[jesyka]

This is ridiculous. This lady blocked me just because I accidentally used the the thumbs down emoji in response to a comment.

I meant to use the thumbs up one. I am constantly making typos.

I’m upset that she didn’t even ask me what was wrong. I have no way to contact her.

So I asked my friend to send her a text from me. I asked her to let me know when she read it. Si far she didn’t get back to me.

I was wondering if my friend lied about that as she seemed reluctant to help me at first.

It’s been a day since my text was supposedly sent to her. I think it’s silly to throw away a friendship over something so stupid.

It was obviously an accident. This lady is very sensitive She has had some bad luck with friends in the past. She put up with being used by a former drug & sex addicted party girl who used her for rides & company for going out to meet guys, but with me, I just make one stupid mistake & I’m blocked?

Wth? Ugh! People are so stupid & weird at times!

I helped this woman get a job at my company & I never said or did anything to upset her until now. AND she flaked on me TWICE & rudely left me in a restaurant that SHE wanted to go to once.

She didn’t even bother to text me! She just claimed the food was too expensive. SHE chose the place though! Wth?

Then she moved & ignored me for years then she saw me on ND & then she wanted to reconnect with me. I decided to give her one last chance, but that if she ever flaked on me again, that’s it, I’ll just block her. Thankfully she never flaked on me after we reconnected.

I have some of the worst luck with horrible friends. I feel like giving up on people 100% & not bothering to even make anymore friends as I just keep getting used & abused!

Or ignored most of the time. I hate people now.

[Discombobulated]

That’s rough. I’ll confess I’m not a big fan of the modern trend of ‘blocking’, I can see the purpose in a situation of threat or harm, but it seems like some people use it when they’re annoyed with people rather than discussing the situation. So I’ll be honest, my gut reaction is that this woman sounds like someone who is extremely reactive and maybe that’s something you would benefit from thinking carefully about. It sounds like there’s been a few times she’s behaved unkindly and harshly towards you?

It’s your call.

[jesyka]

Originally Posted by Discombobulated

That’s rough. I’ll confess I’m not a big fan of the modern trend of ‘blocking’, I can see the purpose in a situation of threat or harm, but it seems like some people use it when they’re annoyed with people rather than discussing the situation. So I’ll be honest, my gut reaction is that this woman sounds like someone who is extremely reactive and maybe that’s something you would benefit from thinking carefully about. It sounds like there’s been a few times she’s behaved unkindly and harshly towards you?

It’s your call.

Same here. I was always a good friend to her, so for her to assume the worst about me is weird.

I hate the fact that most people will immediately block someone for the stupidest reasons.

People don’t care about communicating with people honestly anymore it seems like.

Yes, she was rude & a bad friend to me in the past. She seemed better at first now, but after this, maybe not.

My other friend said that she didn’t read the text that was sent to her yesterday.

I shouldn’t have given her a second chance after she rudely flaked on me twice then ignored me for years after she moved away.

I don’t understand why she jumped through hoops for the abusive user former friend, but with me, I get blocked the second I accidentally make a mistake. Wth?

I hate people at times.

[Fuzzybear]

Originally Posted by Discombobulated

That’s rough. I’ll confess I’m not a big fan of the modern trend of ‘blocking’, I can see the purpose in a situation of threat or harm, but it seems like some people use it when they’re annoyed with people rather than discussing the situation. So I’ll be honest, my gut reaction is that this woman sounds like someone who is extremely reactive and maybe that’s something you would benefit from thinking carefully about. It sounds like there’s been a few times she’s behaved unkindly and harshly towards you?

It’s your call.