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I look at porn and masturbate about 6 nights out of 7 and that's only because I force myself to take a night off now and then. I just feel like such a pervert because I'm a middle aged female and I thought that people's sex drive slowed down as we got older. My sex drive is stronger than ever and it seems like it''s been increasing over the past 10 years. Maybe it's the onset of menopause.

So, I'd love to know if you're male or female, approx age and how often you masturbate. I'm thinking that maybe I will feel like less of a sex maniac if others look at porn and masturbate every night too. Thanks in advance.
Male and I go through bought of masturbation. I do watch porn when masturbating and have fascination with homemade group sex. Its more of a inhabitation. I really seek one mate. I will say watching and being watched definite turn on. Seeing a woman please her self is big one.

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Old Oct 03, 2017, 03:02 PM
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I say if it feels good, do it. There's no need to feel bad or compare yourself to anyone. You're not hurting yourself or anyone else.
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 04:34 PM
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Why no hope of dating?
I really haven't met anyone I've been interested in, that would be a "healthy" match.
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 08:18 PM
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The frequency you're describing sounds about average to me. I'm not comfortable sharing anything quite that personal on here about myself, but once a day sounds about average. Assuming it's not like dozens of times a day or somethin, I wouldn't worry about it at all. Plus, aside from monks, certain yogic experts, and others who don't masturbate or have sex for religious reasons..... I would guess that pretty much everyone does masturbates with some level of regularity, with few exceptions here and there perhaps. Although, to be honest, I've always thought of it as essentially a normal bodily function.
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Old Oct 03, 2017, 11:45 PM
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Yes. Like getting a back rub. Or rubbing your neck. ^
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 04:10 AM
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Like anything else, there's nothing wrong with it as long as it's not creating problems with your relationship. If masturbation is creating problems with your sex life, I'd definitely give frequency a thought. That stated, however, an orgasm is one of the most pleasurable sensations in this life. Since GF & I have had trouble with our sex life for a few years, I find myself masturbating more frequently...probably 4-5 times a week. I'm 56, so my libido isn't what it was when I was in my 20's. At that age, I could probably have 3-4 orgasms in a day; now, one's my limit. If my GF & my libidos matched right now, my masturbation would probably be a problem. Since that's not the case, however, the only way I can feel one of those magical orgasms is by "bopping the bishop."
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 08:29 AM
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Male and I go through bought of masturbation. I do watch porn when masturbating and have fascination with homemade group sex. Its more of a inhabitation. I really seek one mate. I will say watching and being watched definite turn on. Seeing a woman please her self is big one.

Thanks nice to here its not just male thiong
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 09:07 AM
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What does this post mean? Did I miss something somewhere?
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 09:35 AM
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 11:34 AM
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What happens when it’s too late? And how do you know if it’s too late?
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What happens when it’s too late? And how do you know if it’s too late?
Hmmm..good question....maybe when the wanker falls off?
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 08:32 PM
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Hmmm..good question....maybe when the wanker falls off?


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Old Oct 04, 2017, 08:40 PM
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Not so much anymore. I used to be several times a day now it's a couple times a week. I'm just so bored with it and it doesn't feel good anymore. Lately I'll start masturbating and realize nothings going to happen so I stop OR I'll get almost there and then the feeling goes away so no "climax" which is not really a climax but a "ding! You're done". Not sure if this is normal for 24 but I really don't like sex anymore, I'm really not into masturbating either.
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 10:39 PM
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Is that a problem? I would think 24 is too young to dislike sex. Do you have inhibitions or guilt?

I can't say how I would enjoy it or if it has changed. I am not really happy with one night stands.
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 11:32 PM
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Yes. Like getting a back rub. Or rubbing your neck. ^
Massage is AWESOME and yes I yelled that one. Do you go to any type of support meetings?
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 11:36 PM
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Hmmm..good question....maybe when the wanker falls off?
LOL That would be one definite indication
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Old Oct 04, 2017, 11:39 PM
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Is that a problem? I would think 24 is too young to dislike sex. Do you have inhibitions or guilt?

I can't say how I would enjoy it or if it has changed. I am not really happy with one night stands.

Na to hell with one night stands. That is what masturbation is for. I would RATHER A REAL CONNECTION.
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Old Oct 06, 2017, 04:04 PM
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I hate sex but like masterbation. I masterbate once a day. I don't orgasm from sex with a partner I get turned off. I get off if I do it myself.
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Old Oct 07, 2017, 07:44 AM
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I'm sure this might be a somewhat common experience, but when I was on a higher dose of AD's I couldn't ejaculate, no matter how hard I tried. Thus, I gave up on mastrubation for a time. My pdoc said this was common with SSRI's. I'm bipolar, though, & only take AD's when absolutely necessary, thank goodness.
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Old Oct 07, 2017, 07:52 AM
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Not having sex any more in a bad marriage. It became a nightmare, struggle for control to the death.

On Cymbalta which doesn’t block the big O. Get horny once a week approx and have been taking care of it myself. Feeling so ashamed and humiliated about sex altogether now.

When I was single, I masturbated approx 2-3x week maybe, was early 20’s, was not ashamed or humiliated at all. Felt very natural about it.

I’ve been traumatized, but I still get aroused (and fantasize) anyway.
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Old Oct 09, 2017, 06:15 PM
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Age 55 Male. I masturbate all the time, ejaculate maybe 2-3 times per week. I am addicted to transgender women, crossdressing/ fantasizing of myself as a woman. I am a member of Sexaholics Anonymous and Sex Addicts Anonymous. I would like to stop but can't. It feels so good and I need that.
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Old Oct 16, 2017, 02:19 AM
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I look at porn and masturbate about 6 nights out of 7 and that's only because I force myself to take a night off now and then. I just feel like such a pervert because I'm a middle aged female and I thought that people's sex drive slowed down as we got older. My sex drive is stronger than ever and it seems like it''s been increasing over the past 10 years. Maybe it's the onset of menopause.

So, I'd love to know if you're male or female, approx age and how often you masturbate. I'm thinking that maybe I will feel like less of a sex maniac if others look at porn and masturbate every night too. Thanks in advance.
Yea I go through bought. Porn is addictive but safe. I'm in same age group. I just met someone online and much to my surprise she has high libido to. I'm trying to refrain. I but got horney and it is so hard no pun intended not to yank on the wanker. I have guilt complex now instilled by others and it confusing. I really am just trying to be accepted and if that's what I must do then so be it. The thing for me is when I did watch open it was always group sex but I think it's a fantasy or drug induces desire but when given the chance for group sex I had no desire. Wierd huh. I think your normal but I'm not exactly a authority on normal. Just want to find my mate. First time in a long time this woman has captivated me with personality. Major turn on. I So just wanted whack my pus when we talked about everything. Didn't ask her the porn question but yea we both said we like to masturbate but just wasn't cutting it anymore I said. Fantisy verses real experiences of what your willing to do and what belongs left in just fantasy state is where I would like to get feed back on.
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Old Oct 20, 2017, 09:37 AM
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Just when I'm horny. Otherwise i don't really masturbate at all. I've thrown my two dildos in the bin.
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Old Oct 20, 2017, 05:17 PM
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Whenever I feel like it. It's not a regular thing but it's quite a bit. Sometimes every day. Sometimes for a while. Sometimes I go a week or two without it though that's rare. I love sex. Everything to do with it. I've never felt ashamed of it.
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