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Old Sep 27, 2012, 07:31 AM
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Hey there!
I recently fell into a relationship with a girl and we had sex last night... I never came across this issue but I noticed that there are some sharp edges in the vagina and when penetration occurs , it hurts me on my penis..
Is that some common problem? or is it something special?

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Old Sep 27, 2012, 09:55 AM
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Ouch!

Did it cause her any discomfort?

I guess my only two ideas is that it might be something like fibroids that would build up tissue, or it might be something to do with the bone in her pelvic area... It might have been something that she was unaware of until you had a problem.

I guess regardless of whether or not it is a common problem, it's still a problem, at least for any partner of hers, so I guess I'd advise her to see a gynae... pleasant though that is...
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Old Sep 27, 2012, 09:59 AM
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you might be feeling the string that is attached to her IUD. Can you be more specific?
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Old Sep 27, 2012, 11:15 AM
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you might be feeling the string that is attached to her IUD. Can you be more specific?
what is IUD?
I felt something inside her vagina that was really sharp. and it hurts when there is penetration.
I feel it on my penis on the side ways and not on the end.

like e.g. if you consider this as my penis ---------------------->
and this part is vagina opening ||

then I get hurt here : x

as shown below

---||-x-------------->

and I also felt it in my fingers and it was something sharp.

I cant explain you more..
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Old Sep 27, 2012, 11:16 AM
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Ouch!

Did it cause her any discomfort?

I guess my only two ideas is that it might be something like fibroids that would build up tissue, or it might be something to do with the bone in her pelvic area... It might have been something that she was unaware of until you had a problem.

I guess regardless of whether or not it is a common problem, it's still a problem, at least for any partner of hers, so I guess I'd advise her to see a gynae... pleasant though that is...

I think so too. She was not aware of it. I will suggest her to visit a gynac
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Old Sep 27, 2012, 05:11 PM
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Agreed with "ouch" sentiments...surely she's aware of it?

Have you spoken with her about it?
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Old Sep 27, 2012, 09:44 PM
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The string on her IUD is a possibility. It is something you should talk to her about. Maybe she is already aware of the cause. If not she should probably see her gunocolgist. The female reproductive system is subject to a number of " annoying " problems that can hinder one's sex life
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Old Sep 28, 2012, 02:02 AM
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Please pardon my ignorance, but in the interest of still being able to offer some help, what is an IUD? I google'd, but I'm not sure what I brought up was what we're talking about.
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Old Sep 28, 2012, 06:10 AM
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Intrauterine Device (aka "the coil"). It's a physical form of contraception inserted into the uterus. I know more of less how it works but not anything related how it's put there or anything like that. I think what people are saying is that the end of this coil must either press against the bottom of the uterus (to be felt through the wall) or it comes through the cervix and has a physical presence in the vagina? I guess the latter might be how they remove it again... never really thought about it!
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Old Sep 28, 2012, 06:31 AM
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Hi Denny244 - i agree that it is most likely a contraceptive device which is causing the issue, definately talk about it with her so that hopefully the situation can be improved. The walls of the vagina are quite rough although sufficient lubrication usually relieves any discomfort - could it possibly be an issue with your foreskin which is causing the sensation of sharp pain? Communication in this situation is key - no one wants to have less sex due to discomfort if the matter can be resolved. All the best.
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Old Sep 28, 2012, 08:09 PM
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Intrauterine Device (aka "the coil"). It's a physical form of contraception inserted into the uterus. I know more of less how it works but not anything related how it's put there or anything like that. I think what people are saying is that the end of this coil must either press against the bottom of the uterus (to be felt through the wall) or it comes through the cervix and has a physical presence in the vagina? I guess the latter might be how they remove it again... never really thought about it!
Ah, thank you. Google threw me for a a bit of a loop...this is what I thought it was, but I wanted to be sure. I appreciate the response.

Unfortunately, I know almost nothing about these things (if that weren't clear by me asking the name ), but I do stand by that the best way to handle it is by communication.

I wish you both my best. I apologize I can't be of more help to you, but I think that if it's just the IUD interfering, you've little to worry about...I would think you'd be able to either work around it or perhaps her have it adjusted? Either way, talking to her about it can only help.

My best,
Harley
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Old Sep 30, 2012, 10:49 PM
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I have an IUD, and the strings can definitely be an issue. Sometimes, when this happens, the strings just need to be trimmed, so let her know because a trip to the gyn doctor would be required, but it's a quick fix
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