Oral Sex?

If I ever found myself with a man who shaved himself in that area...I'd probably be shocked and turned off!
As for me...I also find less and less hair in the personal areas as I age. My pubic hair started turning WHITE long before the hair on my head! though there is still plenty down there.
As for oral sex, I've had lovers that really seemed to need it and love it, while I never cared for it myself.

seeker have you ever had a partner that was good at oral sex?

Blushing...well, YES...Mellors...the last one was awesome, but then he rejected and humiliated me! It's hard for me to think positively about it now.
Patty

i like the Harry Dean Stanton type. non-metrosexual. very male and sorta rough looking. Bill looks like "House"..... was married to a "Brooks Brothers" addict and it drove me frigging nuts!

shaving, for a man, just seems weirder than hell to me. and it looks uglier. yuck. i shaved all over one time and i hated it. growing back itched too much.

i am au naturel. i have very little underarm hair, so i leave it.......i also find that my armpits are a very erogoneous zone..... and i like a man with a full head of hair. something to grab.......

i worked in a plastic surgeon's office and one day the manager said something about oral sex.....i'd never heard of. married a man who only cared about himself sex-wise......so i asked her about it and she insisted that i learn more........then husband and i separated for a long time. sooooooooooooo, i called a saddle bronc rider, in Houston, and told him what she was encouraging me to do........he came to the National Finals Rodeo and we went out.....(he was 8 years younger than me and so damned good looking) we went to his room and he got a harmonica out of his gear bag.......he played "Amazing Grace" and it was!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

I love that story Pat!

I think we have very similar taste in men.

My ex-boyfriend only showered about once a week. That probably sounds gross to some people, but he never had B.O. He just smelled like booze and cigarettes... guess I found that manly. He never brushed his hair either.

The guy I'm seeing now showers everyday (I'm getting used to that ) but he's still delightfully manly... has a nice beard... which is (from my perspective) an added bonus when it comes to receiving oral pleasure.

so you have got over the thigh rash misconception of bearded males, a woman after my own heart

LOL, Pat...a woman after my own heart! Juliana too!
My ex husband of 20 years never liked giving oral sex and didn't , and actually got up and washed after every sexual experience the whole time we were married! Yeah.

i do that!!!, hygiene (sp) is no 1 priorty, dont take offence, its an inbuilt mechinism that we are taught by proxy / schooling, that dictates we should do this, that or the other, one of the lessons he has learned is to be clean, is that a crime?

I was never offended by this, but I never got up and washed!
I always suspected he thought sex was dirty.
Patty

I guess I've never really posted in this forum...as it is a bit personal...absolutely love giving and receiving...in the office, in a park, in the shower, in a chair, on a bed, um I guess the list goes on...

aint outside of the bedroom, in the woods, open ground, graveyard sex just the best?, shocked?, yeah right so you have never been there lol, ive always liked it, must be the commando thing, lol naught to do with the guilt of getting caught, i here you ask?, hell no, when you horny, you horney, kids at home, first night out in 6 months, 30 mins before next feed, damn you go jump a spiked fence if you have to and feel no guilt, but you wash up afterwards, small concession on our part, saving a world full of hurt on another.

sorry was my attempt to be both romantic and pragmatic at the same time, kill me, kill me now ..............

there is much to say about outdoor sex! woo hoo

i gave my ex boyfriend oral sex while he was driving once, and on a pool table {noone in pub)lol - not the safest way lol. cant understand why you wouldnt like giving and receiving - each to their own i suppose outdoorson the sput of the moment is awesome.

jinny

I forgot about the driving one...can be very unsafe...but fun...

i never have done it in a car, i drive mini's, and not the bmw peice of crap you can get nowadays, end rant, shakes head and grrrrrrrrs, relax, breaths deeply then continues, proper mini's..........

to be honest, damn there is not enough room on the roof nevermind inside a proper mini to have sex, hence the outdoors malarky, should i get a bigger car?, hell no, the mini was born in the 60's, has were most of you in here, point proved, cheap but effective, lol, its not the car, i must be doing something wrong, can any of you baby boomer parents responsable for all these 40+ yr old kids in this forum, tell me what i am doing wrong? am i spoilt? am i unadaptable? should i be more flexable?, should she be?

please do tell, i know you silver surfers are out there, with more facts than i can ever comprehend in a day, and that some of you are english, so set forth to it and have your voice heard

mellors, there are silver posters here. i'm one.......... go back and read my posts and learn.

i enjoy receiving very much. need to be in the mood for giving, however. i think it might be something that you kind of acquire a liking for. i didn't like it the first (or second) time i tried it but then started to think about it some... now i don't mind doing it for a while (in the sense that i quite like doing it for a while)... but just a little while... i need to stop sometimes... still acquiring a liking for it, i guess.

i have a bit of a thing about body fluids... kind of sort of aversion but not exactly... hard to describe...

I enjoy giving oral sex but it has to be someone that I feel intimately/ emotionally close with. It really makes a different if with someone who you're having causal sex with or someone you're seriously dating.

Because men are easily to have an orgasm I would only it for a little while.

I love receiving oral sex and foreplay. Because it takes sometime for me to have an orgasm from just have intercourse I need to have oral sex/ foreplay to help me get really aroused.

I am an oldy too! lol but I still like sex! got my start outside so I guess that is why I like it outside lol

I agree with the sex outside some of the best sexual experiences have been outside where there is an risk of getting caught - woo hoo

Mellors as being adaptable to the mini -- that lil thing is hard to get 2 people into than to have a " blow 2 go " in which cos u guys drive on the wrong sides of the roads anyway ...

And yes the " blow 2 go is dangerous especially if u go ejactulate u might hit the gas or brake pedal also could be a lil messy if ya no what i mean --- lmao

Mellors u and i should have some talk i will assume we could blow the roof off of someof these threads


Tymbers

outside, mountains in New Mexico, receiving................waterfalls right there.......magnificent elk walks by...........yup, outdoors!!

oh man Pat! that sounds just beautiful for a beautiful experience! hmmmm and to think how many times I was in NM lol

it was pretty darned exciting. and, i imagine it is a fairly unique experience for a 48 year old woman........

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Pat, youre a pisser. First time I laughed all day. Make that all week.

Maybe we need a thread about WHERE we've done it...

Whats wrong with being a sheep?