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I am ashamed to talk about this very much. I never talk about it with someone but I need advice.I am virgin and afraid of doing 'it' much.I was ready in 15-17.but now I can't let someone touch me....too big to be afraid right?I am not afraid of pain which is natural I mean when smth in my organism causes me pain by its own but when someone causes a pain it is really hard for me.or maybe the problem isn't that .maybe it has menthal reason.
I wanna understand myself.

I kind of feel the same.
I'm pretty young, but then I get nervous when I think of having sex with someone too. I can't even handle having a relationship with a guy. I also get painful orgasms as well, but I think that's due to the Voices.

I'm not sure how I'd react, but I'd guess if it makes you anxious you could always talk to a therapist. If you really want to stay a virgin, then you could always do that to.

I know that I might stay a virgin for a long time.

[Callmebj]

See if any of this makes any sense to you: http://www.webmd.com/sexual-conditio...ain-during-sex

Hugs, bj

[JLarissaDragon]

While the first time can be a bit scary and you will probably feel some apprehension. Intercourse is supposed to be pleasurable not painful. I would first see a gynecologist and determine if you have a physical/medical issue. The site on WebMD that Callmebj included may be really helpful. Anyway I would try to get to the bottom of this. Finally I would never suggest that you jump in the sack with just anybody to get it over with. As a woman God made you a beautiful creature and you deserve the best and a compassionate loving relationship in which to find fulfillment

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thank you all for reading and writing.