you, but you can tell he plays in the NFL of looks
Okay, this bozo is pretty. Couldn't pay me enough to date him, though.
__________________



You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd
Thanks for this!
eskielover
  #84  
Old Jun 26, 2021, 08:58 PM
divine1966's Avatar
divine1966 divine1966 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 23,227
Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
Okay, this bozo is pretty. Couldn't pay me enough to date him, though.
Bozo. Lol 😆 😂🤣
Hugs from:
Werewoman
Thanks for this!
Werewoman
  #85  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 05:07 AM
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,472
Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
Okay, this bozo is pretty. Couldn't pay me enough to date him, though.
I'm not into changing diapers, either. I have children older than this dude. 🤣🤣🤣
__________________



You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd
  #86  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 05:33 AM
BigBubba BigBubba is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: May 2021
Location: Europe
Posts: 162
Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
I'm not into changing diapers, either. I have children older than this dude. 🤣🤣🤣
Maybe you just don't care anymore?

I could be a **** right now and say something rude for making fun of me, but I won't.

Last edited by bluekoi; Jul 05, 2021 at 09:48 PM. Reason: Profanity edit.
  #87  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 06:21 AM
sarahsweets's Avatar
sarahsweets sarahsweets is offline
Threadtastic Postaholic
 
Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
Maybe you just don't care anymore?

I could be a **** right now and say something rude for making fun of me, but I won't.

I’m confused. Was she making fun of you? Or just how young the man is ?

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
"I carried a watermelon?"

President of the no F's given society.

Last edited by bluekoi; Jul 05, 2021 at 09:49 PM. Reason: Continuity edit.
Thanks for this!
leomama, mssweatypalms
  #88  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 06:45 AM
BigBubba BigBubba is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: May 2021
Location: Europe
Posts: 162
Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post


I’m confused. Was she making fun of you? Or just how young the man is ?

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Well, I felt like it was making fun of my point of view instead of just disagreeing which is allowed.
Thanks for this!
sarahsweets
  #89  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 07:24 AM
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,472
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
Maybe you just don't care anymore?

I could be a **** right now and say something rude for making fun of me, but I won't.
Boy, I don't know what planet you're from, but this one does not revolve around you!
I was not even THINKING about you when I made those jokes. They had absolutely nothing to do with you.

GET OVER YOURSELF!!
__________________



You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd

Last edited by bluekoi; Jul 05, 2021 at 09:49 PM. Reason: Continuity edit.
  #90  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 07:59 AM
leomama's Avatar
leomama leomama is offline
Grand Magnate
 
Member Since: Feb 2014
Location: USA
Posts: 4,703
Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post


I’m confused. Was she making fun of you? Or just how young the man is ?

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

The man not the poster
Thanks for this!
Werewoman
  #91  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 08:23 AM
BigBubba BigBubba is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: May 2021
Location: Europe
Posts: 162
Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
I was not even THINKING about you when I made those jokes. They had absolutely nothing to do with you.
This would be enough to clear the air.

Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
Boy, I don't know what planet you're from, but this one does not revolve around you!
Yeah, I responded to your post because I think the world revolves around me. It's all about me and other people are background. My bad. Its on me. I'm sure quoting my ******** post had nothing to do with my assumption. I'm so sorry, your majesty. Youre on mysupportforums, so some people may have wrong idea of your intentions. I would love to respond to the "boy" part but I don't want to get a ban.

Last edited by bluekoi; Jul 05, 2021 at 09:50 PM. Reason: Profanity edit.
  #92  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 08:41 AM
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,472
Quote:
Originally Posted by BigBubba View Post
This would be enough to clear the air.


Yeah, I responded to your post because I think the world revolves around me. It's all about me and other people are background. My bad. Its on me. I'm sure quoting my f**king post had nothing to do with my assumption. I'm so sorry, your majesty. Youre on mysupportforums, so some people may have wrong idea of your intentions. I would love to respond to the "boy" part but I don't want to get a ban.
I wasn't serious. At my age, everyone under the age of 40 is boy to me. I am not addressed as your majesty, I am addressed as Mistress, btw.

I joke about everything. I am truly sorry that you misunderstood my intentions. That seems to happen every time you and I converse. Obviously there is something about me that rubs you the wrong way, so I will no longer respond to your posts.
__________________



You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd
Thanks for this!
leomama
  #93  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 08:59 AM
BigBubba BigBubba is offline
Account Suspended
 
Member Since: May 2021
Location: Europe
Posts: 162
Its cool, there is nothing to benefit from conflicts. Its very easy to clear the air and sometimes its neccesary on support forums. Actually for the first time ever you made me smile with this:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
I joke about everything.
Minutes before:

Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
Boy, I don't know what planet you're from, but this one does not revolve around you!

[...]

GET OVER YOURSELF!!
LOL I dont mind. It is funny to me (seriously). Maybe too harsh for support forums though.
  #94  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 09:17 AM
sarahsweets's Avatar
sarahsweets sarahsweets is offline
Threadtastic Postaholic
 
Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
Boy, I don't know what planet you're from, but this one does not revolve around you!
I was not even THINKING about you when I made those jokes. They had absolutely nothing to do with you.

GET OVER YOURSELF!!

Look I get your point, but I don’t think this is a very nice way of saying something about it.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
"I carried a watermelon?"

President of the no F's given society.
Thanks for this!
Werewoman
  #95  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 10:00 AM
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,472
Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post


Look I get your point, but I don’t think this is a very nice way of saying something about it.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk

My apologies to everyone who has been offended. It was never meant to be serious, but some things don't translate very well sometimes.
__________________



You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd
  #96  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 11:40 AM
divine1966's Avatar
divine1966 divine1966 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 23,227
This topic always ends up in a big argument. We had so many threads and posts on the topic of “if looks are more important” and it always gets very heated. I think it’s fair to acknowledge that for some people looks are most important and for some intelligence more important and for some kindness and for some combination of things and some marry for money. It’s highly individual and subjective. No cookie cutter or rule book, whatever people want to do in choosing a partner is up to them
Thanks for this!
sarahsweets, Werewoman
  #97  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 01:37 PM
sarahsweets's Avatar
sarahsweets sarahsweets is offline
Threadtastic Postaholic
 
Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
Quote:
Originally Posted by Werewoman View Post
My apologies to everyone who has been offended. It was never meant to be serious, but some things don't translate very well sometimes.

Oh don’t worry I’m not offended And I didn’t see your post explaining it to until after I posted don’t worry about it girl I got you!

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
"I carried a watermelon?"

President of the no F's given society.
Hugs from:
Werewoman
  #98  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 01:38 PM
sarahsweets's Avatar
sarahsweets sarahsweets is offline
Threadtastic Postaholic
 
Member Since: Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
Posts: 6,008
Quote:
Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
This topic always ends up in a big argument. We had so many threads and posts on the topic of “if looks are more important” and it always gets very heated. I think it’s fair to acknowledge that for some people looks are most important and for some intelligence more important and for some kindness and for some combination of things and some marry for money. It’s highly individual and subjective. No cookie cutter or rule book, whatever people want to do in choosing a partner is up to them

I think you’re right. I didn’t realize it’s come up so much. I wasn’t trying to make any drama.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
"I carried a watermelon?"

President of the no F's given society.
Hugs from:
Werewoman
Thanks for this!
Werewoman
  #99  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 02:08 PM
divine1966's Avatar
divine1966 divine1966 is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
 
Member Since: Dec 2014
Location: US
Posts: 23,227
Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post


I think you’re right. I didn’t realize it’s come up so much. I wasn’t trying to make any drama.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
It’s not you. It’s the topic. I can make a list of identical arguments this topic always causes. There are couple of topics like this. Always ends up the same way especially if it’s general discussion, not sharing one’s personal situations
Thanks for this!
sarahsweets, Werewoman
  #100  
Old Jun 27, 2021, 05:56 PM
Werewoman's Avatar
Werewoman Werewoman is offline
Poohbah
 
Member Since: May 2014
Location: Betelgeuse
Posts: 1,472
Quote:
Originally Posted by sarahsweets View Post


Oh don’t worry I’m not offended And I didn’t see your post explaining it to until after I posted don’t worry about it girl I got you!

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
Thank you.

WW
__________________



You're only given one little spark of madness. You mustn't lose it. ~ Robin Williams

Did you exchange a walk on part in the war for a lead role in a cage? ~ Pink Floyd
Thanks for this!
sarahsweets
Reply
Views: 3793

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:10 PM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.