Can i ejaculate inside you?

Does this happen to anyone else? I have a partner who finishes before I do and whenever this happens she doesn't let me continue to have penetrative sex with her, all that she will do is masturbate me to completion.

And then she acts like this is plenty, and that i would be satisfied with it. Physically i am, i suppose, but mentally, I would rather get there the normal way.

Thoughts?

Have you been able to talk to her about this?

Good communication leads to good sex, bad communication leads to well not so good sex or no sex.

Have you thought about more foreplay for you prior to penetration so that you might have this additional period before sex and not after it? Have you tried experimenting with ways that might slow her down/speed you up during intimacy?

Agreed with Mike that communication is very important for both sides.

Find a better partner.

Sometimes after the big "O" the sensations are to much to uncomfortable and females don't want to be missed with. Things can get mighty sensitive afterwards. All I can think of is working to achieve better timing. Though that is quite difficult.

This issue seems to be the opposite for me, it's the other way around. He finishes first and I think "what, more please, NOW." or when it is time, it's time and stop, don't go back there, give things a break and then proceed as needed.

After she gets hers can you hold out long enough to allow her time to settle down and let sensations diminish then finish.

Hope that explains things somewhat. With out saying inappropriate words or phrases that is all I could come up w/.

Does she have one orgasm or many?

Is the title supposed to turn me on? Or do I have a dirty mind?

I agree with Big Mama, our sexual organs are extremely sensitive. It could be that, or she's just a jerk and holding back.

Or she's scared...

It's hard to tell, although I think it's just one.

I agree with big mama. When my wife has an orgasm she becomes super sensitive. It's almost like discomfort, like when someone tickles you. I usually slow down and let her adjust. Have you talked to her about this?

Is she on birth control? She could be fearful of having a baby, or it could be a past experience that she doesnt want you to finish inside her. She is the only one that can tell you why.

Lots to think about there. Correct Adam babies is a big issue.

Issues w/ the past can be concern. It can be scary to be at the mercy of someone's hormones, espicially such powerful ones involved in sex. Noisiness, aggressiveness, power and strength all a scary thing to some females.

You might just have to ask. Surely you ask other things, how do you like it, faster, slower, why not ask: how come you like me to finish not inside of you?

My immediate reaction to the subject line was "No. No, you can't." because it seemed more like asking a favor of the reader. I still think there should be a poll here for the answers.

Thanks, Inedible, that was great to have a good laugh at the beginning of a busy day.

It would be good to find that out from her for starters.

Yeah. I always wondered how women who had multiples were able to make it thru that super-sensitive few moments right after her orgasm.

I wish I knew. Everytime my wife has multiples, it seams like each one is more intense than the last. I think eventually she is going to pass out or something. Sometimes she makes me stop for a minute.

Thats what makes mutiples so great and wouldn't it be great to pass out from "O's".

"O" what fun that would be.

I cant even imagine- she's a lucky lady! I agree with the sensitivity thing. Are u close enough with her where u can tell her how nice it would be if u could come together? Make it more like something I want to experience together, etc? She might be more open to listening to your suggestions at that point.

Thanks for your suggestions all, i will try to be assertive with her when we chat next.

I do not have any supersensitive moments and can go from one orgasm to another. I do not know what people are talking about in re hypersensitivity. No clue.

You are well within your right to do so. You are not requesting anything extraordinary.

hampster, hypersensivity is not a good thing in my opinion. Good for you in not knowing. It is quite uncomfortable.

I agree. From my perspective it looks like she just had the best 10 seconds of her life, and then it looks like someone rubbed sandpaper on her vagina for the next 10 seconds.

There is not a less crude way to say this so I hope I do not get this trown out.

Picture the last 5 sec before you ..... Now do you like to proceed slowly or w/ the same continued speed and pressure. Thinking of my H it appears that the big "O" is a time that it is necessary to slow down and proceede w/ caution or it is not to comfortable.

Well it is the same w/ us ladies. Keeping up the same pace is not very comfortable after or durring "O's". If that is lacking clarity illegal feel free to PM me and I'll elaborate in less lady like words. You never know the age of readers here and I'd hate to scare some innocent individual.