Shouldn't of put it out there

Honestly, why did I do that? Am I really that patheic? Of course I don't except a response to that you don't know me. But to answer my onw ? yes I am. I shouldn't bother you people with my pitiful life. Who really cares, right? You probaly see me as a patheic whiner, that's how I see it now that I took the time to write. Sorry guys ans girls it won't happen again. It should have never happened to begin with.Again so sorry to waste your time.

Oh Melissa, that was no waste of time. I just read your other post. I applaud you for having the coruage to speak up and reach out for support. You have been through a lot, girl, and I bet it is as painful as hell.

I do believe talking and connecting is part of the path to healing. So talk. Reach out, and connect. There are so many people here who can support you. Likely so many people here you have the experience and wisdom to offer support *to*, as well.

Welcome, welcome.
Talk.
Reach out.
Connect.

When your hurting and confused sometimes you just need to but it out there. PC is a great place to do it. Keep posting!

Please VENT & TALK away - as I find that one uncovers the answers they are seeker through talk / conversation with people that listen.

melissa - please do not think you are a burden. i read your post, and yes, i do not know you but i can sympathize with you. i'm not in a similar situation anymore, but i can imagine living with constant fear is extremely energy-consuming and terrifying. i'm sorry you have to go through that daily.

but - as luce and chaotic and rhapsody said - it is better to let it out than keep it inside, letting it eat you from the inside. releasing it bit by bit helps in the long term. please keep posting.

safe hugs to you if you want them,
twilight

melissa,
as has been said, venting your feelings can help so much, and that's why we are here, to not only work through our own issues by venting and healing but also to support the other members as they do the same! Carry on, no matter how pathetic you may think it is. It is better than burying it inside and letting it fester there...

((Melissa))
Please don't second guess yourself now--you shared what needed to come out of your heart.
Bottling it inside will only make it worse.

We walk through rough times and need support and encouragement. It does not mean we are whining or pathetic.
Please be kind to yourself

Cap

((((melissa)))), i don't think you are pathtic, a whiner, etc. we are all caring human beings that have things we need to "put out there". please don't ever feel that you shouldn't. it takes courage to post our innermost feelings. that's how i "see" you..brave and courageous, willing to take a risk so you can find the support you deserve. we care here at pc. you keep posting.