[biplol]

Exactly a year ago we moved from West to East. it was at the right time, it was carefully planned and we really needed a change.
But right now looking at it and trying to make a balance out of this past year, i just can't take it anymore.
So many things happened, Some good (10%) some bizarre (40%) and some real bad and nasty (50%).
And I find myself tired and looking for a scape. At this point going back West doesn't sound bad for either my hubby or myself. But at the same time I'm so scare. I don't want to start again.
I know more ppl there than here, but still, my mind gets tired of even thinking about it.
And what is worst, I know how trigerring it is for me to be moving around. But been here this year was my worst trigger ever. I really don't know how to deal with it all; and at the same time keep going until we leave (if we do actually leave).
Ohhhhh I'm just so tired.......

i'm sorry that you're having a hard time with the move. i understand how you could really be homesick for the West.

it's not a bad thing to want to go back. if you can and that would work for both you and your husband....talk about it a lot and make a plan......(which you've probably already done... ) moving is hard for me. i've moved a lot in the last 15 years and always had a hard time adjusting.....

good luck, xoxoxo pat

[biplol]

{{fayerody}} Thanks so much for the support. yes we are making plans, but you know how this is, everything takes time, and that is the hardest part for me, because when i know what I want, I want it as soon as possible, and the "possible" it's not always so "soon"
~hugs~

[biplol]

[TYMBERWOLV]

Ummmm ---- Do what your heart tells you to do... You nad hubby can make it anywhere if the heart is there .. Plus depending on where you move too ya got me in the west hee hee

Tymber

[biplol]

You are so rigth, that's at least the best thing, I know I can be OK anywhere if we are together, and Ohhh yes, you are gonna cook for us, lol!

[wanting]

If you have someone to love you and support you through the move then i think thats half your battle won.
Take care im sure you will be ok.

[biplol]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{[wanting}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Thanks so much hon~

[bizi]

I know you guys will make the right decision.
We loved living out west...are now living in the south, louisiana which is very different!
love it here...
My phylosophy is this...
You can be happy or miserable whatever you decide to be, where ever you are.
(((HUGS)))
bizi

[biplol]

Bizi, you are so right, location shouldn't be an issue, and it's not for both of us.
it goes deeper than that and our moving back west it actually has to do with taking a much needed distance from one of our relatives that it's making everybody's life a living hell. Too triggering for me and too much frustration for my hubby.
We know we can succeed anywhere I think that is why it isn't so hard to move back.
((((((((((((hugs back))))))))))))))

[bizi]

You do have a great attitude and it does sound you both want to move back....
I wish you much luck and happiness.
(((HUGS)))
bizi