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Old Jan 28, 2008, 02:40 PM
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I have a whole new outlook and respect for my husband. I had thought maybe I was not in love with him anymore. we have communication issues. he just does not talk about how he is feeling or much of anything.
anyway as some of you know he is a jailer. yesterday he had to take down an inmate and my poor little hubby got the bad end of it. then again he had to go backup another one for the same guy. he is not a fighter. I was so worried about him until he got home and that is when I realized I do love him and am in love with him. I am proud of my little hubby. I say little because he is smaller than me lol but just not the type to fight. just wanted to share.
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 02:45 PM
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(((((bebop))))) He does an honorable job!
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 04:16 PM
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(((((beboo)))))).......I know the feeling you have......communication issues truly can make a person waver on what one truly feels. I have many times thought I didn't love my husband too because of this issue. But then I think to myself, if I leave him and end up with someone else, the most likely possibility is that I would be in square one(communication issues) with someone else and possibly worse....when I put everything on the scale the good by far outweigh the bad.
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 04:26 PM
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((((((((((( bebop & hubby ))))))))))))))

I'm so glad he wasn't badly hurt during the incident and that some real good stuff came from a difficult situation! You go girl!

after yesterday
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 04:44 PM
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The thought of losing someone really puts things in perspective. I'm so glad you experienced that and that your husband is ok.
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Old Jan 28, 2008, 08:46 PM
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thank you aaaa

rosario yep I hear ya.

sabby it feels wonderful today! just something has changed for the better! thanks hon

thank you doh!
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Old Jan 29, 2008, 03:22 AM
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{{{{{{lil Beeeeeeeeee}}}}}}}}}}

i like to say...much repect and admiration for Mr Beeeeeeeeee

I'm so happy for you both.

everyday is a wonderful day when two people are happy and inlove after yesterday after yesterday after yesterday after yesterday after yesterday
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Old Jan 29, 2008, 09:56 AM
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You are a good wife Bebop........ and your husband is lucky to have you and your heart - please know that I understand how it feels as though the love is gone at times when the communication takes a vacation.
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