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Jul 03, 2007, 02:18 PM
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They are winning today...
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Jul 03, 2007, 02:49 PM
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Direction....Don't let them!......FP
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Jul 03, 2007, 02:52 PM
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tell that little voice to dry up and go away..
*hugs*
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Jul 03, 2007, 03:16 PM
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((((Direction))))
we are here to hold you up and block out those lies. you are important and we care and are listening. purplesecrets |
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Jul 03, 2007, 03:16 PM
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I surrender ... I don't want to fight anymore
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Jul 03, 2007, 04:10 PM
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 Keep fighting the crap and I will too? 
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Jul 03, 2007, 04:58 PM
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(((((((((( Direction ))))))))))
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Jul 03, 2007, 07:50 PM
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Your truth is stronger than your lies Direction. Hold tightly onto your truth and you will make it through. We're here to help you when you stumble or fall. Just remember the truth will always win over lies!
Hugsssss J |
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Jul 03, 2007, 08:41 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((DIRECTION))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
  Thinkin of you, as you are goin thru the down-side..Look here, we are! |
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Jul 03, 2007, 09:02 PM
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((((Direction)))))
Nooo, you said it yourself, the lies within are just lies. That's all. They've got no real existence except what you give them. Is there any way to distract yourself from them for a while? Go for a run, write a journal, play with your kids?
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Jul 03, 2007, 09:57 PM
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I've tried taking extra clonazepam...like a bit more than a double does...
Not as healthy but the kids are asleep...and I've got some rum to numb me...and knock the manic part out of me...
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Jul 03, 2007, 10:08 PM
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Lies can't win unless you do give in. If you can't fight them, at least say you aren't listening today. Is that what the drink is for?
 not a good way to go...alcohol is a depressant and you will feel worse for feeding the lies. (((((hugs)))) Take some "me time" but don't allow your mind to stay stuck on the negative things. I know you will probably say there is nothing but negative, but there are neutral things if you can't find anything positive. Think on those things, but stop your thoughts before you turn them negative or against yourself. (Meaning, if you think, the sun is shining... stop there. Don't go further and think about how it will probably rain or how you can't enjoy it or... see what I mean? Stop with the good thought right there and leave it. Don't turn things against yourself. (I know how this goes... I've suffered terribly with depression.) TC of yourself, you're worth it. 
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Jul 03, 2007, 10:23 PM
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Sky...I know you are right and it would be the same advice I would give...
tonight it's coming to a head ... I need to be back at work on Thursday after two weeks off...and I see the owner of buildings I manage is coming in Monday...I'm just not ready to handle another visit...third in less then a year...GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR! So I'll barely just start getting organized and then slammed with an owner visit...
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Jul 04, 2007, 02:56 AM
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that does suck. But you're up to it, if you've managed two owner visits you can get through this one. Plus, at least the visit isn't tomorrow...
Do you have people you can delegate to to take some stress off? I find if I can take stress off somehow, sometimes the depression goes away for a bit...
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Jul 04, 2007, 11:49 AM
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how are you doing today? good luck on the visit. -onyx
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Jul 04, 2007, 02:47 PM
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Continuing to let the lies win...not even trying to find a reason anymore...
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Jul 04, 2007, 07:15 PM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((Direction))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))Please try and not believe the lies.
BB
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Jul 04, 2007, 07:27 PM
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(((((((((((((((((direction))))))))))))))))))))
you're not alone - lots of people here care about you!!!!! how bout we come up with a few ways of beating down those LIES!!!! we can.... hit 'em with a frying pan throw 'em off a cliff bury 'em in the sand freeze 'em till they're stiff burn 'em till their toasty drown 'em in a river i think we've got 'em mostly the rest we'll leave to shiver on the banks of that old river!!!!!!! feel better dear!!!!!!
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Jul 04, 2007, 09:00 PM
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Thanks gostryter ...
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Jul 04, 2007, 09:03 PM
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meander... I did say that...I have changed my signature...to something more hopeful...
I wasn't much of a father over the last two weeks...I'm angry at myself...the kids deserved a better two weeks with me... I won't believe the lie that this somehow makes me a bad father...I will refuse to believe it.
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Jul 06, 2007, 11:06 PM
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It definitely doesn't make you a bad father, so it's good you're not believing that you're not. My parents had bad times too, when I was growing up, but they were still good parents, and I still loved them, like I'm sure your kids do. And once you're past the lies, the next time that the kids are with you, you guys can all have fun together. Don't beat yourself up about the last two weeks, cause that probably won't help...
I like the new signature :-) Or perhaps you could try an elastic rope?
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Jul 07, 2007, 06:09 AM
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Thanks meander...
Besides it's not like those two weeks makes up are relationships...though divorced...I have my three kids three of the 7 days of the week...and when my x is in school even more often... I've talked to them a little about the ups and downs...not like they didn't already catch on...for some reason I've always been fairly level with them ... meaning myself ... and how I react to them...I think it was because my father was so aggressive and would rant for hours... Though I should be sleeping...something is on mind...can't figure it out...been sitting in limbo...suspect the lack of sleep may be indicating an upward movement...well the kids see their T tomorrow...T left a message reminding us...and indicated that if I needed any time we would fit it in around the boys...he is a really good T...I'm glad I made the change.
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Jul 07, 2007, 07:41 AM
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hi Direction!
from what you've written, sounds like you're doing great as a dad! did you go back to work this week? how'd that go? i'm having a hard time with my job right now. hope you have a good weekend!
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Jul 07, 2007, 11:31 AM
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I hope you win in your fight over the lies.
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Jul 07, 2007, 11:44 PM
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Went back for Thurs and Friday...I've some reports to complete tomorrow...also get to have client come in Mon-Wed...nothing like coming back from a two week vacation....
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