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Old Jul 05, 2007, 11:14 PM
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Old Jul 05, 2007, 11:17 PM
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I am so sorry you are going through this. You are a wonderful person. I hope things get better for you soon.
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Old Jul 05, 2007, 11:54 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((jinnyann))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))) I am so sorry that this is happening. Please take care of you.

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Old Jul 06, 2007, 01:46 AM
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he found e,mails on my yah00 account which i just opened and just had tymber, cajun hevyg116 and hyung from another site i joined then deleted cos it was dodgy. hevy was going through same probs as me in his marriage and i did make some comments that , if the other way round i would have been mad about.. i also wrote him a poem, as i do, as you all know, saying i missed him that particular night, asked him for a cyber hug cos i felt crap, as i do with all of you and sent that little icon picture saying it's hard when your miles away but cant hug in real life. i suppose it looks bad, and if it was the other way around i would be livid too. a few other comments were made purely throw away and looked bad,but i've known this guy 5 mins. he sent pics of his family and he saw my pics on here. all blown up out of proportion.
i hope you all take care and thanks for your support.

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Old Jul 06, 2007, 05:13 AM
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To me it sounds like someone, him needs to decompress for awhile. If he is a very smoothering mate, I might see it? But there has to be an under lying problem to make this explod like it has. Esh when ppl live with depression in the same house..

I hope this helps, I/we can see the pain...

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Old Jul 06, 2007, 12:33 PM
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Aww, jinny :< Major bearhug!

What a %#@&#! up way to react (husband).
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Old Jul 06, 2007, 05:33 PM
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Take him out and marriage over you'll feel so much bettermarriage over


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Old Jul 06, 2007, 11:00 PM
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Old Jul 09, 2007, 11:34 AM
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I'm really sorry!
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Old Jul 09, 2007, 07:09 PM
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thankyou for all your replies. i have to take some of the blame i suppose for sending him that message on yahoo and not here cos he was at work. to me i was naive and stupid but this new gut made some really bad suggestions to me so i didn't get in touch again. i asked doc jon to delete him from here and he has. i guess i'mm just gullible. as you all know i crave attention aso some of the comments were over the top, but i felt sick when he replied to me and what he said when i knew him for such a short time. he's a cop too. i would be mad if it was the other way around but would not have told the kids. that's what has really cut me up. i just hope we can work things out. i still love him, but i feel betrayed too on the porn thing, makes me feel worthless and unattractive, i cant live up to those images.
take care, just came on to see if i've been deleted, keeping myself busy to take my mind off things

jinny xoxoxoxoxo love you all, thanks for all your support

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Old Jul 09, 2007, 09:20 PM
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good to hear from u jinny
miss ya lots n lots
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Old Jul 09, 2007, 10:29 PM
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Worthless and unatractive, Jinny I don't think so.... It's always what's in the inside that counts. You have a beautiful smile, want you to keep it there....

Truly thinkin of ya,,,,,,
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 06:45 AM
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hope you guys can work it out... I'm not sure if your husband would go for this, but have you guys considered couples counselling at all?
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marriage over marriage over (((((((((((((((((( jinny ))))))))))))))))) marriage over marriage over
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Old Jul 10, 2007, 07:29 PM
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I am so sorry your husband is such a jerk! Why does he feel he needs to do this to you and especially your kids? I am sorry but only a jerk would not listen and just assume the worst! I am sorry to you Jinny but you deserve so much better than this! ((((((((((Jinny))))))))))))).

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Old Jul 12, 2007, 02:55 PM
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Jinny,

This is my first post to this website and I have to agree with everyone else. Let me read some of the stuff here. It is tough for some of us guys (because we are so macho) that you might others for advice.

Hopefully, he will see what I see that there is some warm people here. I do not know you but if you are like some of these people here, then it is an honor to know you.

Good luck and hope to see you around on the post.
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