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Jul 09, 2008, 01:16 PM
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Jul 09, 2008, 01:55 PM
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Jul 09, 2008, 02:54 PM
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it matters purple... hope you feel better soon
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Jul 09, 2008, 03:02 PM
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You matter.
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Jul 10, 2008, 08:48 AM
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((((((((((((((( purple )))))))))))))))
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Jul 10, 2008, 08:59 AM
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im not sure anymore
  
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Jul 10, 2008, 10:02 AM
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You should be sure, You matter very much.
I am always here for you hun.
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Jul 10, 2008, 01:20 PM
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(((((((((((((( purple )))))))))))))))
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Jul 10, 2008, 01:43 PM
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can you be a little bit more specific.....
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Jul 11, 2008, 11:48 AM
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yes... it matters... and you matter... thinking about you... lyn
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Jul 11, 2008, 01:24 PM
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You all say it does matter then why do I feel like it doesn't matter !
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Jul 11, 2008, 01:33 PM
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(((purplebutterfly ))))
It does matter cause you are a person and we all care about your wellbeing (((you matter)))))))))) breath alittle if you can sitting here with you muffy |
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Jul 11, 2008, 02:24 PM
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(((purple))))))
thats a very good question.. why do you think it doesnt matter? |
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Jul 11, 2008, 03:06 PM
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because im not worth the trouble and i f* up everything. I hate myself Im better off in a dark cold hole under a rock.
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Jul 11, 2008, 07:34 PM
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((purple)))) i just dont agree with that.... i care for you very much.. i care for all people, but especially suffering people like yourself... ive felt very badly in th past too and its not a good place to be... it matters to me and we are all trying to show you and tell you how you matter and it matters and everything matters... i believe we all are intended to enjoy the good things of life that are free for us all...
it does not come easily for some but i truly believe that all are capable of having joy and good feelings... its good to know people care and that we matter.... it may be hard to see now, but believe me, you matter very much.. sending kind and safe healing thoughts always...
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Jul 11, 2008, 07:45 PM
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Everything matters Purple...literally everything..
If I had a jar and I filled it to the very top with marbles and closed the top with extreme difficulty...I would exclaim I had a full jar...and I would be right... If I took one marble from that jar...it would no longer be full...and part of it would be empty. You are a marble in the big jar....the very big jar..and you matter equally to all of us other marbles,,as silly as some of us can be... But your importance is not only measured by just your presence but by your contributions in being part of the whole...us...we are the whole...and we need you..to fullfill us. It may not seem that way all of the time because we too wonder about our place in this jar...but when we are not stuck in the thinking of that,,then we see the perfect need for every other marble... I haven't thanked you for your time here and your contributions in helping us think about our place,,your place and what we would miss without you... So now I will... Thank you Purple for your tireless energy in searching for the Peace you so deserve.. Don't give up...cause we won't. Lenny
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Jul 11, 2008, 08:12 PM
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No, it doesn't matter, but that's a reason to take it easy with all your problems, not to end your life. People, and you, and I, take themselves way too seriously, and then all their problems expand into these monstrous tasks and dilemmas. But it's true that nothing matters in an ultimate sense. It's a reason to lighten up, and if you're afraid of lightening up (which I think you, based on some of your posts I've read) then it's reason to lighten up about your inability to lighten up.
The problem comes in when people SAY nothing matters, but don't really embrace what they're saying. They say nothing matters, and then complain about how much life sucks. If life is meaningless, then who cares? What they're really saying is "I feel hopeless." If you want to take refuge in the idea that life in meaningless, then really embrace it, and see where you get. Like I said above, it might introduce levity into your life. There're of course other ways to find hope if you're feeling hopeless. Positive visualization, self-compassion and gentleness, prayer, and investigation come to mind immediately. G'luck. |
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Jul 13, 2008, 01:10 PM
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((((((((Purple)))))))))
everyone here is right. You really shouldnt think yourself so worthless, because your not. You matter. That's all you have to remember for now babyg xXx
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Jul 13, 2008, 01:11 PM
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thinking about you this morning and wondering how you are doing... i want to thank you for all you have done to help encourage and support... take gentle care...lyn
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