Roll Call 127

I would say most people i went to high school with have 1 or 2, some 3, kids by now. They arent married except a few.

Honestly I was being sarcastic. I don’t think age matters. It’s always possible to meet someone who you truly care for. What’s a little baggage if you’re with the right one?

I know I’ll meet someone when the time is right.

I get it. But i dont think i could date someone with kids. But if im still single in a few years might have to change that.

At least i couldnt right now and couldnt before because i didnt have my mind together before.

Maybe your experience is different but it’s only the past few years people I know from school are starting to get married and have kids.

They are plenty out there without. A lot of people are waiting until early to mid thirties.

I dont like cheese doodles. 🤢

I didnt mean to offend anyone

Yeah most of my friends from high school didn't have kids until their 30s. I don't want biological children, but I would be open to dating someone who had kids of their own. That is if I was interested in dating at all.

Its almost nighttime in a few hours. I just gotta get through one more day after today.

I got this.

I’ve never dated before I never had anyone I was interested in out in the country and haven’t looked since I’ve moved. Part of me is interested in dating but I don’t know if I’m stable enough.

I feel like theres an empty void in me

Yes I understand. I've always thought that I'd start looking when I got my life sorted out.

Right now that pretty much amounts to getting a job since I'm stable.

In my country a lot of people get married at early 20s. My friends and relatives been teasing me in every gathering for still not married at 30. I am like “Dudes, expand your picnic locations, there are a lot of people happily being single in their 40s”.

Picnic locations???? Inform me plz.

😂😂😂😂😂😂❤️

Also I often get warning from them, “you’re already 30, get married ASAP or you might lose the chance of having kids”. Seems it doesn’t come to their mind to even ask me whether I want kids.

As for the baggage things, I personally like people with baggages. Both platonic or romantic relationships. For me it means they’re complicated people. Complicated people are complicated due to their life experiences. Means they’re rich in experience. Means they offer a lot of things for me to learn from. Or else I’d find them boring and the relationship will be dull. My personal opinion only though.

I agree to an extent. But how much is too much complication? For me my ex had schizophrenia and was severely depressed. I thought i could deal with that cuz my experiences. But it really drained me in every way. I try not to put that stuff on my the current bf a lot cuz my depression drains him a lot. If i just go on and on about it or everyday. Its very hard for me not to cuz i dont have an outlet anymore for all that stuff, other than here.

I think 1 thing that made me different from my ex was how i dealt with my depression. There were times that, yes, i was just immobilized from everything i was dealing with. But then other times i really pushed myself to do better. Something which he never did.

Id have to know that my partner was trying to some extent to better themselves in some way. And not content with just forever staying like that and giving up.

He was eventually put in a group home.

Yes I agree. Complications in a relationship is okay as long as both sides want to do their best to fix them. As it takes two to tango.

I honestly think my fiancé loves me unconditionally, so sincere that even if I never got better he’d still love me the same. But I am trying to get better not due to him asking me to, but because I want to, because I love him. I think that’s what love does, it’s an inspiration and not a negotiation.

I have completely no desire to be in a relationship. People and family don't annoy me about it. They respect and are happy for me and me and not me and someone else lol

But when I'm 40 or something, people will probably annoy me about it unless I change my mind or if asexuality is more accepted and people are chill about it.

I want friends that have good personalities but I'm surrounded by people that could be better so I don't care either way. I'll drift through life and find my own way. I'm happy for people in relationships.

Btw Newtus your new avatar makes your writing personality seem foreign. It will take time getting used to lol

Hopefully you’ll fall asleep easily again tonight and the next night and the next night

Agree about Newtus’s new avatar. I was like “Do we have a new person joined in” 😂

Ok so COMPUTER PEOPLEEEEE

My computer wont turn on. Ok so it WILL but nothing shows up on the monitor. I thought maybe it was the monitor but its not. I tried unplugging the monitor, turning the monitor on and off. Didnt help.

*Summons Finding Reason with a can of Dr. Pepper*

Screw it.

Idfk