My gf of three years is moving out. Three long very hard years. I drove her away with my bipolar, angry ADHD personality. Should have got help long before this but never had the money, or the insurance. She's had all I can put her through. She's had all she can take. It's finally setting in that this is over. She moves out in a couple weeks and I'm going to be alone again. Just not ready for that right now.

Ryan

[SweetCrusader]

*hugs* if wanted

So sad for you

[SpazKatt]

*hugs* hun maybe it's time to start over?

[Wants2Fly]

So sad for you, Rem.

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[cms39]

I've been thinking about you today, rem. I know you are hurting right now and that's very hard. Truly, there will be good times again in your life.

[mortimer]

Darn it, money issues are irritating. T___T *hug* I'm sorry money constraints made it hard for you to get the help you need, and that that drove her away. Please remember that you're not your bipolar and ADHD problems, that they may be a part of you but they aren't only you and it was them that drove her away, it wasn't your fault.

Are there local support groups you can go to? Government aid for you to recieve?

Love's a hard thing, huh? It'll take a while to find the one, but you sound like a good guy. ^_^ Good luck, I'll be thinkin' about ya. *hug*

Well, now I have a great job and can get the help I need... but it came too late. My family and friends are in Texas... I live in Michigan. Without her I am alone here.

do you find yourself thinking or hoping that maybe she wont really leave?
you say it has hit you but i think it will REALLY hit you when she and all her stuff is gone.
you are a great guy though and chicks like you.
the bp is getting under control, you are focusing on self improvement, etc...
obviously it takes time to get over someone, especially when you were so vested in each other.
but from my experience with guys, a rebound fling does wonders for helping you to get over a girl....
(works for chicks too... trust me)
so if you are ever in cali... (i can be such a slut sometimes)
or we can set up a seperate chat room so all the girls here with crushes on you can help ease your pain....

but i definately agree with whoever said you need a fresh start.

[phoenix30]

I'm so sad for you - why is it always so difficult, eh? Looks like you have lots of people here who care a lot about what you are going thru, and I do too. I'm so sorry, I hope you're ok. I'm sure that you will be.

Forgive me if it's presumptious, but if you want a hug ... (((((((rem)))))))

x

[wanttoheal]

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Thank you guys for the words of encouragement. It's nice to know that I have friends here. You guys are all awesome.

Ryan

[silver_queen]

I'm glad she is moving out so quickly, rem. I know how hard it has been for you to live with her recently.

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[MacD]

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