feel that no one cares

No one cares,my mother ,my children,my husband. my best friend died 3 months ago and its a bit hard to talk to her. No one wants to know about my depression,its like i have a disease or something. They dont want to know.

((((pixy)))) i hope this hug will help you a little bit to know that there is someone here who will listen and even understand....I am not the only one you will find many people on the board here willing to lend and ear and a shoulder....... if you need t talk you have come to a great place.......... Take care and if you would like to talk just let me know..... Take care of yourself and know that you are not alone.................... Linda

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I have felt like that, trust me. But there is always someone, who cares even if you don't want them to. It's hard when someone so close, is gone. But only remember the good time and try to forget the bad times. It's not a disease but can be called a mental illness. To me I call it a phase maybe a lesson even in life. Welcome to the forums by the way. Your first post and typing in a new forum can seem a lot to do. But I'm glad you let a bit of it out. There are others who had been through a silmar situation. Most of them have come through sadness. I believe you can too. If you want, you can PM me and talk a bit more about how you feel and depression so. I'm listening... This is very common depression and today there are loads of ways to help make depresion fade away. Therpy, support forums, therpy groups, websites, support hotlines, conselling, medication etc... Just remember everyone one of use is special and important as one another. Take care.

((((Pixy)))) Big Hugz to you!! I, too, know how you feel. Depression has plagued me most of my life. I hope you find at least some comfort here among people that know what you're dealing with. It's not easy, but there are ways it can be helped. PsychCentral is a great place to meet new people! I'm new here too, and I have been warmly welcomed! I feel right at home now! I know you will also.

Thankyou for your support. I have good days and bad ones. Friday was a bad one.I do see a councellor every two weeks. He is helping me bring out what I am really depressed about. Its crazy , I did not think that I was still upset about things that happened years ago. My family does not understand ,or believe that I have a problem. They still do things I ask them not to do because it upsets me. My husband just will say, dont worry about it. Its not that easy if its your children or your mother harping at you every day. Do you believe in angels ? I do. I ask them to pray for me. Thanks again . PIXY

That's ok, I feel the same. I didn't realise how sad I was until it stopped me from getting on with my life. Can I ask you one question though, you don't have to answer it. But are you on any medication for depression? I'm on prozac. It is really starting to kick in and help. Also makes me a bit hyper sometimes. Miss_A.

i will listen..

i care.. trust me it is the deperssion talking when you say no one cares.. i hve been down that road..

There are plenty of us on here who can understand that part of the "monster" of deperssion..

Pm if you want to talk or keep talking here I l will listen.

the dragon of the fourms..

I know how you feel my mom ignors me and my dad doesnt even care whats going on with. I just want you to know you have a friend right here.

I care, b/c I know what it's like to feel no one cares. My wife reacts to my depression the same way; she seems more frustrated than anything by it.

I will listen to anything you have to say and respond. We probably have a lot to share

I was on zoloft for 8 months,they were ok. But I found I did not have any emoticons,like ,sad,happy, angry. I did not like that feeling. It did pass after a while,and I have come down of them now.I was then taking meds for migrains, but I dont need them now.The councelling seems to be helping alot. It tires me, but then I feel better. I just get realy angry sometimes. The family does not realise how much I have put into trying to make myself well (for them ).I know they all love me, but they dont respect me.Thats why I feel im feeling down again.

Thanks for your reply. I think my husband does not how to deal with it,so he reacts that way.He gets angry if Im upset or stressed about something b/c he does not how to help.Infact sometimes he makes matters worse.That is another problem I have.I cannot express myself to him no more. He does not understand.

Sorry to hear you feel this way.

Feeling lost and alone and that no one cares is hard.

I know that feeling well. Ugh.

I hope things brighten up.

sometimes that happens. ..

When men or women do not know how to handle stress they will act out in any way that they can..

I am sorry , sometimes it does help to talk to him, aobut things and sometimes it does not..

I wish I could offer more suggestions but in this matter, the only way I can even think is to try marraige thearphy if you think it is going to get worse...

if you both love each other, then make it work.. Stress is a marragie killer I knwo.. and if you can not talk to each other, then that will start the ball rolloing adn you have to be able to talk to each other about everthing you can not hide things from each other..

I come from a failed marrige where the spouse did not talk to me about his feelings, and it feel apart that was not all of it, but a very large part..

So stick with it..

We care and so does he.. I knwo it, just give him time and some space and maybe that is all you need.

Thank you for your advice.I did have a talk with him this morning and I 'm sure he now understands my feelings towords one of my problems that causes my depression. That problem is my son who has a drug problem,and now is getting to be quite difficult.. Thanks heeps.

Thanks for your support. Since I have been on I have had alot of replies and yes there are people out there that had the same problems, and they care for others like themselves. Thanks again.

((((Pixy)))) Hang in there. You are treating your depression for you, not them, they will reap the benefits of you getting better and notice how well you are doing. It is a hard and lonely road that I share with you, but it does get better. Take care, regie

you are very welcome..

I hope some of us has helped you out some..

Very good.. I am glad he does understand that one.. That sounds like a big deal.. I have not ever had to deal with that.. but I will listen adn try to help as much as I can ok.

Tlaking about things can help ok.
Ttrust me on this ..
I am a very large advocate of talking about things..
SInce that is all you can really do when your insrance comapny is taking all the benfits away

Sometimes I wonder If they had depression,would they want support from us. Im sure I would give it. Deep down I know they care, but they dont know how to deal with it. Thats why nothing is said.It is very hard getting though to someone that has depression. I know my husband suffers it aswell, he also thinks no one one cares.But it is very hard with him he will not talk about whats troubling him. He keeps it all inside,and he is the type of person that does not show his emotions.I think that is why I find it hard dealing with my depression ,He does not want to know because he does not know how to deal with it. Talk to me about your problems if you wish .Take care and thanks for your reply.