[irish_angel]

I decided to go back and charge the man who sexually abused me, Is it normal for the police to take their sweet old time getting back to me???

[Dervish]

Police cater to the rich and well to do.(ie..The police
post $100,000 reward for any information about some trespassing into rich neighborhood garages but they
neglect to investigate serial killers like Robert Pickman
who murdered over 50 women who were considered
the dregs of society).
If it is important to you then you should continually
pester the police until you get the desired result.
Only the squeeky wheel gets the grease.

[irish_angel]

Thank you for that, it is so true, except the downfall to pestering is the anxiety that holds me from doing anything, I think if I bother them then they will go slower, and they will not believe me and that it will just drag and drag on.

Maybe tomorrow I will call....

Thanks again.

[irish_angel]

I dont know who Robert is tho.... I dont watch news or anything, I dont think I like what I would hear about him.

[Dervish]

An informed mind is an empowered mind.That's a
healthier and safer and a prepared mind to if you
rather.Life was never ment to be one carrousel ride
nor always fun and games.Take time out for some good introspection,self-inventory and self-interrogation
then self-affirm your way back to health.Use your
precious time wisely.Life is too short.Rescue your
inner child with reasonable words of reflection via your present wiser adult intervening in the abuses
of your past. John Bradshaws' technique works for
me and many others securing us to realize that we can assure ourselves of astonishing furture outcomes.
We needn't feel as thought were stuck in any dangerous rut anymore.Be patient with yourself
and meditate you can do anything that you put you mind to.

[irish_angel]

I suffer anxiety also, mediating is not something I can do, my brain does not be quiet long enough.

[Dervish]

Seek and yea shall find.
Seek all your options then find your alternatives.
You see,it's as simple as taking candy from a baby.
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When you are deluded and full of doubt,even a thousand books of scripture are not enough.
When you have realized understanding,even one word is too much.----FEN-YANG

[sykee65]

Hello, I went to the State police to press charges and file a restraining order against my stepfather 20 years after he abused me. My stepfather always beat me and threatened to kill me if I told anyone, so I told them that and they sent me to the local police. I cried my eyes out to them and they knew the statue of limitations had run out but I guess I looked so pitiful that they decided to arrest him anyway. They sent me to my state court where I had a restraining order within an hour. I don't know what happened to him legally, but I do know that I ruined his name in his small town and I feel that slight justice had been served. Good Luck and God Bless!