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Old Feb 01, 2007, 06:04 PM
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....how do i handle the situation. i try not to feed into it, its hard. when she inflicts damage upon me how am i not to respond. retaliate. with my step father finally out of the house its us kids that are the problem. where the ones holding her back. we are failures and she wishes she was gone, we where gone.
telling me she wish she dident live after her od. saying she got closer than i ever would. is it the same old game again? i thought it was done. i told here theres plenty of meds in the house go ahead.
things like that make me not wanna even try.
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Old Feb 01, 2007, 06:22 PM
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Telb,
PM me if you need to talk. Your mother needs you right now. She is not mad at you. She is venting on you. She will need you to be strong.
Really good job helping with the young lady in chat. she responded well to you.
Thanks and hang in there, Cajun
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Old Feb 01, 2007, 06:23 PM
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i got to find a way to leave. i got no where to go right now. i cant let her bring me down again. i got enough stuff to deal with. : /
what do i do just stay away intell i can get out there?
try and be supportive and it ends in disaster.
i dont know anymore.
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Old Feb 01, 2007, 06:48 PM
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Old Feb 01, 2007, 07:40 PM
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i'm sorry that your life is so hard right now. BUT, this isn't your fault. your mother is the adult.....PM me if you would like to talk......pat
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Old Feb 01, 2007, 07:51 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about your hard time right now. I really hope that things get better for you soon! I know things are tough so hang in there! *hugs*
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I wish i had answers for you .... we're here for you though.

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Old Feb 02, 2007, 01:42 AM
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thanx all for taking the time to show some support.
im getting 2500 $ here in ~6-8 weeks for social security so hopfully i can go stay with my grampa for a couple months . i hope everything works out : /
-telb
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