10 things I hate about myself/I like

This is a really good idea. I used to do this in a journal, but gave up when I couldn't think of any more positives.

Dislikes
1. I'm clingy/needy
2. I'm lazy
3. I'm not smart in school and have terrible study habits
4. I try to fix everything, and blame myself for everything
5. I don't eat enough
6. I sleep too much
7. I hate my anxiety
8. I hate my fears of loud noises
9. I hate being disorganized
10. I am not social

Likes
1. I am independent
2. I am mature
3. I can bake
4. I am a good singer
5. I'm nice
6. I care about EVERYONE
7. I like helping people
8. I'm dependable
... can't think of any more

you're pretty, and you have a great taste in clothing, jewelry, and accessories.... Just thought I'd add things I like about you that aren't on that list.

dislike about me:
1- I'm lazy
2- I have trouble thinking
3- I sleep too much
4- I'm not dependable at all.
5- I never do my homework.
6- I dissociate, and miss a lot of things.
7- My ADD makes me miss even more things.
8- I'm not in the loop if I'm not present.
9- I'm never present.
10- I can't talk to people sometimes if my anxiety's bad.

Summed up: I become another person sometimes, and I don't like that other person.

Things I like!
1- my hair!
2- my eyes!
3- my boobs!
4- I'm good in bed
5- I'm easy to talk to
6- I'm confident and open
7- I meet new people EVERYWHERE (on a good day)
8- I like myself when I'm who I am (which is surprisingly rare now-a-days)
9- I'm adventurous.
10- I'm a good writer, and like studying for fun.

I also like that I can add more to my like list! Makes me feel like I'm making progress with myself. Or maybe I'm just on a BP upswing?

Thanks for making me smile love =)

1. I always feel sick, i always feel crazy and mental
2. im way to insecure , i hate myself most of the time
3. im not good enough for my fiance
4.even though im really insecure with my looks. i hate myself from the inside the most.
5. i dont let people in, i dont want to be judged
6. i have no friends,no family, i feel lonely alot of the time
7. im so lazy
8. im dramatic
9. i cant be loved.
10. i cant look at myself in the mirror without a ton of makeup on.

1. im a vegetarian , i've saved over 1200 animals
2. im an artist
3.im a good body piercer
4.
5.

1) I am coming down with ailments related to aging.
2) My appearance is changing in ways related to aging.
3) I didn't appreciate how young I was, when I was younger.
4) I didn't realize how I could have better prepared for getting older.
5) I don't exercise.
6) My foot hurts when I walk.
7) I've gained weight over the years.
8) I'm not as good a person as I wish I was.
9) I failed to reach goals I made for myself.
10) I am undisciplined.

1) ????? . . . stumped . . . for the moment . . .

Dislikes:
1. I have to really push myself during the day, every day, to keep up with everyone; including going out in crowed, public places when I am perfectly happy, safely nestled at my desk in my office (confronting major agoraphobia issues. Daily)
2. My self esteem is horrible (I cannot look in the mirror or be in photos)
3. Feel ugly on the inside / like a troll on the outside
4. I feel as if I am "too damaged" to make new friends or meet new people
5. Get dizzy, light-headed thinking about being exposed to social situations
6. I am crushed because my father shut me out (due to my mother's lies, manipulations, emotional abuse) and there is nothing I can do to get through to him
7. I am so exhausted all the time ... from worrying
8. I feel as if I am not aging well because I hardly smile anymore
9. I wasted my career with horrible bosses, at horrible firms, because I thought that is what I deserved (and no better)
10. I've isolated so much that I cannot attend any type of group function without having major anxiety (old friends, family, work colleagues, etc)

Likes:
1. I rescused/adopted my beloved (crazy) cat and stuck with him when nobody else would (I was his 4th home). And we went through hell. And now we are pretty happy. As with any cat, we have a quiet understanding - he rules the house
2. When I was hungry and had no food at all, I finally asked a neighbor for help.
3. That I have enough black pieces in my waredrobe so I have something to wear to work every day
4. I am working really, really hard to get a grip on C-PTSD and all that comes with it

5....10 ... I'll get back with you

1. Pressuring myself every time I work on something.
2. My short-tempered attitude often gets in the way, making it hard to calm down.
3. I feel that my career was a waste and I'm on a dead-end route on looking at a job.
4. I don't have 'real' friends and they'll only remember me when they need something for me.
5. Getting envious on someone who draws well, low blow when that artist is younger than me.
6. I always apologize when my work/chore isn't beyond their expectations.
7. I feel that I always screw up everything.
8. Cannot keep up a conversation going.
9. I'm ugly because of my appearance. (A guy said that to me)
10. I'm a failure both in life and love.

Likes:

1. I'm an artist. I draw when things are down.
2. I learn to cook by just observing someone cook.
3. I'm wear simple clothes, I'm no fashionista.

Hates:
1. Being fat.
2. Feeling uncomfortable in my own body.
3. Night terrors.
4. Skin biting.
5. Need for sex.
6. Lack of independence.
7. Feeling victimized.
8. Panic attacks.
9. Repressed memory.
10. Afraid to trust love.

Likes:
1. Artistic capability.
2. The color of my eyes.
3. The way I express myself.
4. How unique I am.
5. My honesty towards myself and others.
6. Ability to overcome challenges.
7. Ambition to strive.
8. Inspired to help and care for others.
9. Self motivated.
10. Broken but healing beating heart.

Thank you. This exercise helped me see some good in me despite the **** that brings me down constantly. What a lovely way to end my night.

(continued)
Like about myself:
5. Growing up, I learned from a group of very lovely women the importance of family, friendship, entertaining, planning functions, holding functions, the importance of giving back and caring. And the (amazing, incredible, wonderful) value of keeping up appearances.
6 - 10 (working on it)

The dislikes
1-I am not always "me"- i can switch on a person at times.
2-That I can have extreme emptiness with out warning or knowing why at times
3-I get angry too quickly at times
4-I some times am unable to let go/be the floating leaf like most.
5- I am tooo detailed some times. Drives me nuts some times
6-That I do not "worth myself" as other do- or even as I do them.
7-I will let others be mean, with out defending, but yet I can switch on that as well and take a little suggestion or criticism to a whole new level.
8- I can't always problem solve
9-I seem to have no agenda and I don't know why and I don't know how to start one.. In ways I am lost, as always, and feel almost as if I always will be
10-I can't seem to get very close to others, and even when I do- distrust is still there
10 things I like about myself........
1- I try to accept things, I try- I may not succeed with it
2- I try to listen to all sides, eventually
3- I try to "pick my battles" for the most part, even if I explode at one point, I try to pick which battles to keep on, and which ones to let go of
4- I keep trying to learn about me, the world around me, others, and how things work
5- I can problem solve a lot
6- I am trying to do the best that I can now, even though my past may have been rather damaging.
7- I have learned to say NO- and I have learned to say- I don't want to talk to you right now due to how I feel... (aka. trying best to learn to not let others influence me so much)
8- I have learned what it feels to be liberated, even if it has a confusing memory of also feeling bad with it. (maybe I need to learn that what happened was not my fault entirely? part of the letting others influence me).
9- I can be proud of the work that I do, weather it be the dumb job or true art work that makes me smile.
10- I can be a very loving person, that has empathy for many....

Hard not to put the buts in the good-- But i think this is a good exercise to do

One time I was asked to pick 3 labels of what i put on me (i am usually pretty down on myself so it was a given the 3 "bad"/"unhealthy" labels that I put on me) and then to write 3 labels that I want those three to turn into-- Lets see if i Can remember:

1) monster
2) ugly/disgusting
3) worthless.

I want to turn those into-
1) Not a monster,
2) perhaps ok but not necessarily beautiful
3) and worth something....

But I am not sure where to go from there- Eh-- therapist I had i don't think cared much for me, she always forgot what homework I was doing/never asked and when I brought it up it was like- ok good, ok, now on to something else, and giving directions on some, null.... what do you all think where to go from the 3?
I guess the next step would be how to turn those things into the next? IDK... something to chew on

Like the 10 things of like/dislike.... but what to do with them?

1. My automatic response to being sad, mad, or stressed is to run thru SU methods in my head
2. Right now, i can't stop thinking my husband is an idiot
3. I will always blame others for my "condition" before myself (see #2)
4. I hate him right now
5. I have totally unrealistic expectations of the people I love
6. I never pray, except when I pray for death
7. I have lost every friend I've ever had
8. I lost them by projecting my own problems & issues onto them
9. I think most people are dbags
10. I take all this time and energy obsessing over myself...doing things like this
Like
1. I'm a good artist
2. I take good care of my kitties
3. I like to help people
4. I cut & color my own hair, well
5. I'm a good cook
6. I'm a pretty good friend to the friends I have now...I hope
7. I try to be good
8. I'm good with plants
9. I try to keep in touch with my family...even though it's really hard for me
10. I'm very open-minded and tolerant (xcept for the dbag theory of course

Phew...that "like" list was tuf

Dislikes

1) I am forgetful
2) I don't like my thinning hair
3) I procrastinate
4) I avoid social situations
5) I dislike my shaky hands
6) I am not money smart
7) I am not competitive in the workplace
8) I worry too much
9) I cannot sing like I used to
10) I think too much

Likes

1) I have an easy-going nature
2) I care for others
3) I am honest
4) I am trustworthy
5) I try hard to live as healthy as I can
6) I have been told I have great parenting skills
7) My skin is holding well with age
8) I am ecclectic with music (like many styles)
9) I can cook well
10) I love to learn new things

I think this is a great idea! Not sure I can come up with 10 of each, but I'll do my best

Like:
1. I've lost 30lbs in the past year, more than halfway to my goal weight
2. I was the first in my family to graduate college (and did so with honors)
3. I'm one of the few people I know that loves their job (even though its completely unrelated to my college degree, and I didn't even need a degree to get it)
4. Strong work ethic (my manager at work told me the other day he wishes everybody there worked as hard as I do)
5. I'm a good speller
6. I'm great at keeping secrets
7. I'm a good listener
8. I'm good at managing my money
9. I've come a long ways socially in the past year and learned a lot about myself
10. I've started to develop my faith

Dislike:
1. I sleep too much (I think its mostly depression setting in)
2. Social anxiety/possible avoidant personality disorder
3. I don't have the motivation to start (or keep) an exercise routine to lose the last of the weight I'd like to lose
4. I'm slightly overweight still
5. I'm hairy (I'm female and have dark, thick hair on my stomach, thick eyebrows, dark hair on my arms/legs, hair on my toes and knuckles, etc)
6. I'm very inexperienced sexually, especially for my age
7. I feel as though I am several years behind my peers in most developmental milestones (didn't drive until I was 18, didn't graduate college until I was 23, didn't move out until I was 24, still haven't had any significant long-term relationships)
8. Very low/nearly non-existent sex drive (with others anyways)
9. Don't eat very healthy
10. Don't have any special skills/talents (although I'm slowly working on this)

First of all, congradulations on the weight loss (YAY!!)

I don't have much motivation to exercise either so you are not alone in that aspect. To me, it seems that your are not behind your peers like you may think you are. The information seems very normal for this economic time.

I also feel I have no particular skills or talents for the workplace. Having received constant criticism from employers on what needs improvement, we don't hear enough of what we do well. With that knowledge now, I can observe my own team at work and tell them what they do well. Let's pass on to others what we now know people need to hear. Including ourselves.

I was investigated for an incident at work and I learned not to jump the gun and assume responsibility right away. If I know it was not my doing, I need to keep my own sense of self respect instead of bowing down to intimidation. I was not at fault and should never have doubted my own honour. If nobody else praises you....then you praise yourself.

i am very lazy

10 things I hate:
-I'm apathetic
-I have relationship issues
-I have a hard time getting a boy
-I have a hard time being attracted to a boy
-I procrastinate
-I'm really thin
-My left boob is bigger while my right side is flat due to surgery
-I have health problems that prevent me from joining school activities
-I'm afraid of a kid named Dusty
-I say things without thinking sometimes
-I have a hard time believing in things

10 things I love:
-I have curly hair that everyone loves
-I have an hour-glass body shape
-I have scars (I use to not like my surgical scars but now I do)
-I have an ***
-I curse all the time
-I have a sense of humor and act like an r-tard
-I love fashion and look good in girls clothes
-I'm both tomboy and girly
-I have a thing for cats
-I find myself to be single, which is fun.

10 Dislikes:

1) My face and stomach. I'm ugly
2) I'm not social/don't have any friends
3) That I hate everybody
4) I hate that I compare myself to other people
5) I hate that I will get into a relationship with anyone that pays me any attention
6) I dislike that I am in love with someone that never was or will be with me
7) I can't stop thinking about the past and dreaming of a better future. I am never present!
8) I hate that I don't live my life. I live in my dreams.
9) I let people use/walk over me
10) I alienate everyone around me

!0 Likes

1) I like that I'm weird and not like everyone else. I have a personality
2) That I can make myself laugh sometimes
3) That I am open-minded
4) Creative
5) I like that I like to make people happy
6) In touch with my feelings/dreams/nature
7) Independent
8) See the world differently
9) Always in love
10) Ambitious

1. I have pushed all of my friends and anyone who's ever cared about me away. I barely have a social life and it's all my fault.
2. I am not attractive no matter how hard I try. My stomach is fat, my skin has turned into a wreck, I am so short that I look like a child, my hands are always dry because I wash them too much, my chin is weirdly not symmetrical, my ears are too big, my lips are too thin, the hairline on the back of my neck is weird and uneven, etc.
3. I have the plainest wardrobe and no fashion sense. I also suck at putting on makeup.
4. I am an ungrateful *****.
5. It takes me forever to do anything. I am too much of a perfectionist.
6. I have no talents. I am not artistic or athletic.
7. I am horrible at everything I try.
8. I am a terrible driver and get angry over everything on the road.
9. I have no passions besides watching television. I don't know how to enjoy life.
10. I am a pathetic piece of ****.
11. I have a bad temper, am super sensitive, and overly emotional.
12. I am too dependent on others for my happiness.

1. I am relatively smart and my grades are good.
2. I have a nice hair color.
3. I am very organized.
4. I am a pretty good writer.

And that's all I could come up with.

Dislikes:
1. I am terrible at making friends.
2. I can be very, very rude.
3. My English is not as good as it should be.
4. I can be very lazy/indigent.
5. I struggle to stop smoking and stay stopped.
6. I spend too much money.
7. I can be very chaotic and irregular.
8. I am filled with hate and anger to the people who have hurt me.
9. I don't read enough; spend too much time watching crap TV.
10. I don't eat healthy enough.

Likes:
1. I'm intelligent.
2. I'm becoming ever more at peace with how I look.
3. I am highly successful in my career/profession for my age.
4. I speak four languages.
5. I make time for creative things like knitting and cooking.
6. I keep fit with running and yoga and I do it regularly.
7. I can be very caring of people in distress.
8. I moved to a foreign country on my own when I was 16.
9. Even though I don't read enough, I'm quite well-read.
10. I am working hard on being less attached to my things/possessions and it's working well for me.
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10 Dislikes:
1. I walk and stand weird. I kind of walk straight but still my feet point inward a lot, one foot more than the other. Pigeon toed in a way.
2. I have a bit of a speech problem. Even though English is my first language I can never say things correctly all the time. When its starts it becomes a pattern.
3. I either worry or brood which leads to sulking a lot .
4. I tend to put people on a higher pedestal and me at the way bottom.
5. I'm not all that social, I would never go to a really public place alone.
6. I get upset easily and the result is crying my eyes out till there sore
7. I'm not open and I keep lots things to myself. When sometimes i shouldn't.
8. I don't have many friends. Just one and sometimes I'm unsure of that friendship.
9. Even though I shouldn't, I care what people think of me.
10. I have no coordination, my hands shake and I'm a little clumsy.

10 Likes:
1. My creativity .....
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10 Dislikes
1. I overeact to everything. A pen drops and I will freak out.
2. Even people try to help me and stuff, esp. My best friends, I push them away before they can hurt me.
3. I sleep in bed too much.
4. I don't try hard enough in school.
5. I'm very very paranoid of what people think of me.
6. I'm too much of an organization freak. I'm obsessed.
7. I care way too much of what my body looks like and keeping it thin.
8. I'm so stuck in the past sometimes, I miss out on the present.
9. I'm too envious of my friends.
10. I don't put effort into the things I care about.

10 Likes
1. Sometimes I can draw okay.
2. When I'm friends with someone, I stick up for them no matter what.
3. I think people enjoy my randomness.
4. I'm good at getting stuff off people's minds.
5. Im

I'll try this
1) I'm Ugly
2) I have no meaning
3) My teeth are crooked
4) Every guy I liked couldn't stand me
5) I cut myself
6) Everything I can do well, I know 10 people who can do it better
7) I can't even help myself, but still try(and fail to help others)
8) I don't care about myself
9) I'm easily frightened
10) {Ten already? that was fast} I could think of this list without hesitation
Now time for things I love
1) Ok at poetry
2) If you mess with any of my freinds I'll defend them no matter how bad I know I'll get beat
3) I'm a good listener
4) I can take a joke (or a verbal abuse)
5) I'll stand up for a complete stranger in danger
6) I'm not afraid of dieing for a good cause
7) I put others first
8) I can draw at a fair level
9) I'm not too bad of a singer (Tho I refuse to sing in front of others)
10) This list didn't take to long either
Wow, I actualy feel pretty good about myself right now. I didn't think I'd complete the second list.

The Bad
1) I'm Lazy
2) I avoid all things social
3) I am short with people (not in height)
4) I'm overly emotional
5) I fall in love with complete strangers
6) Overweight
7) No job
8) No drivers license
9) No special talents
10) I'm poor
11) No close friends
12) Last girlfriend was 6 years ago

Good
1) My taste in music
2) My hair
3) My eyes
4) I cook the best chicken tacos in the world
5) I can laugh at myself
6) My sense of humor in general is pretty good I guess
7) I am good at most video games
8) Decent intelligence
9) Common sense (probably too much common sense for my own good so this may be iffy)
10) Good memory (again probably too good for my own good.. iffy)

10 Things I hate about myself

1) My huge flat feet
2) I talk to fast
3) I don't eat healthy/exercise
4) I can't focus
5) I'm forgetful
6) My skin is way too sensitive
7) I'm really pale
8) I can't just lay down and go to sleep
9) I'm not good with words
10) I have no sense of time

10 Things I like about myself
1) I'm creative
2) I can sing
3) I'm an awesome percussionist
4) I'm smart/ good at figuring things out
5) I love my eyes because they're blue with green centers
6) I love my sense of humor
7) I can rap
8) I can dance (hip-hop)
9) I can draw
10) I'm strong in my opinions and morals, but open and loving to those who disagree