 |
| FAQ/Help |
| Calendar |
| Search |
|
#1
Jul 05, 2007, 06:50 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
my hubby found some e.mails that were innocent and e.mail addresses from you guys and has flipped thinking i'm having cyber sex with half of america. you all know i am prone to sending little messages and hugs to both men and women. i got called a ***** ,c...t, lying *****, every horrible name you can think of and i've done nothing wrong. i went to a tattoo place where my ex works and wrote a poem saying i think he's cute still, which is bad i know, but now he thinks i'm in constant touch with him and i haven't spoken to him once. i've deleted my msn account and trying to delete yahoo cos he wants me to and he may even delete my account here so i wont be able to chat or post any more. he wants me out the house and he's telling the kids all these lies that are in his head.he also told me if i take tablets to do the job properly this time. i also found out he has been watching porn and he knows i hate it. he's not been interested in sex for ages and now i know why. i donnt know what to do. i'm so angry and hurt that he thinks i can do this. i am supportive and caring when i pm you guys and e.mail, it's my nature, but he thinks the e.mails were love letters!
i do have hevyg's number cos i've called him at work to see if he's had a better day and i've called tymber and cajun for the same reasons or if i'm low and i want help, but that's all. my marriage is over because of nothing. jinny xxxxxxxx |
|
#2
Jul 05, 2007, 06:56 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
(((((((((((((jin)))))))))))))
__________________
SNOWFLAKE |
|
#3
Jul 05, 2007, 07:11 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
((((((((((((((((((((((((jinnybaby))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry this is happening. Please stay safe hon. Take it one step at a time. Remember to breath slowly. Know you have friends here who love you and are there for you when you need us. Love & Hugs Jean |
|
#4
Jul 05, 2007, 07:17 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
jinny sorry hubby reacted in this way, my advice is to let him read some of the stuff here, as all is inocent, you are a terfic person
(((((((((((((jinny)))))))))))))))
__________________
 No kind action ever stops with itself. One kind action leads to another. Good example is followed. A single act of kindness throws out roots in all directions, and the roots spring up and make new trees. The greatest work that kindness does to others is that it makes them kind themselves.
|
|
#5
Jul 05, 2007, 07:30 AM
|
||||
|
||||
  (((((((((((((((((( jinny )))))))))))))))))
__________________
|
|
#6
Jul 05, 2007, 08:03 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
((((jinny)))) let him read. you have nothing to hide. he just doesn't understand. i wonder if he even understands your issues - mental health issues. my hubby knows i'm on psych central, but he's not nosy as to what i'm writing about. he teases me sometimes that i'm doing cybersex, but he knows it's nothing like that. we joke a lot in our relationship, which helps us in dark times. i pray that your hubby understands. if not, please know that we're here for you and that we would never leave you.
|
|
#7
Jul 05, 2007, 09:10 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
I hope and pray its not true.A marriage is a precious thing. Maybe he could post on this very thread and have a rant at us all. Hope he doesn't delete your account completely. from Jjulia. (female) who comes to this site for support re my family.
__________________
be brave.faithful loyal and strong.Jjulia |
|
#8
Jul 05, 2007, 09:16 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
(((((((((((((((Jinny)))))))))))))))
I'm so sorry this is happening to you ... i agree completely with the others as far as letting him read some stuff on here. I'm sure once he realises that nothing is going on with you and other men on this site he will feel horrible and realise what he is putting you through. I sincerely hope that you guys can work this out ... Jacq
__________________
The unexamined life is not worth living. -Socrates |
|
#9
Jul 05, 2007, 10:18 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
jinny ~ good advice from the others. let your hubby see the posts and messages.
a bunch of (((( and ))))) is hardly cyber sex!!!! otherwise i've been having a lot of it and didn't know it!!!!!!  kinda sounds like there might be more to this than your emails. your hubby doesn't sound like he's a very happy guy. i'm sorry about that. i'm not married and can't imagine what you're going through! but PLEASE take care of your kids!!!!! don't let hubby put them in the middle. hope you can keep posting! take care!!!!!! ((((((((((((((((((((((jinny)))))))))))))))))))))))))
__________________
I can calculate the motion of heavenly bodies but not the madness of people. ~ Isaac Newton |
|
#10
Jul 05, 2007, 10:27 AM
|
|||
|
|||
|
ohhhh jinny.... tell him that sending hugs and support to men is just caring for people...
you are caring and supportive to ALL of us...men and women....
|
|
#11
Jul 05, 2007, 10:58 AM
|
|||
|
|||
 Jinny, You know in your heart you've done nothing wrong.. I'm thinking of you......
|
|
#12
Jul 05, 2007, 11:02 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
yes this is really stupid of him to think!
what`s the heck, you are a decent woman! |
|
#13
Jul 05, 2007, 11:43 AM
|
||||
|
||||
|
((((((((((Jinny))))))))))) I'm so sorry dear
__________________
|
|
#14
Jul 05, 2007, 12:05 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
why is it we get married again? i forget ...there must have been some good reason
ive reached the stage (age) in my life where no one is going to be deleting anything or telling me what to do . No one owns me. WE come in to this world alone and we will go out alone. Married doesnt mean owned. If you have been neglected for such a long period of time it would be understandable if you did find love somewhere else. Here we have a phrase.....play me or trade me....or s--t or get off the pot. Feel free to show him this post also. |
|
#15
Jul 05, 2007, 12:44 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Are you taking the kids with you to mum's...if not change the locks and stay put where you are...
__________________
Direction  Ripple Effect - Small things can make a difference |
|
#16
Jul 05, 2007, 02:21 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
actually im pretty sure the people running this site wont let someone else delete your account and especially not after you posted this......take care of yourself kerry.....
|
|
#17
Jul 05, 2007, 02:42 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
(((((((((((((
 ))))))))))))))))))))
|
|
#18
Jul 05, 2007, 03:29 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
((((((((((jinny))))))))))) i am so sorry hun. i cant believe this is happening. you are the most wonderful person and dont deserve to be called such horrible things. i agree that you should let him come and see what this site is about. we aren't having cyber orgies. but we do love , care, and support each other here. i hope you can do the same thing with your children so they dont believe the lies and his assumptions. he is wrong for dragging your children in the middle. he thinks he's hurting you, but he is also hurting them. i've been a child in the middle and its horible to feel like you have to choose between parents. you are in my thoughts always. and know no matter what, you are a dear friend to me.
much,much love recluse1 |
|
#19
Jul 05, 2007, 03:41 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
Jinny I'm sorry...wow. Can you show him the posts? He should not end a marriage over assumptions. I hope you don't delete your account. You've done nothing wrong.
(((hugs)))
__________________
My new blog http://www.thetherapybuzz.com "I am not obsessing, I am growing and healing can't you tell?" |
|
#20
Jul 05, 2007, 04:47 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
I am so sorry for you Jinny...that's one heck of a blow to deal with all at once.
I'm sorry...I pray you guys can get it together. take good care of yourself...heal. d.
__________________
|
|
#21
Jul 05, 2007, 05:14 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
((((Jinny))))
I'm so sorry for your situation and hope it gets better for you and your kids very soon. Take good care, your friend, Okie
__________________
|
|
#22
Jul 05, 2007, 06:36 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
If you want the marriage to survive, I hope things gets better. If you are better off without him, I hope the bumpy part is over soon and things get better.
__________________
|
|
#23
Jul 05, 2007, 10:08 PM
|
||||
|
||||
|
(((jinny))) I'm sorry to hear you are going through this. Keep your head up. I personally doubt that this is all that has "caused" such an ending, as there is always much more under the surface esp when ppl react like he is. Do what you must and take care of you.
Come back to PC when you can and let us know how you are doing.
__________________
|
|
#24
Jul 05, 2007, 10:49 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
i agree
|
|
#25
Jul 05, 2007, 10:56 PM
|
|||
|
|||
|
u will always be my emom
love ya kezza always and forever |
| Reply |
This is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.|
|
Similar Threads
|
||||
| Thread | Forum | |||
| Please help the sex in my marriage | Relationships & Communication | |||
| My Marriage... | Grief and Loss | |||
| How much does 'marriage' mean to you? | Relationships & Communication | |||
| When do you know when your marriage is over? | Relationships & Communication | |||
| When do you know when your marriage is over? | Other Mental Health Discussion | |||
My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.
Linear Mode
