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#1
Apr 20, 2010, 10:09 AM
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I'm having a hard time. That is all I have time to write right now because I have to go do school work. Thanks for any hugs.
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Apr 20, 2010, 10:28 AM
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(((((((googley)))))))
 Hope you feel better soon. You are strong enough to get through this.
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#3
Apr 20, 2010, 10:41 AM
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Let us know when you have time?
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Apr 20, 2010, 11:41 AM
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(((((((googley))))))))
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#5
Apr 20, 2010, 05:36 PM
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Trigger warning.
I hate this time of year. This week and next week especially. It brings up too many memories and feelings. I want to cut to make the feelings go away. I hate my life. I feel like a failure. Plus add to that I just found out I failed one of my grad school classes. Maybe that is why I can't get a job. Everyone just knows that I'm a failure.  I feel that everyone would be better off without me. 
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Apr 21, 2010, 09:43 AM
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Googley, so something has happened in the past at this time of year and it gets triggered up? Do you understand what happened to cause the failed class? I have also failed a class before and I never considered myself a failure. I just needed to understand what happened. You are not a failure and this isn't written on your forehead. You just need to figure some things out so that you can get around roadblocks. This isn't failure.
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Apr 21, 2010, 05:15 PM
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Then even worse, today my friends (or so I thought) totally ditched me after the final. I told them I had to work on a poster and so to check in with me when they were done with the test and they didn't.My phone was without charge so I couldn't call them to find out where they went. So now I'm a failure and I don't have any friends.
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Apr 22, 2010, 11:48 AM
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Was it hard for you to communicate with this professor? I'm sorry about your friends. Maybe they couldn't contact you because of your phone? You are not a failure. You passed your other classes..........
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Apr 22, 2010, 10:32 PM
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My friends had agreed to stop in to the lounge (which was on the same floor as the class room so would have literally only taken two minutes.) after they were finished with the exam. I've been pretending not to know that they have been going out to dinner after stats class all semester. But now I can't pretend that don't know what is happening. So I'm all alone. And no I can't make other friends. Everyone already has their friend groups set up. I hate my life. |
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Apr 23, 2010, 05:22 AM
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oh, googley, im sure everything will turn out well. it may seem bad now, but it should all blow over.
you can stilk find friends! do not loose hope, there are plenty of people who'll like you if you just give them a chance.. also, u might want to find out what happened to ur 'friends' and hear what they have to say..maybe they have a valid excuse.... you never know *if it makes you feel better, im pretty sure i failed this science test which will determine whether or not i pass to 9th grade, plus no summer school is offered TT.TT and when i first realized i didnt know 2/3 of it, i felt like a huge fail. but i decided not to worry about it because, whats the point? why keep fill my head with thoughts like that?* i hope that it'll all get beter soon so you wont hate life.
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#11
Apr 23, 2010, 10:17 AM
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Googley, can you wait to take this class again? I failed 2 classes for my bachelors. One I didn't have to take again but the other I did. I waited 2 years and passed very well the next time around.
I'm sure there are still people out there who haven't hooked up with friends. Maybe you are only noticing the ones in groups and are not noticing the loners?
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Apr 23, 2010, 11:50 AM
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My cohort only has twelve people in it. So really everyone has already "friended" each other. No one left for me. I'm always the odd one out. And it always seems to be because it takes me time to trust and open up and by then everyone is already matched up with other people. It is really hard to continually be a third wheel.
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