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Old May 31, 2017, 02:24 PM
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Male, 42. At least once a day, if not more. Usually to porn or women I find attractive on Instagram.

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Old May 31, 2017, 04:47 PM
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Usually every day but it can fluctuate between more than once a day and 3-4 times in a week, depending on mood and such. I'll be 30 in June and have never had any physical intimacy with anyone, which is very painful, and I have a strong sex drive.
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Old May 31, 2017, 10:00 PM
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Male, 50. Ever since the traumatic experience last year I haven't been able to masturbate at all. I haven't orgasmed in five months. It's been awful, but I just can't get it up or get aroused. I'm hoping a real live woman will help. That and a blue pill.
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Old Jun 04, 2017, 08:41 PM
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Female, 34. 2 - 5 times a week.
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 01:24 AM
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Well during my ovulation week, once a day
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 01:39 AM
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Rarely anymore, and probably not often enough.
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Old Jun 05, 2017, 01:58 AM
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Female 41....high sex drive, lol, I appear to be getting worse the older I get, so, often
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Old Jun 07, 2017, 08:51 PM
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Female, 24. It depends on my cycle...Most of the time 3-5 times per week but around my ovulation time it's more frequent, sometimes multiple times per day. During my period I have almost no desire.
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Old Jun 25, 2017, 03:11 PM
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Female 41....high sex drive, lol, I appear to be getting worse the older I get, so, often
I thought that my sex drive was high in my 40s, but then menopause came knocking about a year ago and now i'm twice as horny as I was then and I'm in my mid-50s!
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Old Jul 06, 2017, 07:47 AM
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Just had masturbated using my three fingers
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Old Aug 16, 2017, 11:43 PM
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When I was 15, I used to prone masturbate everyday for 7 years until it wreaked my penis.

Now at 30, I only masturbate once every 3 weeks at least to allow for my penis to repair itself.

I know.... I'm weird.
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Old Aug 31, 2017, 07:40 PM
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I masturbate a LOT
I prefer reading erotica and looking at porn comics
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Old Sep 08, 2017, 07:28 PM
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Male, 51 love to jerk off almost every day, sometimes with toys and always to porn.
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Old Sep 09, 2017, 05:57 AM
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52 female used to do it several times a day. Now I am on different meds and Maybe 2/month. Meds have killed it for me. Also, I don't have a partner.
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Old Sep 12, 2017, 02:19 PM
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52 female used to do it several times a day. Now I am on different meds and Maybe 2/month. Meds have killed it for me. Also, I don't have a partner.
Hi, how are you doing today? Hang in there, everything will work out for you. Stay focused on yourself and getting happy. Where do you live? Good luck!

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Old Sep 21, 2017, 12:37 PM
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47-year-old male. I try to honk one off three times a day to keep my mind clear and my soul damned.
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Old Sep 21, 2017, 11:02 PM
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Argh! 58-year-old male. I’ll just edge-bate if I know that I’ll be having sex with partners in 24 hours but...

...left on my own? 4-6 times daily. No porn, just focus on memories.
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Old Sep 22, 2017, 02:29 AM
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I'm finding right now, with my mood being rock bottom, that I can't even bring myself to masturbate. I have neither the energy or drive and everything I enjoy feels empty and pointless.

When well(er) up to daily, more often I'll skip a day or two. I don't have good memories so do use porn but hate myself for doing so, I really detest the misogyny in most porn and have been trying to make use of more ethical forms of erotica like so called feminist porn, which is actually more sexy, but there's not a lot of that and some pretends to be feminist but isn't really (it's trendy at the moment so there's some bandwagon jumping)

Would prefer a real person even to hug right now though
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Old Sep 22, 2017, 04:26 AM
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Once a month? My sex drive is gone. I am depressed or mixed a lot. I am on meds that make orgasm very difficult. I am single with no hope of dating. Why bother.
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Old Sep 22, 2017, 07:52 AM
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47 yo woman in a platonic marriage...3-4 x a week. If I had a real person, who knows?
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Old Sep 22, 2017, 07:00 PM
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47 yo woman in a platonic marriage...3-4 x a week. If I had a real person, who knows?
A marriage with no sex? I don’t even do close friends without sex.

I’m not sure if you’re intimating that you might masturbate more or less if you had sexual partners? I have multiple partners of ‘both sexes’ and edge-bate in a-n-t-i-c-a-p-a-t-i-o-n.
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Old Sep 23, 2017, 03:27 AM
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At least once a day, everyday! Often more. When my fetishes and fantasies take hold I'm worse. I'm in my late 30's and my sex drive is insatiable, my partner is in her mid 40's and also has an increasing sex drive. We just wish we had the stamina of 15 years ago.
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Old Sep 27, 2017, 01:15 AM
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Well, yesterday was my once a month. lol I am gonna try for twice. lol
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Old Sep 27, 2017, 02:39 AM
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At least once a day, everyday! Often more. When my fetishes and fantasies take hold I'm worse. I'm in my late 30's and my sex drive is insatiable, my partner is in her mid 40's and also has an increasing sex drive. We just wish we had the stamina of 15 years ago.
My primary partner and I were high school lovers... 42 years ago. We stayed in touch, she is now divorced, we found one another and began again.

No, we’ve not the stamina now that we had at 16. But we have so many more options and time. She is as slender as she was 42 years ago. We take time, we make time, we hurry time, we crush time, we open time...

...I’ve few regrets. But we both wonder, we play out, what would have been had I not left her behind? What if I had said, “come with me”? Silly. I had to go. Of course I did. And “come with me”? No, no, we weren’t lovers like that. We were frantic lovers, catching time when we could. Standing in the hallway, for goodness sake!

Stamina; it has been replaced by some round water bead that has no name. A cool round water bead. Maybe it’s death. Or only gravity. It’s not regret - we both believe that we led the lives we wanted (save my holiday).

Yes, 4-6 times daily except when expecting a partner or three. Then I edge in expectation.
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Old Oct 02, 2017, 02:23 AM
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Once a month? My sex drive is gone. I am depressed or mixed a lot. I am on meds that make orgasm very difficult. I am single with no hope of dating. Why bother.
Why no hope of dating?
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