how to seduce your therapist

I wish I could offer you some good avice, but I have been deeling with the same feelings with my ex t for years......

I'm doing my best!

Male therapists... they read the feelings all over you and the hints and ignore them. Therapy is for exploring feelings and not acting on them as my therapist says but in my head he's my husband haha. I really wish there weren't boundaries in therapy, I could find seducing therapeutic

Pleeeeeeeeeeeeeease listen to me so very carefully.....my former t crossed the line with me and although I wanted it at the time, it was the worse mistake I have ever made. You will never know the pain and confusion that follows and believe me, after a little while, it isn't all you think it would be cracked up to be. 2 yrs on I am still suffering for it and if I could change one thing it would be what we did together. I have never been the same.

I pray you never go through the same thing.

(((((allme))))) miss you!!! hope you're doing better. very thoughtful of you to write.

Hey Hankster! Hope you are well!

Allme! I remember your posts last year and what a terrible time you were having. I'm so glad you got through all of that. That must have been so terribly difficult. Hope your life is on a more even keel now. You certainly sound better! Take care.

had my appointment yesterday, he was horrible to me, completely cold and empty and just aloof. i think im a narcissicist for thinking he liked me, gotta get over him jees

I was in love with my first T, many years ago. I told him and he politely deferred. So, I seduced him by controlling him with extra letters related to treatment, small . . . appropriate gifts, poetry (not related to him) etc. I did everything I could to please him within the framework that was set by the therapy. I think I did this somewhat unconsciously. He never crossed the "line." I appreciate that. But I think it would have been much better if I did not try so hard to please him. I think my therapy would have been much better.

Since I was always thinking about him and what he wanted I lost the opportunity to think about myself and what I wanted.

im a straight female and THIS is why i quit seeing male therapists. TOO MUCH EYE CANDY.

...but now i see this female therapist as a mother figure...so
haha...go figure i guess...