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Nov 22, 2010, 01:56 AM
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I dunno, maybe I am lacking hormones or something, but it is hard for me to feel my genitals when they are touched. It even feels weird, not plesant at all. Maybe it's just to abrasive or the guy is doing it the wrong way. I am not on any meds, but I was from age 10-24 so maybe it messed wtih my sexual development?? I either don't have an orgasm or it takes like 2 hours to have one. I am pretty fustrated sexually. I don't know if I am even turned on or not.
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Nov 22, 2010, 01:57 AM
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It's like one of those things where I can get close lots of times but then it goes away. I haven't been on meds for 3 years, do the effects stay in you that long??????
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Nov 24, 2010, 03:09 AM
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After 3 years the meds should have really worn off - it took me about 1 month to get back to normal after I stopped my SSRI's.
I'd suggest spending a lot of time on your own, exploring your own body. There are plenty of websites with suggestions on pleasuring yourself. Once you work it out for yourself, it's much easier to explain to your partner, and it'll be a LOT more pleasurable. After 2 hours of trying I'd be exhausted. And I used to feel inferior when I was not able to orgasm, like there was something wrong with me. So i can understand you feeling despondent. Still - I recommend you get to know your body alone first. Don't be embarrassed. Certain parts of your genitals really ought to be be VERY sensitive - maybe a gynaechological checkup is also needed?
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Dec 03, 2010, 11:16 PM
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I agree with sugahorse, you really need to learn your own body first and how to pleasure it before you even try to have someone else pleasure it because you won't know what you like so you can't tell them how to do it. You need to explore yourself more sexually and be open about toys in your life maybe. This is all if you are comfortable with it. Find your sexual fantasies that you really enjoy and bring them into the forefront of your mind when your masturbating or something. See how that works. If that stuff doesn't help then I would suggest talking to your gynecologist. Best of luck to you.
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