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Old Apr 27, 2023, 01:09 PM
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Since I started menopause, I gained 20 pounds in less than a year! Is this normal or not?

What can I do to stop it other than counting calories & excercising?

Do any herbs help? Did you gain any weight during menopause too or not?!
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Old Apr 27, 2023, 02:05 PM
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Since starting peri menopause I notice the weight is harder to shift even though I’m still exercising (I’m on a med which also puts weight on).

I’d be wary of herbs or supplements that claim to help although there seems like a lot of advertising targeted for this.

One of the things I’ve heard is not eating in the evening, having 12 hours between last meal and breakfast next day.

Some people say short bursts of intense exercise works for them too. I’m not sure myself though.

I’m just trying to be mindful of food intake (limiting carbs especially) more salads kind of thing, and mixing up my exercise.
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Old Apr 27, 2023, 05:44 PM
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i find exercise to be the biggest help, especially aerobic exercise like water aerobics and no one can see your body!
Yes, huge salads with dark greens are great!
Covid sheltering to protect my ex with emphysema and my dog having a sore leg from Valley Fever have made exercising hard to go back to.
I have returned two treadmills because I doubted I would use them.
I have never enjoyed any exercise and stuck to it except water aerobics.
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 12:09 AM
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I am not on menopause but thought I would suggest Ozempic, which has helped me shed 20% of my highest body weight in less than a year. I am 52. I had gained weight on meds, and one of the worst culprits was Zyprexa. With Ozempic, I started losing weight even while I was still on Zyprexa, but several months later my pdoc switched me to weight-neutral Latuda, to my delight. I also do personal training (strength training). I weigh the same as 10 years ago, but my body shape is far better thanks to strength training.

I have talked to both medical weight loss doctor and internist and they concur that for weight loss, you need strength training. Aerobic exercise is good for mental health benefits, but not for weight loss.

Good luck counteracting the weight gain! It is possible.
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 01:50 AM
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I had heard that too recently that you need muscle to burn fat. This is what I meant when I wrote mixing exercises up, ideally you need a balance of type of exercise, it also stops you getting bored. Picking something you enjoy is important too.
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 02:40 PM
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Funnily enough just read this article today about the importance of time of day and micro dosing exercise sessions, worth a read.
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 11:18 PM
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Since starting peri menopause I notice the weight is harder to shift even though I’m still exercising (I’m on a med which also puts weight on).

I’d be wary of herbs or supplements that claim to help although there seems like a lot of advertising targeted for this.

One of the things I’ve heard is not eating in the evening, having 12 hours between last meal and breakfast next day.

Some people say short bursts of intense exercise works for them too. I’m not sure myself though.

I’m just trying to be mindful of food intake (limiting carbs especially) more salads kind of thing, and mixing up my exercise.
Hiw much weight did you gain? I heard about thise tips too. Thanks. I’m usung a calorie tracking app now & have list 5 pounds so far but I can gain weight instantly overnight if I’m not careful, ugh!!!!
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 11:20 PM
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i find exercise to be the biggest help, especially aerobic exercise like water aerobics and no one can see your body!
Yes, huge salads with dark greens are great!
Covid sheltering to protect my ex with emphysema and my dog having a sore leg from Valley Fever have made exercising hard to go back to.
I have returned two treadmills because I doubted I would use them.
I have never enjoyed any exercise and stuck to it except water aerobics.
I diike excervise even more now except for swimming. & a few other things. Especially with my bad knee.
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 11:21 PM
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I am not on menopause but thought I would suggest Ozempic, which has helped me shed 20% of my highest body weight in less than a year. I am 52. I had gained weight on meds, and one of the worst culprits was Zyprexa. With Ozempic, I started losing weight even while I was still on Zyprexa, but several months later my pdoc switched me to weight-neutral Latuda, to my delight. I also do personal training (strength training). I weigh the same as 10 years ago, but my body shape is far better thanks to strength training.

I have talked to both medical weight loss doctor and internist and they concur that for weight loss, you need strength training. Aerobic exercise is good for mental health benefits, but not for weight loss.

Good luck counteracting the weight gain! It is possible.
I heard that about Ozempic, but isn’t it expensive? We have no insurance now. How much weight did you loose? I heard that yoi gain everything back & more after you stop taking it.
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Old Apr 28, 2023, 11:23 PM
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I had heard that too recently that you need muscle to burn fat. This is what I meant when I wrote mixing exercises up, ideally you need a balance of type of exercise, it also stops you getting bored. Picking something you enjoy is important too.
I heard that too. I’ll try lifting weighrs again. I need to find an affordable gym with no hidden costs first.
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Old Apr 29, 2023, 02:27 AM
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Sorry it would help if I’d remembered to post the link to the article:

The secret to getting more out of exercise? It’s not what you do – it’s when you do it | Fitness | The Guardian
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Old Apr 29, 2023, 02:35 AM
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Hiw much weight did you gain? I heard about thise tips too. Thanks. I’m usung a calorie tracking app now & have list 5 pounds so far but I can gain weight instantly overnight if I’m not careful, ugh!!!!
I gained about 4kg (I’m in UK just checked and that’s about 8-9lbs) like you I find my weight can fluctuate quickly, which makes me wonder if it’s fluid retention at least partly.

I like swimming too, it’s maybe not the best fat burn but I think it’s good conditioning and toning, I’m swimming once a week. If you have a bad knee can you manage stationary bike? Those are good for short burns!

Good luck and maybe check back in to let us know how you’re doing? You can do this!
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Old Apr 29, 2023, 10:29 AM
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Great article! Thanks!
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Old Apr 29, 2023, 10:31 AM
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I gained about 4kg (I’m in UK just checked and that’s about 8-9lbs) like you I find my weight can fluctuate quickly, which makes me wonder if it’s fluid retention at least partly.

I like swimming too, it’s maybe not the best fat burn but I think it’s good conditioning and toning, I’m swimming once a week. If you have a bad knee can you manage stationary bike? Those are good for short burns!

Good luck and maybe check back in to let us know how you’re doing? You can do this!
Sorry to hear that. I csn go for a slow walk. Thankfully my knee doesn’t hurt anymore ever since I started taking joint vitamins & a bunch of other vitamins!

I’ll leep everyone uodated on my orogress. I’m nervous about going to the Drs. this Tuesday as I’ll be getting the results of my bloodwork. I hope that it doesn’t show anything bad & that I’m not diabetic! If I am, it’ll ne tyoe 2 diabetes.
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Old Apr 29, 2023, 03:39 PM
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For me the simple trick is to eat less and lighter smaller meals. I gained a lot of weight too. I don’t particularly think about it but I know just eating less does the trick
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I had heard that too recently that you need muscle to burn fat. This is what I meant when I wrote mixing exercises up, ideally you need a balance of type of exercise, it also stops you getting bored. Picking something you enjoy is important too.
Yes, those two things are super important: doing what you enjoy and preventing boredom.
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Old May 02, 2023, 02:46 PM
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For me the simple trick is to eat less and lighter smaller meals. I gained a lot of weight too. I don’t particularly think about it but I know just eating less does the trick
I finally lost 7 pounds in leas than 2 weeks by using a calorie tracking app. I’m eating less carbs & sugar too. Hiw much weight did yiu gsin? I gsined 22 pounds fast! Ugh!!!!
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I finally lost 7 pounds in leas than 2 weeks by using a calorie tracking app. I’m eating less carbs & sugar too. Hiw much weight did yiu gsin? I gsined 22 pounds fast! Ugh!!!!
My weight fluctuates. Yes I probably need to lose 25 pounds but I don’t think much about it. I have very fast pace tiring job and long commute so when i get home and want to eat so I eat because I am very hungry by the end of the day. When I am off work I eat much lighter because I am not starving at the end of the day and can plan my meals better
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I heard that about Ozempic, but isn’t it expensive? We have no insurance now. How much weight did you loose? I heard that yoi gain everything back & more after you stop taking it.
Yes. It is expensive, $300 from a Canadian pharmacy if you do not have insurance. With insurance it costs me $25 per month and the insurance pays the manufacturer over $800.

You can gain the weight back, but I intend to take the medication for a long time, until even better medications become available and then I will switch. It is basically a lifelong treatment, but that makes sense because obesity is a chronic condition that can worsen if left untreated. But I am lucky to have insurance coverage.

I have lost about 20% of my body weight: I started at 276 lbs and now fluctuate between 216 and 221 lbs.
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Old May 05, 2023, 04:41 PM
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Yikes! That is expensive! You’re lucky that you have insurance m! Congrats on the weight loss!
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Yikes! That is expensive! You’re lucky that you have insurance m! Congrats on the weight loss!
Yes, I have read your post in Relationships and Communication and know your situation. It would be very expensive for you.
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Old May 05, 2023, 10:25 PM
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Although I am not there yet, it seems rather normal for women to gain some weight because I have friends who have gone through it. I think I am in perimenopause (my OB/GYN says no, that it’s too early). My butt got bigger and I had to buy bigger pants. Because work is stressful (and so is my personal life) I exercise vigorously 3-6 times per week. I also do YouTube videos for abs. I think I look pretty good but also watch what I eat. I avoid sugar and carbs because they seem to cause inflammation and I try to eat mostly unprocessed foods. I hardly eat out because it’s expensive, not that good, and I do not know what’s in the food. Have you check with a dietitian? I have used health coaches (part of health insurance) and realized patterns I did not see for myself. All the information is already out there and you probably know it, but it is so hard to implement because of our environment. Also, the women I knew who gained weight eventually lost it after making some changes. Wish me luck when it’s my turn!
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I do not think that getting a bigger butt is indicative of approaching perimenopause. Menopausal weight gain is abdominal.

There is nothing wrong in putting on some weight in the butt, hip, thigh areas. It is visceral fat that is evil and dangerous.
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My gyn recommended to reduce portion size when I asked him. He said no need to starve yourself. But sometimes just eating smaller portion would do the trick.
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My gyn recommended to reduce portion size when I asked him. He said no need to starve yourself. But sometimes just eating smaller portion would do the trick.
Actually I read that using a smaller plate helps with this too.
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