Homosexuality and Role Model

I apologize for my post above, that said:

"This is so enlightening. Good that I logged on before going to work as otherwise I might have wasted yet another day of my life not realizing that our calling and purpose is to

PLEAFSE THE OPPOSITE SEX."

Not only did I make a typo, which was a minor defect, but I failed to notice a key, critically important detail in your post, which was a major defect. I am sure this was because I posted before having the morning cup of coffee. I won't do that in the future - I clearly need the caffeine to get the cogntive ability of paying attention to detail. So first coffee, then read, then think, then post.

Now having had a cup of coffee, I do see that I missed the word "eager", and that word really changes the whole picture. I stand corrected.

Recently, I became eager to lose weight. I was in good shape at the end of last year, and then, possibly through a combination of stopping physical exercise and suffering the metabolic effects of having taking a number of psychoactive drugs in the past, I have gained weight.

Initially, I became eager to lose weight for egotistic, selfish purposes - I hate how my clothing fits me now. So tight around the waste! Hate it hate it hate it.

Now that I have reread your post with attention to detail, though, I have become eager to lose weight for selfless, altruistic purposes as well. I work in an office with 80%+ males - a bunch of friendly geeks - and although I have no sexual relations with any of them, they are required to see me every workday (we are not allowed to work remotely unless sick). So my bulging belly, as of recently, might be visually disPLEASing to them. Geez, I sure hope they realize I did not do it on purpose to spite them...

So now I am EAGER to visually PLEASE the OPPOSITE SEX by losing the stomach fat.

Is that ENOUGH (does it meet the requirements of being EAGER TO PLEASE THE OPPOSITE SEX)?

If that is enough, you do not need costly, time-consuming therapy to arrive at the state of being EAGER TO PLEASE THE OPPOSITE SEX - all it takes is a cup of coffee and two minutes of thinking things through.

In any event, Anthony, what you are experiencing admiring the actor and being drawn to him in some way sure sounds like fun and I hope you enjoy the experience. Admiration, infatuation, etc. all can be enjoyed, as experiences you live through.

That abuse is either remembered or not (which is pretty much the case with any sort of experience of any kind of nature) is now very clear to me, so thanks. You take it a bit further by stating that abuse, if not remembered, is "suppressed" - not just neutrally "not remembered" (as in "by chance" or due to insufficient RAM in the brain of the victim) but actively "suppressed". I am willing to believe that. However, how did it answer my question to you?