scuse me a minute.........

serves me right darn it!!!

no excuse needed...you're human (mistake maker) it's a very big club! but we're (the club) all about learning and moving on, not about placing blame...that only keeps people stuck in self condemnation. Sometimes i have to 'scuse myself for trying to get a need met but just going about it in a wrong way...who knew? not me! hope things turn for you soon!

alton...when i said serves me right i meant...serves me right for being dumbass enough to be abused both as a kid and as an adult....so sorry but i don't relate to your answer...about mistake maker...yes my mistake for being abused i guess

but thanx for well wishes ty

Dear Roz, I apologize for how what I said seemed so very wrong...I didn't read the post prior to it before I wrote...perhaps you're only "mistake" was in blaming yourself for what was done to you.

My So many times amazed me,, Love ,>>> Roz ,,,

The compassion you give and no nonsense way of speaking your mind ,,,,,,
And all the giving ya give as volunteering to help the hurt and young >> see another place that puts smiles on all you touch ,, I think that what is endured >> may actually reverse its' self and find The careing and Love that may have been scrubbed raw from our spirits >>..

But made to be more to share and give to others when we ,, WE knew >>> Our strengths would come to the surface and emerge to fill others with HOPE ,,, So Mistakes ???? >>>.. Maybe they are more of the Building blocks that are Us today and tomorrow >>> ..

and till we part and leave these great qualities behind for yet another to have learned from >> without the pain .

LOve You Roz >>>errrrrrrrmmmmm.. sorry for forgetting to double space a bit >> I go fix . ok >> I think that is better . xoxoxoxoxox .

alton, ty for apology....and yes, my only mistake is in blaming myself for what was done to me, for not being strong enough to stop it, even stuff that happened when i was a child...my fault.

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My So many times amazed me,, Love ,>>> Roz ,,,

The compassion you give and no nonsense way of speaking your mind ,,,,,,
And all the giving ya give as volunteering to help the hurt and young >> see another place that puts smiles on all you touch ,, I think that what is endured >> may actually reverse its' self and find The careing and Love that may have been scrubbed raw from our spirits >>..

But made to be more to share and give to others when we ,, WE knew >>> Our strengths would come to the surface and emerge to fill others with HOPE ,,, So Mistakes ???? >>>.. Maybe they are more of the Building blocks that are Us today and tomorrow >>> ..

and till we part and leave these great qualities behind for yet another to have learned from >> without the pain .

LOve You Roz >>>errrrrrrrmmmmm.. sorry for forgetting to double space a bit >> I go fix . ok >> I think that is better . xoxoxoxoxox .

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Building blocks...never thought of it that way before...all i've ever known is how to use my hurt and bad experiences to help youngers and more vulnerable folks than me to not have to go through the same...or to at least know they are not alone and they are not the only one coz that is all important.

((((((((corky)))))))) Love You too

Roz.........((HUG)) be gentle to you.