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Old Feb 01, 2017, 11:12 PM
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I look at porn and masturbate about 6 nights out of 7 and that's only because I force myself to take a night off now and then. I just feel like such a pervert because I'm a middle aged female and I thought that people's sex drive slowed down as we got older. My sex drive is stronger than ever and it seems like it''s been increasing over the past 10 years. Maybe it's the onset of menopause.

So, I'd love to know if you're male or female, approx age and how often you masturbate. I'm thinking that maybe I will feel like less of a sex maniac if others look at porn and masturbate every night too. Thanks in advance.
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Old Feb 03, 2017, 12:12 PM
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Sorry no one has replied so I thought I'd give it a shot.
I'm female, late 40's. in the past 5 yrs my sex drive has also gone thru the roof.
I do masturbate & would do it more often if I had more private time. I'd say maybe 3 times a week. And yes I also enjoy watching porn. More now than ever before.
I wouldn't say you're sex maniac except if you're having risky sexual encounters or if masturbating is inhibiting your lifestyle. Otherwise I'd just enjoy the energy release & use it as a positive in your life.
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Male, 36, nearly every day. I'm getting away from porn, I'm preferring to use my imagination these days.
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Old Feb 03, 2017, 12:45 PM
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Old Feb 03, 2017, 02:28 PM
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Female, 19, I tried it twice because people told me it would be enjoyable, which it wasn't, so I tried it once more, still not enjoyable, so that was it.
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Old Feb 03, 2017, 03:55 PM
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Male, mid 30s, 3-7 times a week. Depends.
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Old Feb 03, 2017, 04:13 PM
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I'm a female, 33, who does it every two to three days. I did it last night, so I'm good to go for a couple more days.
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Old Feb 03, 2017, 04:30 PM
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Old Feb 04, 2017, 04:39 AM
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@ Breadfish (not joking), if you're not enjoying it, you're doing it wrong.

I'm male, mid 50s and hardly masturbate anymore. Thanks for nothing depression . When I did, it was on average once a day. On occasion twice a day. My ex was 15yrs older than me and was a real horn dog. He could spend half the damn day masturbating if he could've gotten away with it.
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Old Feb 04, 2017, 06:05 AM
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Old Feb 04, 2017, 11:11 PM
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Male, 27 and usually every night. Sometimes early in the morning if I can't sleep. Mostly with porn, but I'll switch it up with either my imagination and/or toys.
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Old Feb 04, 2017, 11:20 PM
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Good to have imagination.... mine is lost
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Old Feb 05, 2017, 07:24 AM
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Mid 30's female I used to be at it like a bunny but after injuring my back I only manage 3-4 times a month
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Old Feb 06, 2017, 06:00 AM
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If I had my way, I"ll do it everyday...lol...now just few times a week...
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Old Feb 08, 2017, 07:05 AM
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Female, 19, I tried it twice because people told me it would be enjoyable, which it wasn't, so I tried it once more, still not enjoyable, so that was it.
Just so as you know your not on your own, I am 38 female and Ace, so I don't masturbate at all. Don't enjoy it never have. I love reading erotica/noirotica. Porn I can take or leave but as I have no sexual inclination, its kinda pointless.
May as well be rubbing my elbow.
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Old Feb 08, 2017, 08:06 PM
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Just so as you know your not on your own, I am 38 female and Ace, so I don't masturbate at all. Don't enjoy it never have. I love reading erotica/noirotica. Porn I can take or leave but as I have no sexual inclination, its kinda pointless.

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Old Feb 09, 2017, 03:02 AM
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Old Feb 09, 2017, 06:35 PM
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Old Feb 10, 2017, 01:49 AM
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Anywhere from 1 - 10 times a day/night.

Porn or imagination.
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Old Feb 23, 2017, 07:57 PM
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Old Feb 25, 2017, 01:34 AM
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Male, age 40, daily doing it, but mostly it releaives my anxiety and I do before I go to bed evernight and it helps me sleep. I don't watch porn, but I do use some toys.
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Old May 30, 2017, 11:45 AM
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I look at porn and masturbate about 6 nights out of 7 and that's only because I force myself to take a night off now and then. I just feel like such a pervert because I'm a middle aged female and I thought that people's sex drive slowed down as we got older. My sex drive is stronger than ever and it seems like it''s been increasing over the past 10 years. Maybe it's the onset of menopause.

So, I'd love to know if you're male or female, approx age and how often you masturbate. I'm thinking that maybe I will feel like less of a sex maniac if others look at porn and masturbate every night too. Thanks in advance.
Hello, I'm a female of 23 years of age;

Hmmm...I usually have masturbation sessions 2-5 times each week. Which mean I may masturbate more than once in a day and other days I don't masturbate at all. It mostly depends on my mood and whatever situation I'm in. I sometimes masturbate in order to relieve me from stress as a way of escaping but most of the time I do it because I'm horny.

I don't use a toy often but I do like using a dildo on certain occasions. Most of the time I just use brush handle since...I really hate using my hand...it makes me extremely uncomfortable for some odd reason.

It's also hard for me to masturbate without some sort of lewd image or pornographic video to look at. Not saying my imagination is shoddy but I just prefer to look at something visible as it helps fuel my imagination.
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Old May 30, 2017, 12:08 PM
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Old May 30, 2017, 03:49 PM
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May as well be rubbing my elbow.
In high school my friends and I would say, "elbows and knees!" as a joke after we read that it is the erogenous zone for orcs, or some dungeons and dragons creature. * I am not sure at all where we came up with that, but it was a nerdy teenager fun fact at the time.

To answer the question: After I got into a relationship and had a partner around all the time, I stopped masturbating. No need for it anymore. But before that, every day. Female, in 30's.

In college, someone was asking a group of friends for suggestions on how to sleep better. A girl suggested masturbation. She always knew how to throw everyone off. You are not a freak, OP, and neither is anyone who doesn't like masturbation. Different strokes for different folks, as it were.

*that winking emotion looks so creepy, I had to use it!
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