10 things I hate about myself/I like

The bad; I don't like that...
1. I'm extremely awkward in person I have bad anxiety sometimes I stutter
2. I have stomach belly
3. no job
4. I worry too much, for something on friday I worry since monday; not getting sleep
5. sometimes I wont control myself around handsome charming guys
6. I play video games too much
7. I get dramatic on my fiancee when I drink, I regret it
8. I need a lot of attention, I get jealous and insecure
9. I compare myself a lot to the success of family and friends around me
10. I used to tell myself every year I wouldn't be living

The good
1. I try to understand everybody, even the racist ones
2. I have my father and fiance+his family for support
3. I realize I am beautiful in my own way, I have unique features
4. I am part of different cultures and I travel a lot
5. I am in a registered nursing program, I'm into science but I love the arts
6. I have a puppy
7. I stand up for myself and what I believe in
8. i lost 70 lbs.
9. I have connections to certain things
10. I am trying

hate:
1. im 31 living at home
2. i gained 20 pounds
3. stupid medical condition makes me smell bad (damn doc will help me darnit!)
4. im paranoid about what people think of me
5. i have no purpose
6. i hate my teeth
7. i smoke
8. my skin is overly sensitive and I will break out just because its hot out
9. i can't just pop out of bed and do things unless its a shower
10. i have a mental illness

I like

1. Im patient
2. non-judgmental
3. I try to actually see people and not just skate the surface
4. im still alive and kicking even though life keeps punching me
5. i give chances
6. i still try to hold my head high
7. never been arrested
8. i work hard
9. as uncomfortable as I am at work i still go
10. i dont know how to be mean

I hate...

1. My body (my legs are crap, my breasts are too big, I have an uterus I would gladly give away to someone who wants it if I could)
2. I'm oversensitive so often lately
3. I can't clean up after myself half the time because I'm always out of energy
4. I freeze up and my body primes itself for a fight-or-flight just from trying to make a phone call
5. I'm somehow a magnet for jerks and needlessly cruel people who really shouldn't have the jobs they have
6. I haven't learned anything useful the whole time I was in high school
7. I'm a solitary person due to high school teaching me it's safest and yet now I feel lonely
8. I cry when I'm steaming mad and it makes me look hysterical instead of furious
9. I'm fat and out of shape, unless "pear" is a shape
10. I keep calling myself a coward when people push me too hard instead of yelling at them for making me feel that way

I like...

1. I'm clever and I think outside the box when I'm in a state to focus and be calm
2. I can sing pretty well and I just have a gift for music and arts in general
3. I had a wonderful father who taught me many, many essential things vital to me as an adult
4. When I get so mad I can't even cry I'm no longer afraid to give what-for to the jerks trying to control me
5. My logical mind, when it works, is really good at deconstructing things, including emotions and intent
6. I keep surprising myself by being happy with the smallest fun, free activities
7. I have a lot more determination than I expect myself to have
8. I have a wonderful friend in my life who compensates for the crap family I have
9. I don't pay much attention to what other people think of my physical appearance
10. I know what I want and it's to get myself a nice normal life

Dislike:
1. I think I'm getting a double chin
2. I spend way too much time online
3. I have fair skin and I have stretch marks.
4. Sometimes I can get irrationally angry and have emotionally hurt people by accident ...
5. I have acne that I can seem to quite get rid of all the way, no matter how many products I have tried ...
6. I don't have perfect pitch and I wish I did.
7. I can't sleep because I worry so much
8. I do things wrong a lot of the time unless someone tells me how to do it.
9. I want to major in music and yet I feel too embarrassed to practice my flute with my step dad in the house
10. I am too self conscious to wear makeup or to fix my hair or to make myself feel beautiful on any day because I worry people will comment on it.
Like:
1. I am pretty smart
2. I'm pretty good at playing the flute and have a strong voice.
3. I am very comedic. I can make most people laugh without trying.
4. If I lost weight and reduced my acne, I would have a very pretty face.
6. My hair is very easy to care for and is a pretty reddish brown color.
7. I am a terrible perfectionist, but I am also an extremely hard worker. I believe I can do anything if I want it enough.
8. I have silly, yet big dreams. I am convinced I will make them come true.
9. I will gladly give my time to anyone who asks, young or old. I easily give up my work to play with my 7 year old sister, or help an adult with a production.
10. I am decent with academics and fine arts.

DID YOU NOTICE I MISSED #5? Haha.
5. I am very stubborn, but because of that I have become a person who leads, rather than follows the crowd.

Ten not-so-great-things about me (I think)

1. I forget people's faces.
2. I'm always tardy.
3. Miss Procrastinator.
4. I'm an adult who doesn't know how to ride a bike.
5. I live an unhealthy lifestyle.
6. Socially awkward.
7. Dark underarms.
8. A soft heart that's not good when you're in a hard situation.
9. I have the tendency for being a bipolar.
10. I need to write things first before I can say them.

Ten Effin' Great Things about me!

1. I'm a super writer
2. I got different sets of skills
3. Passionate.
4. Wanderlust
5. I graduated with Honors
6. I'm a good listener
7. I can keep a secret (because I forget easily)
8. At this young age, I'm able to keep my brother in college
9. When I'm in love, I give it all.
10. I have the tolerance for disorder

Bad:

1. I get depressed for not immediately understanding something
2. I get very anxious around people I know well for no reason
3. I can't relate in social situations/I don't know how to respond
4. My train of thought is very different from that of others
5. I don't like being around other people, in general, because it's confusing. Books are better friends
6. I feel stupid
7. I can't write essays or papers easily and they never turn out well
8. Most things I work for, I fail
9. Every insult I've ever had thrown at me is completely true
10. I can't find a way to regulate my sleeping patterns

Good:

1. I have a 140+ IQ
2. I try to be nice to people as much as I can
3. I've been told that I give very good hugs
4. I am in a very competitive University program, 1 of 16 people in my year
5. I can play the piano at a grade 10 level
6. Mathematics and science come especially easily to me
7. Since I don't think in straight lines, I see things that others might not notice
8. I have a job
9. I am self-taught on 5 instruments, 4 of which I can play at a high school level
10. I swim laps for a couple of hours once per week

Dislike:

1. I get very mean when I am angry.
2. I hurt people when I was sick and alcoholic.
3. I failed at a lot of things.
4. I look like my mother.
5. I don't have a job.
6. I don't walk my dog as much as I should.
7. I can't get along with my sister.
8. I have crooked teeth.
9. I don't take good advice.
10. I can't assert myself

Likes:

1. I am kind.
2. I am intelligent.
3. I volunteer.
4. I am a good listener.
5. I am learning to be myself.
6. I have a great dog.
7. I can forgive.
8. I am open to new things.
9. I run regularly.
10. I survived.

Dislikes
1. I'm flaky and unreliable
2. I don't try as hard as I possibly can
3. I sleep too much/not enough
4. I have no friends
5. I am socially awkward
6. I am a hypocrite
7. I am unpredictable
8. I am snobby sometimes
9. I get down on myself too often
10. I have very little self control

Likes
1. I am a good pet owner
2. I am intelligent
3. I am sensitive and emotional (I consider this a positive)
4. I have a good and supportive family
5. I am honest to others
6. I eat healthier than a lot of other people
7. I am satisfied with my body
8. I am very clean and organized
9. I have a creative mind
10. I am empathetic

Love this thread idea: Just great!

Hate-
1. I can't just be happy
2. I have no hobbies - can't find anything of interest
3. My front teeth have spots due to loss of enamel as a child so it looks like I don't brush.
4.I have no appetite
5. I'm endlessly poor regardless of work
6. I love easily
7. I'm not in control of my feelings
8. I wish for death
9. I'm socially awkward
10. I always feel out of place

Like -
1. I am very honest.
2. I try to be kind to all others
3. I love easily
4. I'm a creative thinker
5.I feel pretty sometimes
6. I love animals
7.
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10.

You know what I can't do it. Every pos. thing I think of feels like a lie. Every truth is a neg. Well, guess this is my list.

I think this is a good idea.

HATE<3
1. My Low Self Esteem
2. Impulsive
3. Push Over
4. I get intimidated easily by others.
5. I am a huge procrastinator.
6. I depend on alcohol or other drugs to make me happy.
7. I can be bossy
8. I hate how I have to depend on people expecially men.
9. I hate having a math disability , horrible at math!
10. I hate my ADD

Love<3
1. Good Heart
2. Loyal
3. Down To Earth
4. Unique
5. Funny
6. Nurturing, and really want kids one day, I have always been good with kids.
7. Good Singer
8. Really good at photography.
9. I love to help people.
10. Strong at times, expecially when I need to be.

Things I Hate:
1. I'm fat, which I can deal with. The fact that I have no motivation to change it is what I hate
2. My acne
3. My teeth
4. My boobs are too small and my butt is too big
5. The scars I'm making from current self injury and the fact that I am doing it in the first place. My old scars don't really bother me that much, though.
6. My job
7. My lack of motivation to carry anything through
8. I used to be a GREAT singer, but somehow that slipped away
9. Doing things to make other people happy instead of myself, always
10. I have no friends and never get to get out or talk or anything like that

Things I like:
1. My hair is thick and long and people tell me it's beautiful. But I hate brushing it and the last time it was cut was by me, so it's really crooked.
2. My hourglass figure
3. I've been told I have beautiful eyes and since I don't wear makeup anymore that really made me feel good.
4. I LOVE my sense of humor. I'm sarcastic and insulting, but I'm hilarious.
5. I may hate my job, but I'm proud of the fact that I've been there for 10 years
6. My kids and husband tell me I'm a good mom even though I don't think so.
7. This is kind of odd to put on my list, but my husband says I'm amazing at blowjobs. And he's been with A LOT of women, lol.
8. I started painting figurines and it's fun and I think I'm okay at it
9. I've also started cake decorating and it's also fun and I'm not bad at it either
10. I'm good at figuring people out. Why they are the way they are or why they do the things they do. I really wish I would have stayed in school and become a therapist. Someone messed up like me has to have some more insight than other doctors, right?

not being able to describe why I hate myself
I have multiple addictions
I can be arrogant
I can easily dismiss other people
I refuse to ask for help
I don't want to live
I don't want to die
I am unable to process the information around me
I can't count to ten at the moment
I want to sleep but it is generally physically painful, likely because it's my fault

things I like..
My sense of humor
My ability to research
and problem solve
I try to remain neutral
I drive responsibly
and I'm tired and should probably go to sleep

Hate:
1) I can never finish what I started
2) I have a lot of acne scars on my face
3) I dropped out of college and I'm unemployed
4) I spend way too much time in my room on the computer
5) I have no talents or useful skills
6) My grades are horrible
7) Friendship between my best friend and I is dying
8) I don't care about anything anymore
9) I'm lazy
10) I'm too indecisive

Like:
1) I'm super loyal and honest
2) I'm 100% nonjudgmental
3) I'm fairly organized (kinda OCD)
4) I love fruits and vegetables
5) I'm a good listener
6) I don't smoke, do drugs, or drink alcohol
7) I stand up for what I believe in
8) My creativity
9) Sentiment > materialism, quality > quantity
10) I've never learned to be mean or rude to anyone (except for my parents >.>)

Wow that "like" list was tough.

That's a good one, Jadedrose. I hope he appreciates and reciprocates the favor.

I Think you did a marvelous job. It was almost good enough for me to steal. Although, I would have to tweak a few parts. Thanks for sharing this with us.

Ten things i hate about myself,mm could be more than ten but as the post says i will start with that,
1,getting old.
2,overweight.
3,weak
4,no confidence
5,wishing i were someone else
6,standing up for myself.
7,dont stick anything.
8,being in a loveless marriage
9,recovering alcoholic
10,lack of willpower.

I do not think that you should hate yourself for lack of willpower. People differ widely in how much willpower they have, and if you have not much, it just means that you need to find smart solutions that do not involve reliance on willpower. "work smart not hard" is my motto.

Standing up for yourself also does not seem to be something you should hate.

i hate
1. my weight ...way overweight eat healthy excercise as much as i can
2. my hair ...never looks tidy even when just cut and coloured!
3. having to be harnessed to whatever i sit in to keep my body upright
4. my hands not doing what i want them to do
5. the way i push myself to my extreme limits then breakdown exhausted for days just to prove to myself that my disability is not going to win!
6. the way i get frustrated with my PA for little things when really i am frustrated with me because i should and used to be able to do those things myself
7. being incontinent... so embarrassing having a PA clean my dirty bum
8. the speed at which my body is declining
9. my teeth, need to get them sorted
10. the way my eyes water so look like i am crying when i am really just overtired/exhausted

I like
1. my determination
2. the fact i am reliable, trustworthy and totally honest
3. my ability to communicate well with all walks of life on the appropriate level without judgement.
4. my eyes
5. my patience eventhough it is not what it used to be
6. my caring nature
7. my intellect
8. my ability to take great pictures/photos
9. my creativity and problem solving skills
10. my ability to smile no matter how dreadful i feel.

I hate:
1. That I'm not straight.
2. That I'm single and can't change that.
3. How horrible I look naked.
4. How unstable I usually am.
5. That I'm usually in too much pain to do all I want to do.
6. I still self harm.
7. That I'm single and can't change that.
8. That I'm too scared to even try to get what I want.
9. I'm still overweight.
10. I'm weak.

I like:
1. That I can compose music.
2. My musical ability otherwise.
3. My hair.
4. My writing ability.
5. I learn quickly.
6. My good spelling and grammar.
7. My puzzle-solving ability.
8. I can use both my left and right brain almost equally.
9. My ability to multi-task.
10. My ability to get anything done within any time frame, no matter how short.

Hate-
1. I'm bad-tempered and annoying and an antisocial idiot
2. I can't do anything right in school, even if I try hard
3. I keep driving people I need away
4. I compulsively stay up too late and am always feeling wretched and tired
5. I'm ugly and no one's words will convince me otherwise
6. I cant be honest with even my T
7. I ask too much from everyone, even thought they say I don't I can see it in my behaviour
8. I either over-eat or under-eat without meaning to, and it worries people
9. I keep wanting to hurt myself
10. I'm not durable or smart or capable enough to survive in this tough human world

Like-
1. I can draw fairly well
2. My singing isn't too bad either
3. I'm not afraid of the dark any more
4. I know some Japanese
5. I can easily memorize anime facts and my friends call me a Pokedex
6. I stand up for my rights as a cat-loving Otaku girl
7. I have been able to connect with sad people and cheer them up even if I was the same
8. I'm loyal when I truly care
9. I can read books really fast
10. I can connect easily to animals excluding dogs and spiders

Phew, that was hard... but kinda nice.

I strongly dislike- my lack of coincidence; my anxiety level; my fat stomach; my thick thighs; the high number that shows on the bathroom scale; the size of my jeans...but I am trying to accept myself for who and what I am

I like- my love for music, taking photos, having the ability to sing, my family, my friends

Ten dislikes
1. My knees are so scared I cant go to formal occasions without tights
2. I cut
3. My fingers are bent and crooked from strange self harm..
4. my thighs are too big
5. Tanlines !!! / adverage skin
6. Retarded laugh
7. My eyes go strange when I smile
8. My entire family is mental/dead/got cancer
9. I go silent around new people
10. Cant say no... to guys... if you know what I mean

Ten Likes
1. I am alive.
2. I am living.
3. I have survived despite all.
4. I smiled today
5. I will smile tomorrow
6. I still have family left
7. I am not homeless
8. I am not without food
9. I have not cried in over a week
10. I own a dog. And coffee. That is all I need.

That number will not show you -
- your values
- your moral self
- your kindness
- your talent
- your level of intelligence
- who you are as a person
- your heart
- your soul
- your personality

You are beautiful.
Beauty that is just of the skin has no real value. Beauty of the inside is what we all should want/strive for.

1 Im not social
2 My mom is a trigger for my anxiety so my relationship is very tense with her
3 Im scrawny
4 I cant drive a car worth anything
5 I am an emotional strain on my family
6 I am a financial strain on my family
7 I am addicted to avoiding people sometimes
8 I have invoulintarily terminated friendships due to social anxiety
9 It is impossible for me to get into a relationship, let alone even talk to a girl.
10 I live in a state that I hate and am trapped there.

Whew! Now the good things:
1 I dont conform to anyone
2 On good days I have an awesome personality
3 Group mentality does not seem to affect me
4 I have two very good friends
5 Some peoples say I have good looks
6 I am a very nice person when not extremely racked with anxiety
7 My disorders have made me very understanding of some people
8 I am not annoyed by noise easily
9 i like corn
10 i like corn (ran out of ideas)

well done on nearly completing the good things list