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How come my posts ge tlittle attention.............how come im dieing and no one cares, my minds going berserk....................help

(((((((((((((Moonkin))))))))))))))

sometimes people aren't always on the site, or can't offer any suggestions for a person. It's nothing personal, really.



People do care about you here, we really do.

Moonkin,
Please don't feel rejected. Why don't you tell us more of what's going on? Perhaps, then we can offer you some assistance.

I understand that you are feeling horrible. I can recognize and feel your pain. What's going on right now that is causing you to feel this way?
Okie

(( Moonkin ))

Weekends can be slow.

Tell us what's going on and how we can help.

Hey.... You have almost made it to the big 15 posts...then you will be free. I know getting to 15 here can be difficult particularly when you are feeling stressed. How about telling us a bit about what it going on with you and see if we can help.

Go,15!!!

Moonkin, I went back and read most of your posts and I don't think you give things enough time?

I was in therapy 18 years (with 9 years between periods of therapy when I was working on my feelings myself, so in a sense, 27 years) before I got to where I am now. I think your losses of people to death, especially the loss of your grandfather whom you use to connect with, ARE important to you and have not been grieved enough by you. We humans need connections to thrive and I don't think you have very many? and the ones you had which were good were taken away from you.

Seeing a therapist for 6 months is way too little time to effect a change, especially for someone as young as you are or who has had/is having your difficulties. I don't care how "important" a therapist is, or whether they are the best of the best, etc.; if they aren't working for YOU, then nothing else matters, they're not a good match for you. I would encourage you and your Mom/parents to continue looking for a therapist, one you are serious about working with rather than merely going through the motions of going to because it is what you are "supposed" to do. Look for and find a therapist who does understand and I almost guarantee that things will get better (but not immediately, it could take a year or more to see significant changes).

Meanwhile I would find a psychiatrist who can work with you and evaluate what meds you have tried, in what combinations, for what periods, etc. and work on a medical treatment plan for you also.

With relation to your drumming, I would find an "outside" teacher, perhaps at a nearby university if possible and work with him to forward your skills (and help your self esteem which will also affect your depression) and see if such a teacher cannot also find you an appropriate, non "high school" venue to work with regarding your interest and talents in that area. In such a society of muscians, you are more likely to find others "like" you with whom to be friends or who can serve as mentors and help alleviate your depression in that fashion.

((((((((Moonkin)))))))))) I'm sorry you're feeling overlooked. You're still pretty new, that could have something to do with it? When you go to a party, you go to the people you already know and you hang out with them first-you may say hi and chit chat with the people you don't know but you're always drawn back to the people whom you've already made connections with. Nothings wrong with the new people you've just met, it just takes time to open up to them, to get to know them, to trust them to get to know you-you know, that kind of thing.
I'm sure that is all it is.
Please, don't take it personally. (((((((((Moonkin))))))))

Moonkin, we all care here. Sometimes it can take a longer period of time for us to work through life changing events like the loss of a close family member or friend. When this happens everything else seems to cause us more trouble and pain. Listen to Perna

Great words of advise Perna.

I felt ignored, too, when I first started posting. I also brought it up in a thread & the people here did reassure me it wasn't personal. Many people don't know what to say to certain posts or are really busy so they can't respond as they would like to. Stay around & let us get to know you.--Suzy

Hello Moon.
I am sorry you are feeling overwhelmed at this time. I am going to leave you a number for a hotline to call if no one else is available. 1-800-273-TALK. If you are in a crisis you need to call your Dr or go to the emergency room for your safety. Take care and good day soidhonia

(((((((((MOONKIN)))))))))))))

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MamazAngel