Friends

My ex best friend has blocked me from Facebook. I am so f'in angry. Why has she done that. I have done nothing to her. Is this f'in illness. Its driven her away. I am so angry and upset. I hate being ill

Miss Laura; I'm sorry you feel angry and hurt. Have you tried speaking to her? I ended a couple of friendships after my diagnosis (one was almost 20 years long), but in my experience they weren't "true" friends and it wasn't mentally healthy for me to continue the friendship.

I hope you two can talk it out even if it's just a matter of having some closure.

Hi Miss Laura,
Beth is right; sometimes the people we think of as friends aren't the kind of friends we need. And sometimes we just grow out of our friends, or vice versa. I hope too that you can at least talk, but it's not your fault that you have this illness. A true friend will be patient and strong and there for you, and love you even in the times when you might not be so lovable. Hope that helps, and remember, you always have friends here.

Hey guys,

So sorry for swearing.... I was pretty angry and upest so sorry again!!

I was ironically gonna be apologising to her for cutting her out my life ie not talking to her via text or in work and that its done me good as I was ACTUALLY too dependant on her as she had said. But now NO WAY!!! I actually don't want to see her.

When I was in work at the weekend... she was being all fake with another colleague whom she gets on with. Our mutual friend well she is more mine than her's said to me she is not settling in Uni at all. She has went back after a 2 and a half year break to become a Social Worker. She has went straight to 2nd year as her previous degree has the merits. She sat in the office at the weekend and was flaunting the fact Uni was going great etc... then on Facebook she is writing stuff like "I hate uni, another lonely day ahead of me"............ I thought I had problems and was the weird one heehee!!! Why is she lying?????????

Our mutual friend said I have nothing to apoloise to her for and in fact she should be apologising to me for being such a *****.

This is why I don't make friends as they ALWAYS hurt me and let me down. I hate friends!!!!

Some friends can be great... but some are more trouble than good.
My fav saying for when someones being a d!ckhe@d is "they are entitled to their opinion and I'm entitled to think they are an F**k*n idiot!"
I always find those people's FB status enlightening or at least amusing

I hate it when people ask me about her as obviously I don't know

I stated when asked how she is doing at uni... I have no idea as we are no longer friends. I have never said to anyone about this situation. The colleague who asked is a close friend to the both of us... She has a plate load of her own hence her no known. She seem disappointed and asked if this was me being "ill" or if it really is over and something did happen. I said talk to her... she will tell you everythign no doubt.

It wasn't my fault........ well it was my fault I got ill so ye ok it was my fault she ditched me argh :@

When I was at my GP's the other day she asked me if my friends were any better and she asked how friendships were going. I said they don't really exist... 2 of my main friends have ditched me and the others dont have time to see me as they are all busy. I speak online to them sometimes and thats it.

She gave me a looked and seemed generally upset that this is the way it is for me now

If she turned her back on you in your time of need then she was never a true friend. My wife put up with alot from me and my bp til finally I got help and admitted I had a problem. BP is a real test to a marriage and a friendship,if a relationship can withstand BP,it is unbreakable.

Thanks Grkgjohn...

I know, they do say illness tests your friendships... she stuck by me through all my crap with my depression which was my worst and lowest point I have ever been to. She has been there for me when I have had suicidal thoughts, wanted to kill myself etc... I am just sooo disappointed that its happened now.

Its like I lost a part of me as we were soooo close

Crying over it is making me more ill and I don't think I will ever be able to get over it a the moment