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Jun 28, 2007, 11:48 PM
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Am I crazy for cutting myself over losing my boyfriend? well, he was more than just a boyfriend...I dont know anymore, its been 6 months now, and still just as miserable as ever. We really cared for each other and he was the best part of my world. i cant get over it. I miss his smile, i miss his presence, i miss hearing his voice, i miss his love, and i miss life. I dont cut as much as I used to but I still do it. The thing is, I want to ask... Am I a bad person for not wanting to stop cutting? I dont want to stop. It really does take the mental pain away, not to mention brings me back into reality for a few minutes anyways. I feel so unreal, and I havent been living much of a life at all in the last 6 months. All I keep doing is continuously spiraling downhill in this cold, dark and lonely world, with nobody to help.
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Turn to me and have mercy on me, because I am lonely and hurting. My troubles have grown larger; free me from my problems- Psalm 25:16-17 
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Jun 29, 2007, 12:30 PM
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Many thoughts are with you. PLEASE be careful. Cutting is a coping mechanism. While some people have a bad day, they relieve it with a hot shower, or a night out, others cut. It does NOT in anyway make you a bad person. The feelings that some get from going out dancing is the same "escape" that we get from cutting.
Best of luck and many hugs, Christine |
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Jun 29, 2007, 01:10 PM
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Oh ally sweetie, ((((((ally))))). You're not bad. We SI to feel better when there seems to be no other relief. Please be careful and don't cut to much or too deep. You will get through this, I promise. PM me if you wish, I'll be there for you, I understand where you're at.
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...you are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and smarter than you think. WtP |
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Jun 29, 2007, 06:10 PM
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</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
ally88 said: Am I crazy for cutting myself over losing my boyfriend? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Nope. Different reasons for different people, and I'd imagine that it would be hard to deal with emotionally. I'm sorry. </font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font> Am I a bad person for not wanting to stop cutting? </div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Nope. We're all on our own journey, with our own lives. Nobody else's opinion of your stuff and your life is as important as your own. You don't have to want to quit right now, just be open to the possibility that you might want to quit later in life. ((((((((ally)))))))))))))
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Jun 29, 2007, 08:03 PM
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((((ally))))
You are not bad. I hear what you are saying. I know the relief cutting brings. Keep yourself safe dear. PM me if you need to talk. I am here and I hear you. purplesecrets |
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Jun 29, 2007, 11:46 PM
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Thank you so much everyone!!!!!!!!! I really just need support.
 (((((everyone)))))
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Turn to me and have mercy on me, because I am lonely and hurting. My troubles have grown larger; free me from my problems- Psalm 25:16-17
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#7
Jun 30, 2007, 03:26 PM
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i am sorry about the boyfriend.
it doesn`t make you a bad person - but it`s bad for you. |
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