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#26
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Male, 42. At least once a day, if not more. Usually to porn or women I find attractive on Instagram.
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#27
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Usually every day but it can fluctuate between more than once a day and 3-4 times in a week, depending on mood and such. I'll be 30 in June and have never had any physical intimacy with anyone, which is very painful, and I have a strong sex drive.
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#28
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Male, 50. Ever since the traumatic experience last year I haven't been able to masturbate at all. I haven't orgasmed in five months. It's been awful, but I just can't get it up or get aroused. I'm hoping a real live woman will help. That and a blue pill.
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#29
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Female, 34. 2 - 5 times a week.
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#30
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Well during my ovulation week, once a day
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#31
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Rarely anymore, and probably not often enough.
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#32
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Female 41....high sex drive, lol, I appear to be getting worse the older I get, so, often
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#33
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Female, 24. It depends on my cycle...Most of the time 3-5 times per week but around my ovulation time it's more frequent, sometimes multiple times per day. During my period I have almost no desire.
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#34
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I thought that my sex drive was high in my 40s, but then menopause came knocking about a year ago and now i'm twice as horny as I was then and I'm in my mid-50s!
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#35
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Just had masturbated using my three fingers
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#36
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When I was 15, I used to prone masturbate everyday for 7 years until it wreaked my penis.
Now at 30, I only masturbate once every 3 weeks at least to allow for my penis to repair itself. I know.... I'm weird. ![]() |
#37
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I masturbate a LOT
I prefer reading erotica and looking at porn comics ![]() |
#38
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Male, 51 love to jerk off almost every day, sometimes with toys and always to porn.
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#39
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52 female used to do it several times a day. Now I am on different meds and Maybe 2/month. Meds have killed it for me. Also, I don't have a partner.
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"I get knocked down, but I get up again..." Bipolar 1 Last edited by CANDC; Sep 13, 2017 at 11:30 AM. Reason: admin |
#40
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Hi, how are you doing today? Hang in there, everything will work out for you. Stay focused on yourself and getting happy. Where do you live? Good luck!
Last edited by CANDC; Sep 13, 2017 at 11:30 AM. Reason: admin |
#41
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47-year-old male. I try to honk one off three times a day to keep my mind clear and my soul damned.
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#42
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Argh! 58-year-old male. I’ll just edge-bate if I know that I’ll be having sex with partners in 24 hours but...
...left on my own? 4-6 times daily. No porn, just focus on memories. |
#43
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I'm finding right now, with my mood being rock bottom, that I can't even bring myself to masturbate. I have neither the energy or drive and everything I enjoy feels empty and pointless.
When well(er) up to daily, more often I'll skip a day or two. I don't have good memories so do use porn but hate myself for doing so, I really detest the misogyny in most porn and have been trying to make use of more ethical forms of erotica like so called feminist porn, which is actually more sexy, but there's not a lot of that and some pretends to be feminist but isn't really (it's trendy at the moment so there's some bandwagon jumping) Would prefer a real person even to hug right now though |
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#44
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Once a month? My sex drive is gone. I am depressed or mixed a lot. I am on meds that make orgasm very difficult. I am single with no hope of dating. Why bother.
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"I get knocked down, but I get up again..." Bipolar 1 |
#45
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47 yo woman in a platonic marriage...3-4 x a week. If I had a real person, who knows?
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#46
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I’m not sure if you’re intimating that you might masturbate more or less if you had sexual partners? I have multiple partners of ‘both sexes’ and edge-bate in a-n-t-i-c-a-p-a-t-i-o-n. |
#47
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At least once a day, everyday! Often more. When my fetishes and fantasies take hold I'm worse. I'm in my late 30's and my sex drive is insatiable, my partner is in her mid 40's and also has an increasing sex drive. We just wish we had the stamina of 15 years ago.
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#48
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Well, yesterday was my once a month. lol I am gonna try for twice. lol
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"I get knocked down, but I get up again..." Bipolar 1 |
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#49
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No, we’ve not the stamina now that we had at 16. But we have so many more options and time. She is as slender as she was 42 years ago. We take time, we make time, we hurry time, we crush time, we open time... ...I’ve few regrets. But we both wonder, we play out, what would have been had I not left her behind? What if I had said, “come with me”? Silly. I had to go. Of course I did. And “come with me”? No, no, we weren’t lovers like that. We were frantic lovers, catching time when we could. Standing in the hallway, for goodness sake! Stamina; it has been replaced by some round water bead that has no name. A cool round water bead. Maybe it’s death. Or only gravity. It’s not regret - we both believe that we led the lives we wanted (save my holiday). Yes, 4-6 times daily except when expecting a partner or three. Then I edge in expectation. |
#50
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Why no hope of dating?
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