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Jun 06, 2025, 09:05 AM
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Sorry...never mind. I can't talk about this now.
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Jun 06, 2025, 01:51 PM
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Jun 07, 2025, 03:57 PM
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Sometimes it seems my H is deliberately trying to make me look/feel crazy. He'll tell me something I KNOW didn't happen but when I disagree, he says "Okay..." ,"if you say so" Just yesterday,I took my tablet upstairs and was on the bed reading it. He claims I was sound asleep when he looked in the room and I had no tablet. He makes me feel so crazy and I get so mad! If he wants to see crazy, then, Damn, I'll show him crazy!
 
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Jun 07, 2025, 04:10 PM
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This is triggering the hell out of me. Maybe for some reason he wants me to be crazy.??? He seems to enjoy it. I asked "why are you doing this to me"?
I got a letter in the mail that looked like a scam. I showed it to him and he said that I've gotten those before. I would have remembered if I did. I never got anything like that before. Ok....I've had ECT and he likes to use that as an excuse. He was never like this. Now I feel he tries to make me look incompetent . He says " I'm worried about you"! He infantalises me and I hate it. I came close to either walking out or doing something to hurt myself.
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Jun 07, 2025, 04:45 PM
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I'm so sorry
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Yesterday, 11:50 PM
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Maybe time for a GOOD marriage councellor. Sounds like he needs help processing your ECT, cause it seems like it may have changed the way he views & values you as a person let alone his wife
That needs to be resolved because the longer these dysfunctional behaviors continue it just creates more dysfunctional issues in the marriage
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