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Old Oct 13, 2008, 06:24 PM
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they say they will come but when they still not here they say phone and then they come they not come they still not here say that somethin happen in city and they come when they can l cant do this l just cant do it they ....................

sorry forget it not matter why would l expect any more they not care it down to me l should have shut door l shouldnt have opened door and let the bastard in it no different than before we was right there is no ponit just let get on with it he will always be right this is me not him no gud no gud no gud juts bad bad bad but l did say nnnnnnnooooooooooooooooooooooo he not listen to me they never do and do what they want they always doalways
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Old Oct 13, 2008, 08:16 PM
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ok ok... slow down... back up.
1. What happened?
2. Was this today?
3. Breathe.
4. Yes you always deserve help and caring
5. delete any old mind/thought tapes that say you don't.
6. want to start from the top on this one?

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Old Oct 13, 2008, 10:45 PM
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ok ok... slow down... back up.
1. What happened?
2. Was this today?
3. Breathe.
4. Yes you always deserve help and caring
5. delete any old mind/thought tapes that say you don't.
6. want to start from the top on this one?

=( Kiya
this was last night my ex husband he come to the house he has the kids staying with him.l let him in he say he will put kids in care if l not have him bac,l say not want him bac and he say kids go then l say ok tomorrow tehn.straight away he strted agen and he want sex agen l say no he hit and do anyway why it always this way why they hutrs us so much l hate him l hate them and l hates me. bad stuf kep cuimg at us al time and lshud not let him in but wud not go and now flashbacks bda and l cud not stpo so in bda plac and police they not cum sya he gon so cum wen can
it alway lik this and l just bad bad not gud enugh for even police to cum now l cut and l srcub but l not get clean fel dirty and shamdeit bda plac to be now on own and not care no mor they can leav me now lnot gud alwats badjuts way it alwasy be no one to hepls us on own
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 12:26 AM
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I am sorry they didn't come when you called. I think often if they know it is a domestic violence situation they will wait because they are such volatile, dangerous situations. but it sounds like you called afer he left, so i don't know what kept them.
Do you have your kids now?
Can you call a crisis line and have them help move you to a safe location?
I think that is what I would try to do if it were me.
THey can help get you safe in a shelter and help you get a Domestic Violence grant if you need one and set you up with help so you don't have to keep going through this.
Can you reach out and call?
Sounds like (from what I can see) you might benefit from changing the arrangements legally and get a restraining order?
Seek help IRL - you don't have to continue to go through this.
((((((((((((Silent)))))))))))))))))))
I care about you.
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 07:44 AM
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Silent, I'm so sorry... Was a police report filed?
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Silent, I'm so sorry... Was a police report filed?

it has been now but cant sign statement till friday due to swapping and need T there when do it. hate it all . sorry . feel so ashamed and dirty why he keep do this l just so bad bad l make him mad
.he say l his wife its his right but why hurt all time?????/dont understand
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 09:05 AM
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Just remember, sweety, that his so-called "right" as your husband does not now, nor ever in the past or ever will, take precedence over your right as a human being. You have rights that no one--no one--should ever overrule. You are not bad, have done nothing wrong.
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Old Oct 14, 2008, 09:25 AM
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feel so ashamed and dirty why he keep do this l just so bad bad l make him mad
.he say l his wife its his right but why hurt all time?????/dont understand
Silent, you didn't do anything wrong. He is the bad one here. You did not do anything to make him do this. He had no right to do that. He is the only one who should be ashamed. You do not have to carry his shame. I am glad that your therapist is helping you.
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