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Jul 10, 2007, 06:30 AM
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 Our son... Major outburst... tore up his schedule and everything I've created to help him. Hit us... screaming... ANGRY... I want to disappear... this is too much... I'm on the ground... crawling... You don't need support during summer... oh no... never... right... hmmm... Good thinking- NOT! Need it even more now, than when he's got school! Who am I to continue living in this madhouse??? I feel like crying crying crying... |
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Jul 10, 2007, 06:36 AM
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(((((((((((((((((((((((((((((poetrylover)))))))))))))))))))))))))
Have a good, long cry. You aren't in any shape right now to try and figure out solutions... give yourself some care... 
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Jul 10, 2007, 06:40 AM
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((((((poetry)))))) Sky's right, it can help
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Jul 10, 2007, 07:50 AM
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I am so sorry Nina.
Can you get someone to take over just so you can take a break. Is there any member of your familly who can help you out with this? Your husband familly? Friends? I know you have more then one problem to deal with. Try to get some rest if you can. If you can get away by yourself for a day or two, do it. I love you my friend! (((((((((((Nina))))))))))) |
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Jul 10, 2007, 08:00 AM
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((((((((((((((((((((((((Poetry))))))))))))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry you are feeling like this hon. I wish I had the answer to fix it all  All I know is that when grandson gets like that, I do my best to keep a calm and monotone voice with him so that I don't flame his anger. Sometimes, I say absolutely nothing and let him rant all he wants. Soon he is over it and asking for forgiveness. When he is calmed we can talk about things. I don't know if that is possible with your son or not. But I do hope you can find some peace today in the little things.....and the smile will return to your face. Sending you much love and strength to get you all through this hon.xoxoxo Jean |
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Jul 10, 2007, 08:37 AM
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((((((((((((((((( Nina )))))))))))))))))
 with love your fuzzy friend
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Jul 10, 2007, 08:41 AM
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(((((((((((((((nina)))))))))))))))
how can ppl in those postions decide what you need and dont need, let them live in your shoes for a day i doubt they would cope, we are here if you want to vent understand how hard things can get in the summer (((((((((((((((((nina))))))))))))))))
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Jul 10, 2007, 09:17 AM
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(((((((((((((((((( nina ))))))))))))))))))
I understand in some ways...the no escape from continual... Cry and get it out. Pamper yourself in the ways you can if it's just for stolen minutes. Try to get some help for you to get a break. I wish I could offer more, but I know it's sometimes just making it minute to minute, grabbing stolen moments along the way. Please remember, though, it will alleviate in a couple of months. Until then, take care of you if you can and SCREAM for help when you need. Love, KD
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Jul 10, 2007, 09:45 AM
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((((((((((((((((Poetrylover)))))))))))))))))))))
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Jul 10, 2007, 10:03 AM
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Wanted to pass along, that I'm thinkin of you........ T/C,,, me |
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Jul 10, 2007, 11:58 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear you're struggling this much .... I wish there were more that us here on PC could do for you .... I know that i have a really angry brother sometimes ... and he ofter "freaks out" and breaks things, or takes it out on my parents, and I know how much it hurts them sometimes. Just try and give him a little space to breathe ... if he's anything like my brother, you're only going to give him fuel if you try and stop his actions directly. Take good care of yourself, hugs, Jacq
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#12
Jul 10, 2007, 01:43 PM
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Have a good cry Hon!
I am thinking of you! (((Nina)))
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Jul 10, 2007, 01:45 PM
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Who was it who said "you don't need support during summer" if its ok to ask?
 Whoever it was, aren't they just the clever person/people knowing what you need? 
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Jul 10, 2007, 02:08 PM
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He's had one more severe outburst! What a day! I love my son, but boy do I hate aspergers the way he's got it! I'm afraid I got pretty unpleasant talking to, having the social worker on the phone... then I cried... couldn't talk... My husband has a really hard time dealing with our son. Poor daughter of ours... I feel so sorry for her... Thank you so much for the words of compassion, support and understanding- you've all written to me! I need you guys! |
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