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#1
Oct 30, 2008, 09:34 AM
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I don't feel so good.
I have been making some really stupid decisons here latley.... but it's like I can't stop myself from being stupid... and because I have been making bad decisons...I need to punish myself. I just feel like absoulte crap....I am crap...a faliure...a piece of trash...I am stupid and worthless...I am such an idoit..... |
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Oct 30, 2008, 09:51 AM
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You are none of those things.
You need to make your first good decision, in that case, and be gentle with yourself, rather than punishing yourself. You don't deserve anything else.
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Oct 30, 2008, 10:01 AM
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It's so hard...to be gentle with myself...
I just..have no motivation anymore... I keep screwing up school.......and then..I keep making this really stupid decisons... I am just...at a totally stand still, I am stuck..in this horrible time warp..caught somewhere between the past and the present...unable to have hope in the future anymore........ sad part is I know why I make these stupid decisons....and yet I still can't stop myself.... I feel the need to punish myself...to show myself what a screwup I really am.... |
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#4
Oct 30, 2008, 10:49 AM
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Silver, do you want to talk about these decisions so that maybe you can get a different perspective on them?
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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#5
Oct 30, 2008, 10:13 PM
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I just..don't know....
ARGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I give up..might as well flush myself down the toilet because I am nothign but crap... I just..hate me...every part of me... |
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#6
Oct 31, 2008, 08:27 AM
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You are not any of those things that you listed above. I know that you don't feel well and that it's hard to not be hard on yourself, but try to think of things that you can look forward to, or even things that make you smile. There are ways of helping yourself; you just have to learn to use what you have. Another thing you can do is give yourself something fun to do. Something to keep your hands busy or to keep your mind off of things. Turn some music on, something upbeat and giddy, do something that you love doing. Good luck to you and take care
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#7
Oct 31, 2008, 11:47 AM
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You are not! Alot of us go through stages feeling like this, and yeah, its awful and it really sucks. But look, you are not any of those things at all!  Start building yourself up. It might be hard at first...but you can do it! 
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Oct 31, 2008, 02:07 PM
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........ I'm an ISFJ |
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Nov 01, 2008, 03:20 PM
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