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This is why I need my mom or someone for help, but she isn't listening to my cry for help and I don't have anyone else who will listen to what I'm really struggling with.
She's doing fine in life, better than me. She has a good job and complains about everything and then its done for her ( I do what needs to be done around the house). I don't know what it is with her. She feels the need to take my anxiety pills at times too. Maybe she has a problem as well. Aside from a list of reasons of why I'm so stuck inside my head I don't know what to think or do anymore. My mom wants my illness to be my responsibility but I can't always handle it. |
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That sounds really hard, lifedreamer. Is there any way you can get into a different living situation? This doesn't sound emotionally supportive.
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No, I can't. I think that's why its so hard for me to cope with what's happening. Its a matter of coping and being able to escape. Luckily, most of the time I have the house to myself.
I don't really think my mom understands whats happening to me when I go through a tough time. She just thinks I'm being irrational. This isn't the first time this has occurred. I've had these same types of issues since about 16 years old with different people. Luckily its better then it used to be. My mom was in a really negative relationship before this one that impacted me. |
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![]() I don't know what to advise about your mom. Maybe find support elsewhere to help take the edge off? Sometimes it helps when you're in a negative relationship to work hard on your end of the thing. Maybe the other person will respond eventually. No guarantees, though. And it seems unfair to put that burden on you when you already have so much to struggle with. ![]()
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I will have to really search hard for someone to speak to about my situation. Its tough though. With all the family I have, none of them will really get it. I know this because I've spoken to them before or they are just to distant to talk to at this point. Most of the stuff I deal with is stuff from the past that has just been covered up under a pretend rug and forgotten like it never happened. Its sort of depressing, all that happened to me and no one to really understand. I guess its not so bad to have myself to understand what is happening to me. Sometimes I think its best if I just keep the past to myself but not forget and move on by coping with my inner emotions. Its a difficult process for one person alone but I think I can handle it. Thank you for your insight and help. ![]() |
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I'm really sorry you've had such a hard past and don't feel supported. No one should be alone with their troubles.
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I am in the same boat as Costello. My daughter is the one trying to live with her mental illness. I have been frustrated so much lately, but it is because I didn't truly understand what was going on with her. I started REALLY researching HARD and I think it is helping. I am finally understanding that she can't help what is going on.
Lifedreamer, I really hope that you can get the understanding that you need. So sorry you haven't. |
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