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Old Jul 29, 2015, 08:34 AM
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Can someone help me to add her fb and also don't mind to share the fb account for me to see her only...Suicidal thoughts, please help....

Can someone help me to tell her how much I miss her and love her till death...Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....

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I don't think it's a good idea to let us check her facebook. It will make you feel worse.

Believe me many, many, many people experience this in life. And also many people want to die when they go through a heartbreak. But it is really not worth it. You will overcome this eventually. It will take some time. It will hurt. But the pain will fade away, one day. Even though you don't believe me right now. Nobody does at that point. It's important to let your friends know how you feel. Maybe you can do some activities with them to distract you from your thoughts. You are not alone

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Old Jul 29, 2015, 12:21 PM
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Hmmm...ok... Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help....

Sounds like it here...
Im just waiting for death to serve me too...
Which I don't have to care anymore..
Where I can always be her angel from above..

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Old Aug 01, 2015, 09:07 PM
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I helped someone from a different state and she wanted to end it I was able to reach the cops and they helped her. Trying to help and support is the best.

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Old Aug 05, 2015, 09:00 AM
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Old Aug 05, 2015, 09:05 AM
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Hi Elin.. Thanks. I'm still not healing at all... But I'm still alive... Sigh... Life is totally meaningless... If you want you can add me in fb to be my friend. "Marcus Chelsea"

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Old Aug 05, 2015, 11:19 AM
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Isn't it ****ing terrifying that no matter how many promises they made,no matter how long you've been together,someone can get up and walk out of your life without a second thought and you have to carry on living because the world doesn't stop for any of us.

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Old Aug 05, 2015, 12:24 PM
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Very clearly you loved this person and you loved them dearly. For some reason they don't feel this way back, yet there are others who love you, co-workers, family, friends, etc. By giving up on life you're also giving up on any chance to love again as well.
Do you have a safety plan you go by in situations like this?
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Old Aug 06, 2015, 10:01 AM
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Yes, but I do not prefer to choose the other way which is "Replacement" ! It will never end and the cycle will keep repeating (Karma). I had been living in this kind of life of relationship over n over again so I want to put a full stop for this time. It's either I can or can't overcome this obstacle. I guess only people in the same situation like me and had overcome or still living will understand how I really felt now. It depends now only on God will.(fate) Who can really understand and or felt this before ?: It's like "I'm living in a deadly alive's life now worst then better being in death. But I am still not, that's why I am still typing this status now..." Suicidal thoughts, please help....

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Old Aug 06, 2015, 10:15 AM
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In my opinion we should be give the option to go. A voluntary and peaceful exit. Call me selfish but I don't care if anyone misses me.

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Old Aug 06, 2015, 10:16 AM
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In my opinion we should be give the option to go. A voluntary and peaceful exit. Call me selfish but I don't care if anyone misses me.

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Yeah exactly ! So super agree and pls... Me too please... Sighs...

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Old Aug 12, 2015, 05:39 PM
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Old Aug 13, 2015, 01:52 PM
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In my opinion we should be give the option to go. A voluntary and peaceful exit. Call me selfish but I don't care if anyone misses me.

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What do you mean, given the option? People commit suicide all the time. Every day. It's always an option. No one can stop you if it's what you really want. But if you mean people should help you do it, that's never going to happen unless you're terminally ill, and even then most people would find it too painful to help.
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Old Aug 15, 2015, 11:06 AM
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What do you mean, given the option? People commit suicide all the time. Every day. It's always an option. No one can stop you if it's what you really want. But if you mean people should help you do it, that's never going to happen unless you're terminally ill, and even then most people would find it too painful to help.
Actually there was a case just recently in Belgium where a 24yo female was given the option of euhthanasia. From memory i am pretty sure it was from a lifetime of depression with multiple suicide attempts and visits to the ward. The State was going to assist her to die. I am typing this as i lay in bed about to fall asleep. I think it is pretty clear what I meant and i think a lot of members here have had the same thoughts. Thoughts of the most peaceful exit possible to end their suffering. If I run out of treatment options and I am stuck with this prison called depression then I would like to acquire nembutal. Now in my country we have the strictest customs in the world and it wont get through if i import it. Yes there are other options but I dont like them. I have heard all this 'nothing is keeping you here' blah blah before. Well if they don't want to help me then don't hinder me either. I am a bit tired to bother with this now if it matters to you i will dig out the information or maybe you have another question lol

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Old Aug 15, 2015, 11:39 AM
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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/arti...-thoughts.html

I don't like to post things from popular media but atm this is all i can find. It seems like she is not the first to go in that manner either. Seems to be more than a few ...

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Old Aug 26, 2015, 12:01 PM
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Old Sep 12, 2015, 12:14 PM
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Old Sep 12, 2015, 12:16 PM
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Moderately.. Not good not bad.. Still under control.. Thanks Elin.. You take care too..

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Old Sep 13, 2015, 09:37 AM
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hi Djmarcus

I really do think as others have said you should call a hotline to get help for your suicide feelings and also to see a therapist to help you to heal from this.
I do feel that having a purpose in life helps us to go on. This could be a charitable cause that attracts or something that fired you up in easier times. For depression. It is better to have medication. Alcohol does make you feel depressed afterwards and is definitely not a long-term solution. You are doing very well. Keeping going at work and other things despite feeling bad. And that is very difficult to do and you should give yourself the credit for that. It shows you are strong and have what it takes to overcome this. Take care. I hope and pray everything improves for you soon. God bless and best wishes from your friend Francis
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Old Sep 17, 2015, 03:27 PM
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I think of you , hang in there
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Old Sep 17, 2015, 04:00 PM
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Hugs hugs sob sob Suicidal thoughts, please help....Suicidal thoughts, please help.... thanks Elin..

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Old Sep 19, 2015, 11:26 AM
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Hi JDmarcus

I'm sorry that your relationship broke up. But suicide is not the answer it really does destroy the lives of your loved ones that never recover from the bad feelings and you really don't want to do that. Perhaps the best thing to do would be to see a therapist to get help for this problem. Meanwhile try to keep your mind busy doing things to take it away from feeling bad. I hope and pray you feel much better soon. Take care. God bless and best wishes from your friend Francis
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Old Sep 21, 2015, 05:15 AM
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It is the darkest feeling I know, total hopelessness, but if nothing else, hang on for one more day ... just one ... i find it hard to believe that others feel as low and hopeless as I feel but they do, you are not alone and I wish I could take you in my arms right now, I really do. You hang in there, and i will to, you are never alone ... Julie
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Old Sep 25, 2015, 09:51 PM
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It is the darkest feeling I know, total hopelessness, but if nothing else, hang on for one more day ... just one ... i find it hard to believe that others feel as low and hopeless as I feel but they do, you are not alone and I wish I could take you in my arms right now, I really do. You hang in there, and i will to, you are never alone ... Julie

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Old Sep 29, 2015, 09:17 PM
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Have you ever tried meditation? Sometimes people report feeling better after sitting with the pain and getting to know it directly, where it lives in the body, etc rather than running away from it. It loses some of its grip.

Just a thought. Might sound like BS depending on your point of view.

I have dark thoughts too. Hang in there.
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Old Dec 04, 2015, 06:16 PM
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