Grief

And I guess I really am being shut out.

Wow.. I think we might have the same sister :/
But about you... thinking of you, hope you are ok.

Migraine. Period here. Ugh.

Delightful combo that straight sucks
Still luv ya

Yes it does. And I loves ya too.

Haha yes same sister. Thank you for thinking of me. I'm okay- migraine dulled. Missed pic with my grandma. Feel bad about that. Ugh.

As a man I can see what happened here and I know why. We men are pigs and will go to any length to get that perfect sexual encounter and if it's not right most men will work little by little to make it right even if it means getting another women. We men don't fall into love but we fall into lust and our sexual needs when and where it applies. A male heterosexual thinks about sex all day long from puberty to late adult. With gay men it's even worse and it's a constant sexual thing for the male human.

Maybe it was a sexual thing for him and nothing more. I only say that from experience since some women are prone to read more into things than there actually is. We men go to great lengths to hide our true sexual feeling from you women. That way we have the upper hand and control over what happens in the bedroom. And if we are not happy with such activities, then we will end a relationship rather than go thru bedroom torture ect.

Unless of course your man was completely satisfied with you sexually in which case then why would he or you end the relationship? OK now, I have
said enough and I'm starting to get a head ache, so think about what I said about thinking about it.

Hey Moose! Been away for a few days so I'm not sure exactly what happened with your relationship after the email. But I'm assuming it wasn't what you wanted and I'm sorry!

Grief is tough. The only thing I can say is time does heal. It takes a while depending on what your grieving about. You've got lots of ppl here that love you and are going to be there for you . Try to focus on the ppl that care about you. Let ppl be there for you bc they want to be.

I'll say a prayer for you tonight. Hope you had a good day with your kids. I have a special needs son that is 21. This is his last year of HS - he's in a special program. He's wonderful and I love him more than life itself. My son and my dog are my best friends. They are always there for me.

Feel better Moose

I think the best way to focus on relationships that have gone south is to figure out what we have LEARNED by them......what to look for the next time, what to look at as a huge red flag.......what we want & what we don't want.....when we focus on it as a learning experience, the pain seemed to lessen for me that is....but then I've always been that sort of logical minded person.....just helped with not feeling a lot of pain.

As a matter of fact, after all these years, I am extatic about finally getting the divorce I have been waiting for...so sorrow, no grief....just really feel sorry that the guy who I tolerated for so long & who had times when he tolerated me....but he could never have a close meaningful emotional bond even after 33 years.....oh well, win some, loose some...life goes on & we try to protect ourselves the best we can

I don't mean to laugh but "Bedroom Torture"? You are cracking me UP! I thought that was what some women say after doing the deed when they really didn't want to........lmao

Bedroom torture gave me a giggle too... Thank you for showing your sensitive side and offering the man's view. And after reading, I'm wondering am I a man? I've been horrible about using men for sex and leading them on... idk why... i was horny and didnt really know what I was wanting. it's not fair to do to anybody. I don't do it anymore. I guess really it goes both ways, women and men can both be focused on sex or relationship, or both when you find the right match in space and time.

I think that's the key Moosey, the sex was awesome for both of you but not the right time for him for a relationship. You WILL find the ultimate combo of great sex and close committed relationship. But we never know when... just have to wait, but it will be worth the wait.

Maybe if you get the job at the particular store... omg there's really hot guys working at those types of stores... ok stopping my horny ramblings now