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Oh please please read my post on Gaslighting. In it is your salvation. I just got out of the EXACT same thing. Never confront him with evidence, he may get psychotic. Had he had episodes where it seems like he's lost touch with reality? Best thing is to give all the evidence to a divorce attorney while securing custody of your children.
You are the victim of a narcissist. His goal is to make you dependent on him as he only seeks control over what you think and feel. Don't react to the obvious BS he hurls in your direction. Your reactions feed his ego. Not reacting and being indifferent will drive him insane. Get a video camera for evidence. |
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I have looked into his face and eyes and he wasn't even someone I recognized. Like he had been possessed and was no longer in his body, in fits of rage for what seemed so elementary a reason. Yes I know about not confronting him about anything that sheds a bad light on him or when he's caught up in his stories and betrayal. I will try and find your post on gaslighting. Thanks for your input,
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That is terrible, I hope things are a lot better for you, 27 years? I don't think I would survive for 10 so I don't know how you made it but be proud of you for doing what you needed to do and having the strength to do so. I don't want to cause anymore anguish for you so I won't go into anything any further, I hope to someday soon be the person you are ,
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[QUOTE]He would prevent me from leaving rooms. He would touch me against my will. He would intentionally disrupt my sleep. He would slam and throw or kick things around. Sometimes he would use his physical presence in ways that seemed meant to intimidate[QUOTE]
I have experience with these very things. He's always telling me how lucky I am and that I'm a brave moth#@ ****&%$! But I don't feel lucky or brave. Grabbing at me and fondling at me when I don't want him to or asleep. Even when he falls asleep if I attempt yo move from his grasp he awakes and prevents it. I became very emotional and upset once and he told me to "Stop being so dramatic" One minute he hates on me the next he is all over me.
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