What did I do wrong? Am I ever going to find happiness???

My life SUCKS! My ex just added me on fb and I've been trying to avoid that as his life has TOTALLY blossomed since we broke up and now I'm just a f****** in the head total loser; that's what I think anyways. Just went through all his GREAT TIMES and seeing how happy he is 3 kids now and married and here I am 31 and alone and miserable NOT fair ( I feel like I totally got duped out of this life. He's a billionare now with a booming business, A+ wife, 3 kids and stupid happy brady family that makes me sick. WHAT THE HELL DID I DO WRONG??? Anyways, just had to vent...crying for the first time in quite a while and you guys are the only ones that understand and will listen to my bs. Love you guys; my real family and hate my real life. Hope your night is going better than mine.
*twisted_angel

What do you mean he 'added' you on Facebook? If he sends you a friend request you can refuse it. Or you can defriend (unfriend?) people.

I am sorry you feel like a loser but that is a feeling not a trait. You are not a loser and I hope you can love yourself, even a small part of you.

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unfriend. go to the gym. pick up dudes.

I'm sorry to hear you are feeling this way.
First of all, unfriend, you need to give yourself liberty and freedom and you won't do that whilst mentally shackled to your past.

Eat nutritious food, do some light exercise and reach out to friends and family. instead of spending time dwelling on feelings from your past, do some fun activities with them and build up your relationships.

What have you always wanted to achieve? Take time to think about your dreams and make them into achievable goals, broken down into steps.

Most importantly, do it for yourself, nobody else. You are the most important and the priority.

I know how you feel I've watched men come and go. I've watched people marry and have kids and well, and well it just never happened for me and I'm older than you.Yes I ask that question all the time, what did I do wrong, why did love pass me by???Your not a loser, but I know what you mean I actually feel that way too. And they are just so insensitive as not to understand that they may be causing you pain. Let me just show you how great my life is or let me tell you about who I'm crushing on, like I care. I'm probably going to spend the night on this site I am in so much pain. I got dumped on Sunday, I am blind with grief but I am proud I know I will never be important to him like that. I'm not clinging and begging, it's over and I know it.

If he is making you cry, then he is succeeding. Dont let that happen. So dont cry.

Become determined to become successful in your own life. Become bigger than him. Automatically you will get big guys attracted to you. He will start feeling jealous then. I say you add him on FB! and keep showing him your progress.

Please remember, you will be making a big mistake if you allow yourself to be washed away by the grief and not make any effort to improve yourself. I got flooded and I am repenting now.