[mulan]

I just feel like writing on my facebook feed: why am I not important to you? Why you don't want to be my friend? Why you don't like me?
I'm so tired of being ignored and left alone, I'm so tired that is no one able to give a chance on me and know me better?
I feel like screaming it to everybody, so they can listen, they can see I'm a person too. To make them notice me and how they make me feel because they ignore me. I already know why I'm nothing to the others...
Of course I will not do it.

[greentires4me]

maybe some of the people on your facebook need a wake up call

[perseverance11]

Originally Posted by mulan

I just feel like writing on my facebook feed: why am I not important to you? Why you don't want to be my friend? Why you don't like me?
I'm so tired of being ignored and left alone, I'm so tired that is no one able to give a chance on me and know me better?
I feel like screaming it to everybody, so they can listen, they can see I'm a person too. To make them notice me and how they make me feel because they ignore me. I already know why I'm nothing to the others...
Of course I will not do it.

I understand how you feel.
I have been rejected in my life.

Have you one friend who you are more able to speak to about this situation?

perseverance11

[UndeadMage]

I deactivated my FB page. Best thing I've done in a while. There are a lot of things on there I just don't need to see. A couple Sundays ago I saw a picture of the woman I cared about (one of the reasons for my ongoing set of problems) in a picture with another guy at a restaurant. I about lost it. There came all those feelings again that I was trying to rid myself of through time and distance. Then I read the caption and found out the guy is gay and is just a good friend of hers she met after I left. But it was too late, the crap pot was already stirred. I felt like I had to start all over again. I don't need that kind of silly sh** in my life, not now, not ever.

Originally Posted by UndeadMage

I deactivated my FB page. Best thing I've done in a while. There are a lot of things on there I just don't need to see. A couple Sundays ago I saw a picture of the woman I cared about (one of the reasons for my ongoing set of problems) in a picture with another guy at a restaurant. I about lost it. There came all those feelings again that I was trying to rid myself of through time and distance. Then I read the caption and found out the guy is gay and is just a good friend of hers she met after I left. But it was too late, the crap pot was already stirred. I felt like I had to start all over again. I don't need that kind of silly sh** in my life, not now, not ever.

Argghh, that's just the worst, similar thing happened to me. Also with a girl that I cared about a lot. I just can't help myself, I've got to go and look how happy she is, or what she's doing, even though I know it kills me everytime. Facebook is the worst in this regard, because it's like other people's success is blown up in your face the whole damn time. I know they say you've got to not worry about other's success, but I can't help it man. Here I sit, complete failure as a human being since she's gone, and she's happy as ever, 200+ photos to prove it. Many hugs, this is terrible feeling .

[UndeadMage]

Thanks StbGuy. Seeing that picture of her was quite an accident. I didn't go looking for it. I saw one of those "people you may know" links that FB would always throw in my face. This guy had come up several times so I thought "how the hell do I know this person?". So I clicked. There she was, kissing this guy on the cheek in one picture and smiling from ear to ear in another. My stomach did a few dozen cartwheels. I'm shaking right now as I type this. Only afterwards did I find out he was gay and she was visiting him and his husband at the restaurant. But like I said, too late.

And Mulan, I'm sorry about hijacking your thread. It seemed relevant at the time.

[lonelyguy78]

I know exactly how you feel Mulan. I have thought about posting things like you mentioned on my facebook page just to be noticed. I also have resisted so far.

Best of luck continuing to hold off on the facebook backlash