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#26
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big event coming
my dad and I are going to discuss thier failing marriage wtih my mom tomorrow to come to a solution or end thats it
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(((((((((((((((whiteNight))))))))))))
hope you are ok. no matter what happens, everything will turn out alright somehow. love, night ![]() ![]() ![]()
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the day after the talk my mom went to her friends for the whole day and came home- we expected her to stay there for at least the night- well she came home and made us all dinner
there hasnt been any big problems since and she must of finaly agreed to see a doctor because my dad is getting her a new phone instead of shutting it off completly- so my big step to helping my parents has had a great effect
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update- my mom still has ahigh phone bill minutes hopefully the doctor visit will help but
today- she made us dinner but she had an additude like she resented doing it and wanted to just get it over and done wtih there was no motherly love in it at all
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(((((((((((((whiteNight))))))))))))) I hope the doctor visit will help. Hang in there whiteNight. We care.
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my dad and I are waiting for the results and will take action acoording to it
tomorrow im going to see a movie then spend the night at my grandparents house then go out on a small day trip wtih my dad on wednesday and my dad and I are gona have fun on the 4th
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That sounds like fun
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#33
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(((whitenight)))
hope you have a nice time with your Dad. sorry about your disappointments the past few weeks. it can be like riding a roller coaster ... but know this, you will not always be in the middle of heartache. better days ahead. you have so much promise. you deserve the best. hope all is going well with planning some things for your future. peace and encouragement, night ![]()
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I am larger and better than I thought. I did not know I held so much goodness. - Walt Whitman |
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wednesday was so much fun- went on a 2 hour drive with my dad to Slide Rock in Sadona, AZ
its a state park in a national forest its basicaly a natural rock water slide the water was 68 degrees but there was awesome site seeing it was a great bonding time for my dad and I he cooked dinner and my mom wouldnt eat it- eh w/e u cant have everything its a overall great day
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I'm so glad you had a good day! Slide rock sounds fun!
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#36
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I meet my potential T first time on wednesday and my mom is geting help for her mormal womenly crazy chemicals and stuff that is driving my parents apart even more
its nice feeling like my life isnt just a hell hole thats about to blow up in my face
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Yes, white, it's good to enjoy the calm times.
How do you like the T - your first impression? Do they seem easy going? I think it's great that your Mom is getting help for her problems. Perhaps you could be supportive of her - and kick the ball into the air - since you have some experience already with how to support others through thier rough patch. Good luck to this new chapter of your family life. Hoping with you that you all get to the best parts up ahead together. Please keep posting. Have a wonderful week White, and ooohhhh, have you gone to the gym with your Grandparents this week? Take it easy. peace and comfort, night ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]()
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i went to my T today and she was nice- i was able to express myself like i wanted to, but i was neverous and unconfortable- i couldnt help but stair at the floor a lot- but its the begining of geting help
i go back next wednesday il be going to the gym again on friday
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besides having messed up hormones my mom is going to be going to get some catscans for a posible tumor or sists (SP) in her brain posibly
ehhhh
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((white))
Some things we can control and some things we cannot. We can also choose how we feel about certain things. I like to go the route of compassion and forgiveness when it's those I love so much. And there are times I'd do almost anything for someone I love. This could be your time. Does your Mother need your help, support and unconditional love right now? I'd say, yes, she does. It makes things so much easier to bear, because tests are scary. Be sure you take care of yourself and enjoy yourself at your Grandparents. Taking a break is always good. Your a great Guy. You need the relaxation and relief from your Dad's perspective and your Mom's problems. You deserve a break - so I hope you have a great week! love and peace, night ![]() ![]() ![]()
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Oh Honey!
I just read this and feel so much for you. Know that you will never lose me. Whatever there is to face with family, yours or mine, we will face together. My hand in yours, nothing to fear anymore. All my love and more, Tara |
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Thx, it was good to read all this again and see how I have progressed over the last 3 years
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