Orgasm in therapy

Ive read in post before about becoming sexually aroused in therapy. Does "sexual arousal" include having an actual orgasm. Maybe not moaning out loud, writhing on the ground orgasm but still an orgasm. Haha a quiet orgasm that is kept to a minimum. Alittle out of breath, heart racing..... It's happened a few times in the past few months. I hope it doesn't happen again but I'm afraid that it won't. I sound pervy but I guess this is the place to open up about it.

Sexual arousal doesn't necessarily have to end in an orgasm, per say. There can be physiological arousal effects without necessarily going the full monty. But it could, if prolonged enough.

Weeelll, I may have had the delightful mind bendy aspect without the physical sensation but no, not the real thing. I was astonished when she said she may buy a couch for the office. Would I be more prone (pardon the pun) to have those feelings or maybe even touch myself. Or would I start saying sexual things to her? Too weird to contemplate. I'd quit T first

Sounds cool. Put me down for one .

I get seriously aroused in therapy sometimes. I am doing it to myself. It happens when I start staring at him. He quickly notices though and will say, "quit it."

At the end of the session the other day I was staring at him he said, "Ok now. Instead of indulging in what you're indulging in, feel it. Feel it. What are you feeling?" I said, "I can't explain it. It's like a wave rushing over me." He said, "Yeah. Don't fight it. Just feel it. Feel it. It won't kill you. Don't hold on to me. Don't hold on to me." "That's what I want to do," I said. He Said, "I know. That's enhancing what you're feeling..."

If your having orgasms in therapy. You might want to start reevaluating your relationship and feelings towards your therapist and your therapy. Sorry, it is ridiculous to me. I'm sitting there getting a hard on. While my therapist knows and is saying "it's okay release!"

No. I'm afraid I wasn't clear with my post above. My T was not telling me to cum. My T was telling me to stop staring at him and instead try to find out what I am feeling. Why do I feel that I want to be with him. "Don't hold on to me" was figurative.

I admit my transference issues are complicated in my head. On one hand I want to just sit in the same room with him for the rest of my life. Other times, like my first example, it feels more sexual.

I'm actually really happy about this whole post because I am always striving for honesty with him but I'm afraid I haven't been fully aware of the half sexual half protector thing I have with him. Actually I think I have in the back of my head but this only leaves me worried that I have had some sexual issues with my father. Ugggh.

To sum up. I'm going to tell my T about both feelings I have with him. He only knows about the non-sexual ones. He was NOT telling me to cum.

I get this. I've always 'known' that my ET for previous T is/was a defense... Can't really explain it fully, but I get it...

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When I once went to session, I revealed much things to my psychiatrist. She is female, i am male. When I revealed even those things I thought I couldn't or that it would take much more time than they took, I got physiologically arroused, although I don't feel erotic attraction to her.

I even don't feel any special attraction to her. At least, not consciously.

I felt the urge to touch myself in order to advance that arousal. So I touched myself and advanced it a bit. And there I am confused. One part of my mind has been saying me that I overcomed the urge, and at once, I stopped touching myself; - but there is another part of my mind that has been saying me that something else prevented me in touching myself, and that (maybe) the psychiatrist told me gently: - ""Hands down"".

Achy ~~ My understanding of the psychsexual growth of children is that all females have a thing for their fathers. It's our way of developing our own healthy sexual life...same for little boys and their mothers. The idea may seem repulsive to you now, but you probably went through it as a toddler and don't recall it. That doesn't mean something couldn't have gone wrong during that period of your life, like you didn't receive as much attention from your father as you needed, etc. (as is my case). It comes up in therapy if that part of your life stalled out somehow.

I experienced the sexual feelings.but I soon thought gosh this has to stop so I said about my feelings and it stopped. Well I still have sexual fantasy. But Im too shy to tell them or embrassed. Worried they think Im so werido or make them feel uncomfortable. It doesn't help when your T is young and good looking. Ita not an old.man. Nope young and good looking. doesn't even look like his age.
But as embrasing it is for you, I would address this to your therapist. I pray that they be gentle and kind about towards you with a graceful heart and understanding.

I have experienced arousal during my sessions. It had nothing to do with my counselor. It was because I was talking about sexual abuse and re-experiencing things. I never told my counselor that because to me it felt weird and uncomfortable to even explain it. The arousal I felt was very uncomfortable and painful and wasn't like a typical normal arousal.

I get aroused while thinking of him sometimes...But never during the session.
That's strange... Because I think I'm asexual. And I have no romantic feelings