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Old Jan 27, 2019, 05:46 AM
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I do believe miracles can happen, captaineo. I wish you the best of luck in life. Take care of yourself. Feel free to PM me anytime. Sending many hugs to you
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Old Jan 27, 2019, 06:30 AM
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I also believe miracles can happen, yes. Some people think it's just foolish nonsense but things happen all the time that must be the will or mercy, compassion, of a higher power. I do believe that. But should we believe in them? Well, to me, only if you think it's the truth, captaineo.
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Old Jan 28, 2019, 06:09 PM
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I do believe miracles can happen, captaineo. I wish you the best of luck in life. Take care of yourself. Feel free to PM me anytime. Sending many hugs to you


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Old Jan 28, 2019, 06:11 PM
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I also believe miracles can happen, yes. Some people think it's just foolish nonsense but things happen all the time that must be the will or mercy, compassion, of a higher power. I do believe that. But should we believe in them? Well, to me, only if you think it's the truth, captaineo.


Yes my friend I think is a matter of acceptance. I can only change my self to a better version and see if she still wants me. I will never love anyone again but her and she knows it. I just didn’t expect it that she could be cruel.
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Old Jan 30, 2019, 04:47 PM
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I am so depressed I feel all around me is dark. To see my kids I have a paralegal who mediates and I have to pay her 700 USD for each time, how can people profit from my misery. I asked her to just mediate to ask my ex wife to see my kids monthly. My exwife does not answer my emails and calls, her family does not help, and I am alone in Japan. A culture that is closed to foreigners by nature. And I love my exwife so much how can I cure my broken heart and every single time I see a glimpse of the life I had with her how can I forget her, I miss her so much, I think I have no way out and I want to take my life. How can I cure myself? If I only could get my kids exwife I need some advice some help.
I'm sorry that you are struggling right now! Please do not take your life. It will devastate your kids and make your ex happy that you are not around.
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Old Jan 31, 2019, 07:00 AM
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Thank you my friends I will keep fighting. In this life or the next I will get her back. And when the bad thoughts come I will reach out to you guys, my friends. Love you all.
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Old Feb 03, 2019, 04:24 PM
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I feel so hopeless. When someone you love leaves you and a piece of your heart is torn out, you can never be the same. This was the biggest blow I have ever received in my life. And I am scarred. Now is living with what I have left in me.
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I feel so hopeless. When someone you love leaves you and a piece of your heart is torn out, you can never be the same. This was the biggest blow I have ever received in my life. And I am scarred. Now is living with what I have left in me.
Sorry that you are broken hearted. It is an unbearable pain.

Grieving takes time...

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Old Feb 03, 2019, 05:46 PM
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You are having a rough day. Yes you deserve life and happiness. I think you miss your kids terribly. What heartbreak... A good lawyer is a must. I didn't have that and lost so much.
I miss my marriage and husband though why as he threw me away for someone else. It is a greater challenge to go through divorce with mental health issues. I take it day by day. And as time goes by the hurt lessens. Maybe day by day you can breathe and take one task at a time for visitation/custody. Here's a hug.
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Old Feb 06, 2019, 03:57 AM
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Thank you friends. I remember once reading a book “Man Search for Meaning” or something like that written by Viktor Frankie who was Jewish psychiatrist survivor of the Nazi concentration camps, in short is a good book and tells many stories about how he could survive and then after his career of medicine using logotherapy talks about how we have to find meaning to our pain and in that process it become bearable. I think he is right but bearing pain till end of days is not that easy.
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Old Feb 08, 2019, 04:27 PM
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I hope you're doing ok, captaineo. You're a wonderful person and you deserve to feel well. We all love you here. I'm so sorry, please don't give up. I hope you'll feel better soon. Sending many hugs to you
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Old Feb 08, 2019, 11:51 PM
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Thank you MickeyCheeky, I hired a new lawyer may be she can help find a way to see my children. And hopefully see my wife, I am hopeful that she will also see the light when we go through the family courts. This will be hard and painful but we need to settle this better for our children and for the love I have for her.
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Old Feb 10, 2019, 04:31 AM
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Guys do you know of any good therapist that does Skype meetings, I need someone to help me get out of this crazy situation of constant sadness.
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Old Feb 10, 2019, 12:40 PM
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Hi my friend,
I don’t know of a good therapist who does Skype meetings. You’ve asked a good question!

Please don’t give up and keep searching for a safe place or safe places to express feelings and work towards becoming free from this situation of constant sadness. I’m sending thoughtfulness and care. As you know many here on pc are good listeners and care about others.

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Old Feb 24, 2019, 04:57 PM
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I hired a new lawyer and she is investigating and looks like my ex has moved twice, the lawyer (she seems like a expert) is telling me that she may be with someone or remarried and I may be facing the two dads situation.
This is just horrible for my depression and anxiety and I don’t want to overdose, work is hard enough dealing with A”&¥ holes at work. Does any one know of a online group for divorced dads and how to deal with children in this situation?
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